Bottoming for the First Time: He Used Me || Gay Sex Talk

Tylor thank you for sharing this story. I felt for a moment like we were best of friends and you were telling me your story directly. It’s been 4 years since you posted this so I hope you’re in a much better place now and that someone very special came into your life. I don’t understand why guys have to be so mean to each other.

U did not do anything wrong u were in love , he was not in love with u , u r fine u r sexy , sexy guys get used , u find someone if u not have a man already , u got a sexy body

Taylor you seem to be a nice guy you looks grate take your time yhe right one is out there for you i can feel your pain i hope only best for you bro don't let any one play with you heart you are a good guy i love you bro take care of you self

I am so sorry this happened to you, I cried listening to you. You are such a special person.

I’m so sorry this happened I had a similar experience and I’ve been numb for so long you are a beautiful human being and no one deserves that

Just saw this, I am so sorry that you had to go through this. I hope you are doing better today and have found someone that wants you for you.

If you ever need to talk about it ….feel free…. All experiences in life make you wiser ….life is not always so cruel …. Look out for the rainbow ….it is around the corner!

Hey Don't give up Not EVERYBODY is like this You'll be fine...Take back your personal power and don't give it others so freely.. reach a balance if you can Find people who care about you for YOU

Im so sorry. It shouldn't be this way. Keep your head up and stand firm. God will put someone in your life who loves you for you.

Being used is a deep hurt!
I’m much older than you.
It won’t go away. But,time will change things.
It will eventually heal.
You need to tell yourself that
there are good,caring gay men out there!
Love yourself always!

What you were saying sounds like my life and I understand what you’re going through. Trust me. I’ve been there and I don’t like it to
.chad

You are a good guy and it’s their loss.

Hope your going well buddy. Your a decent and geniune young man and hope things are on the up and up. 🇦🇺😎🤴

I'm sorry that you experienced this. Some men are just dicks.

Taylor you are an inspiration and very brave young man. There is someone out there who will make you feel loved and whole again. I’m here for you if you need to talk. Phil

I just came across this video and I can say that almost everyone has had this happened to them and it’s so discusting why people do this. My heart goes out to you because this isn’t something that will get better with it being 5 years ago. He won’t feel remorse and that is how you know someone is extremely immature. We all appreciate you and have your back man! ❤ love ya!!

You’re much better than this. Taylor you are precious beautiful handsome young man Wishing you’re healthy happy and safe always
Unfortunately you had a very bad experience but you have learned from it , I think you are a very handsome young man impressive
I know you will find a perfect guy who will love you make you happy take extra care of yourself ❤

You’re such a beautiful boy with a very sweet personality. Their is 8 billion people out there you have so much love coming your way. ❤

Not all men are that way!!
I definitely would not just want you for your body….. thats horrible that u had to go through this!!

You will have your time, but nothing lasts forever. I'm 78 years old, and I've been around the block...like, a lot. I totaly felt what you were talking about because I've been there myself. I'm not a creepy old man. I want to be honest and share with you that you are not alone. Don't lose faith in yourself. you have worth, keep smiling, it looks better than looking sad.

You never let anyone talk you into something you don't want to do I been there before it's not a nice filling at all

Woww Forza !!!go on yr so young a big hug !!

I so feel for you. Why does being gay have to be so difficult? You're a good man. Isn't being celibate better than feeling the way you feel right now? Its OK to say No. I hope you are OK. I care about how you are coping as a person.

Hey, I know it's been some years since you posted this, I hope you are staying strong, I was in a similar situation when I was 17, the first guy I slept with was also in the Army, and we had been together over the 10 months we were introduced and as I was new to being gay, and I had no one around to talk to about being gay, so everything was new to me, and when we finally slept together we were outdoors, and we went back to his, and I was made to sleep on the sofa. And I then had to walk home which took about 90 minutes, and he was supposed to pick me up later, and he never showed which then led me having to come out to my family even though I hadn't come to terms of my sexuality. The pain is horrendous, and I still feel it today, but I didn't know what to look for regarding red flags. The only advice I can give is listen to your body, it knows best and don't let anyone convince you if you are not 100% ready. all the best xx

This will soon pass..you will survive 😢 Clara in Las Vegas

This was five years ago, but you are loved. Know that you are a beautiful, worthy soul and that one day someone will come along who deserves your love. 😘

This was so vulnerable. I wish I could give you a hug

I am so glad you overcome this. You deserve the best. You deserve someone who will love you for you. Much love to you Taylor.

Taylor, I am sorry you had this bad first experience and hope you find a man worthy of sharing life with you.

You must be feeling like a door mat. Sadly this happens and we can only learn from this. Be brave, be strong and set your sights a bit higher.

