Keys To Self Confidence (From A Girl Who Grew Up Ugly)

Men can’t help but look. It’s ok

Yes the beauty standard part is really it ❤

I have a pointed nose lol my daughter loves it tho and says it’s perfect

Yet i don't think acne/hyperpigmentation/scars will be anyone's beauty standard 😔😔

“Stop hiding yourself” i needed to hear that

I like the way you talk!

"Start with the thing you want, rather than you wanting it." This is a profound thought!

I keep rewatching this video because I need to be remembered about this tips

THANK YOU ❤

This is gold

I'm a man, I like to believe I'm "masculine". I'm proud of my muscular physique and frame, I'm proud of my thick facial hair and features, I'm proud of my voice and even dominance in certain situations. But I still find fascinating the female's perspective, I still find it fascinating to learn how is it that you live and everything a man can learn from a woman, despite being "masculine", I may wear makeup during certain occasions, I paint my nails black, wear high heel boots, have an outrageously long skincare routine, get pedis and manis monthly and do a few "feminine" hobbies and self-care habits. But I don't give two fucks! Your content has made me come to term with the duality of my behavior, really thank you for being such an icon.

In days very difficult like these that I’m going through recently , I need to say that your talk has become my shelter .

i love this!!! my quote i live by is "don't let little minds infect you"

As soon as you said to point out that feature of me that i've hated for so long i just touched my nose without a single thought, and then you just literally described my nose's shape as the very example.... This felt damn crazy for a moment. Thank you so much tho, been struggling with it for many years now.<3 23/F

The dressing down for men part I would like to clarify for some women: It’s not that men look at you it’s HOW they look at AND treat you & all (hot) women for that matter. CISHET MEN ARE DE-SGUSTING & DO NOT SEE WOMEN AS PEOPLE!!! A woman is out in her best hot outfit feeling her best & they somehow see it as an invitation to disrespect her safety & act as they never learned basic human decency, respect, or AGE BOUNDARIES (she’s 15 what in gods name are you missing boy?????)
I hate that this is a thing I really do, we should all dress hot and be safe but as much as we argue our right to do so, I think we as women inevitably understand that dressing down is a way of protection. ‘Be hot but not to where I get assaulted or worse’ type way. Men will be gross regardless, but they’ll be less bold to outright threaten your boundaries, life, and safety with aggression & violence if you’re dressed in “hotter” things.

you can also enjoy asking someone out

These are talks I imagine I should be having with my mother, if I’d had one. 🖤

title made me cry. ❤ so many mental wounds from growing up ugly and still making efforts to glow up but ive definitely made progress. still, my self confidence is terrible and ive stopped myself from living life until i "glowed up" but its not possible. staying isolated is only making it harder for me to lose weight, live the life i want so i need the confidence to embody the life of the woman i want to become. even if i dont look exactly like her yet. i will, eventually. soon. but man this made me happy especially after seeing your video on how to be a muse. knowing someone incredibly intelligent and beautiful like you, basically the woman i wanna be tbh. it just feels nice knowing someone gets it.

Being seen is not about our appearance, its our vibration. When we are confident, cos we are comfortable being all of ourselves, we become more of ourselves, that is beauty. Vulnerability is beauty, Beauty is in motion.
When we women come through adversity, overcome the impossible, do without there being any hope, lost their reason for living then resurrect, this is beauty. Never underestimate growth, evolution, it has nothing to do with the mirror, what is visible and all to do with the Goddess, the Divine you are honouring, the reverence for your completeness.
When you respect yourself, pay homage to your passages, growth through the initiations, this is so much more than a physical form could ever express. I think insects are beautiful, gnarled, aged trees, rugged Mountains, the tapestry of clouds, are we not more than flesh and bones? Look for beauty that needs names, for has not been defined, beauty that inspires you to write, paint, sing, make rhythms for, for it has moved you.