Hey ! I feel your pain brother ! Need anything friend to talk to or what ever here for you ! He should have never never done that to you ! 😢❤

I'm so sorry sweetie you don't Deserve that B.S. wish i could make it better I know exactly how you feel I've had abandonment issues

You have a lot more to give then what you lost! Your story broke my heart, because of what it made you feel and even more that you think it is your fault – IT IS NOT! You are a special person; you are courageous and strong for sharing your story with the world. You have a beautiful mind and soul and if people just see you body, I pity them for being so dumb. One can prepare for a lot of things in life, but hardly ever for the stupidity of others. I know you know German, so you will understand this:
Was kümmert es die deutsche Eiche, wenn sich das Wildschwein an ihr schubbert. Die Eiche wird sich noch stolz erheben, wenn das Wildschwein schon längst ein Barten ist.

Taylor, just came across this. My heart goes out to you. Hope you’re okay now. May God bless and keep you. Lanny, NE OH

Glad you are doing ok now. You seem like a sweet guy. I think a lot of gay guys go through something similar to some degree. Gay community has a good amount of shadiness. The key to take wisdom from it. Thanks for sharing your story. I hope it helps someone spot the red flags.

"It's not because he wants to be with you, it's because he wants to be with your body"
Story of my entire gay life

❤

Wow Taylor, as a demisexual myself, this is sad to hear. your an amazing guy. glad you healed from this.

Thank you for this 💙
Whats missing is that society tells girls they deserve someone who will treat them right. Young gay nen need this message as well.
To look for someone based on the "heart, not just the part".
Hookup culture is very destructive to the wellbeing - both mental & physical health of gay community....

Really you don’t need to be too hard on yourself.i know I’m seeing this five years later. The thing that I have learned is that you can say no if you truly don’t want to. It takes a fair bit to do that but believe me after you have said no I’ve said it a couple of times it gets easier. It’s about what you want as well. Your confidence will grow also. xx

I see why he wanted to do the deed with you. Your smoking hot 🔥

I hope your life becomes more peaceful and happy. Life brings us this far, step by step.❤

Realizing this video is 5 years old.

It’s unfortunately not an isolated incident, but rather common.

My first serious relationship, I was in it for the long haul and had told the guy so from the first day we met, and he said he was too, but he dumped me nearly a year later right after having sex with me, saying he had started dating someone new.

Had he broken up with me some other way than in bed right after having sex with me, I might have not been so distraught, but I bawled like a baby as I got up out of his bed, his apartment, and life.

A couple months later he called me saying he missed me and wanted to get together for dinner. I was at work when he called and said I’d call him when I got off. I didn’t. That was despite him being the hottest gay guy in town by a long shot.

Fast forward 20 years later and I did call him back, wondering whatever happened to him, met up with him again, and guess what?

I was so happy that he broke up with me despite how horrible it was for me. Why?

Because he had changed. He wasn’t the same guy I had fallen in love with. He had gotten into drugs, went to prison for dealing drugs, and even had worked in the porn industry. Long story short, I didn’t hang out with him very long before I went my separate way.

I learned from my experience that it’s important to remember when we face rejection, that our disappointment or heartbreak is tied up with our idealistic vision of the future.

But in reality, we don’t have a freaking clue what the future holds.

So instead of allowing ourselves to despair over what we envisioned, I think we should realize we don’t know the future and trust that the rejection happened in order to realign us cosmically onto a much better life path.

You’ve probably heard this a million times and think it cliche, but it’s SO true, it’s HIS loss, not yours.

You should be thankful that you didn’t end up with a person like that. We learn a lot in life from our experiences, especially the bad ones, and had you not experienced what you did, had he “played” you any differently to string you along to merely satisfy his sex drive, you might have very well ended up with him for life.

Be grateful that you didn’t.

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This man was raped he was fucking told to do this. This is not a one way street like WTF.

Why are you naked? “Im gay, naked and another man wanted sex with me straight away…. Hello! Men? Sex? Naked bodies? Are you fucking dumb? Seems to me you’re just a narcissist

Taylor U R A Beautiful person.
That means EVERYTHING.
Much love to you.❤

Taylor don't think that mate we've all been there ,not everyone is like that there will be someone out there for you that is special he's a jerk he's not worth it you are a special person. Don't cry mate your not at fault ❤

Sorry you had to experience this, unfortunately this happens to many of us. I’ve been where you are many times. Some guys will act like everything is cool but really they know they won’t or can’t give you want you want even when you have been open with them. You’re a cute, sweet guy and seem like a nice guy to get to know. You will have to kiss many frogs until you find that prince that you deserve. I’ve noticed it’s becoming harder in the gay world these days to find a normal date shall we say. It may take a lot of time but you will heal from this trust me. Someone will want to be with you for you and not just your body trust me. The last time I didn’t wanna go through this I stopped looking and found my ex and had a great 6 years together.
Keep talking to people and don’t hold it inside. There are many of us who will always listen and try to support you. Hang in there Taylor 😊

Loved

It’s been 4 years since this experience - & I’ve taken this video down & put it back up multiple times. It took a while, but I’ve healed from this experience & only recently though back to the original impact this video had & the similar stories others shared with me. There was a lot more to what happened other than what I ramble on about in this video - & it took a long time to come to grips with that - but now that I have I put this back up not because I’m still hurting or suffering from the experience, but because I’ve overcome it & anyone going through anything similar needs to know that even if it breaks you, it won’t end you. Much love.🖤