I have watched many, many videos on confidence, but this is the one! I feel like I finally have the tools to unlock it and live my best life

omg i just found ur channel yesterday and everything u say resonates so deeply, thank you for your wisdom

I think you might save me from the voices in my head, been stuck in life and in my head since the pamdemic, maybe I'll be free, maybe

Feels like in you I have a friend I was always dreamt about ❤

Great video

I love this channel so much💖💖💖💖 everyone needs your videos ✨🩵

Discovering you has been an early birthday present to me. You are everything I ever needed and tried to find on the internet that doesn’t exist except for here. 🫶🏻I am so grateful to have found your channel.

Recent arrival to the channel. For some reason YT decided to recommend your "ugliness is hurting us" video and I found myself going through the backlog and playing the uploads in succession. There is one part in this video in particular that resonated with me a lot: I fell in love in 2023 after a really long time and got my heart broken because it was an unrequited love type situation, but there is a moment that will always stay with me and that I treasure greatly, and it's that feeling of having stayed true to myself throughout the whole thing, a newfound sense of maturity and level-headedness, of poise and dignity. This "island" of peace during that period of heartbreak and emotional turmoil.

I feel this is the type of scenario that, moving forward, will become a key element in the way I approach romantic pursuits. Not in a calculated or by the numbers thing, but a kind of muscle memory. A tone, a shade of "desire" if that makes sense. Something I can remember and almost grasp, alongside the knowledge that I don't have to warp my self in the process.

I honestly don't think it was pure chance that led me here. Fellow artist signing off (I finished my debut novel recently). You have a new fan.

As a man, I gotta say, sometimes showing less skin and leaving things to the imagination can be sexier. Booty shorts and crop tops are so common nowadays that they don't do anything for me anymore. I've seen tons of female legs and bellies like that, the novelty of it is gone. What does capture my attention though is some high-heel knee boots, A long dress that amplifies their hourglass shape or even a thick turtle-neck (makes me want to hug them).

I don’t think you need to look like a sex worker to be sexy. In fact, unless you want to attract a scum bag, it works against you. I seek to look fabulously unattainable. Men like a challenge! 🎉 Love your videos! ❤

I like most of your videos, but this one isn’t of one them.

This was amazing omg

"Start with the thing you want, rather than you wanting it," I need a better elaboration that, it gets confusing

I took notes about this in my journal. “There is nothing to gain from cowering in front of an audience” is something I took with me after watching this, I went out in public to places I’m normally scared to go, I prioritized my excitement and interest, and it fucking worked. Thank you. This means a lot to me, I’ll listen to what you have to say for as long as you continue sharing with us.

It is nice to see you CONFIDENCE IS KEY ❤

Your videos are the best thing! I listen to you at work, in the shower; you have something - and I’m glad that you are sharing it with all of us. Thanks xx 🤍✨🪭

The French do not believe in one standard of beauty. Everyone has a different type of beauty. They just make the best of what they have. They act beautiful.❤❤❤

Make a decision based on desire and curiosity not ego. That’s such a courage motivator and happiness accelerator ❤

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I think class is a major obstacle to confidence, especially here in the UK.

the hottest girl who could give a lecture in pajamas ❤

Thank you for sharing your tools and wisdom from your own experience, It radiates from you! ✨☀🌷

celine, i found you by your vid "make your life a work of art" and ive been consuming your art ever since. trying to apply these practices into my life. (sometimes i fail , but i still persist) I've ALWAYS wanted to have guidance like this. femininity that doesn't necessarily revolve around a man, self expression and self mastery and nurturing creativity. thank you celine. you changed my perspective on life. ive also been collecting beautiful, poetic moments and noting them in my journal as you suggested.
thank you 🤍

I was the weird girl so i accepted it.

u r a prophetic unicorn

Don't let the Beast out. Fairly Hard to get it back in. Why? It Devours All. You when there's nothing left to snack on. It cannot be tamed. A Wild Horse isn't your petting pony for a reason.

Hey girl, have you seen Ode to Vanity by Dainty Funk?

You don’t know me, but you became my best friend. Every word in every video is just accurate to what I need to hear.

ISFP or INTJ?

Your videos are amazing and bring a lot of value and wisdom. I have leveled up my life in so many ways and one step was completely leaving alcohol 1 year ago. Still a lot of nice beverages to enjoy without alcohol. Maybe something you can try, I hope it brings you even more success and happinness. Thank you again for all you do and are! ❤