When a Narcissist Realizes They have Lost the Real One

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This is so true.

Thank you all so much I really needed this

Thank you for this. He just called after 4 month's. He caught me off guard because I honestly never expected to ever hear from him after what he put me through! And now he seems to want me back but!!!! A leopard never changes its spots onlynots prey!!!

Your work is so important and you convey everything so well spoken and accurate. Giving everything a name and desribing it so accurately is helping a lot. Thank you for your work and your seriousness with this topic!

I was NEVER my 62 y/o's narcissistic husband's primary source of supply. It was his beautiful, out spoken, 21 y/o daughter to the point that it was seemed like an inappropriate relationship between them. She called herself "the golden child". My husband triangulated our marriage with her. He would take her out on the town to discuss our issues with her, even though he denied it. This happened our entire relationship/marriage. Pardon me if I didnt remember exchanging my wedding vowels with him and his daughter. I finally had enough and filed for divorce. As far as i was concerned, he betrayed my privacy, trust and had no respect for me at all. I should have trusted my instincts from the beginning. Our divorce is pending and of course, he is being uncooperative , even though he's made it clear he doesn't want me. He thinks he's in control, but i hate to break this to him, God is control.
On the path to healing with God's help.

They discard me 3rd time ❤
She told me if final

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. ..The other Day ; my Sister ((me : 45 ; she : 43)) Physically ATTAKED me . She had BLACK-EYES ((we are both Coccasion ; Blond AND light-eyed)) .
.........IS That DUE :: "BLAME on ME -- 'cause I ""_LEFT her TO our MOTHER_ !??."" " ....... My Sister has Two Offspring ((Boy ca. 20 ; Girl ca. 15)) .!.

This is exactly what a narcissist does to us

Congrats and thank you for your work and for helping freely people on the net.

I’m the main supply , he said he invested a lot . Like planting trees that he likes .

thanks Danish 😊😊😊 greetings from ILLINOIS 🇺🇸✌️😁

The narcissist I married I left him and put him out over a year ago and he came back saying he is sorry(fake/lies)and won’t hurt me again he lost me I told him that I will not remain in this marriage at all my papers are filed after all the abuse and evil treatment never again will I go through I stand on my word.

My god! I'm right there at 1.50 — Danish you are changing the world in a most destructive area, by showing us the dynamic and warning against it.

Very smart man

He still stalks me

Contact no. Pls

that all BS

yes ,that's true...happen to me.he collapes....

How about the emotional blackmail he always said he'd commit suicide and i about heard it enough i told him to hurry it along. He said no because he still needs me😅

Yes I like how you said - the one(s) who truly love them (care for them). Instead they run after those who exploit them.

I'm the primary and the ONLY supply for my ageing narc grandparents so I feel sorry for them because when I'm gone they will have no one whatsoever; looks like the end of the road for them.

Well, that’s what I told you even in the beginning of the relationship that long distance does not work, but you wanted to continue then I felt like at some point you realized that it is not working but for you it was very hard to let it go but I think if we remain to be good friends without the romantic and sexual part of it that is the best outcome

After 3 years of relationship he sent this message!

In 3 years I have given him expansive gifts,including gucci cuff links and Mont blank pen and many many other good things and when he came to meet me first time he got me a used bangle full of scratches,bought from second hand shop

Thank you so much for this powerful advice, I was in a long term relationship with a narcissist,.and bow I am on my healing journey I am realizing that my Mother was also one,I have moved away and will not let him back, and will tell him once i receive the rest off my belongings, by text message,that if he comes too near to me and my house I will have a restauraning order put out for his arrest!..

I am his primary source of supply and i am not marry with him
But he tortures me to the core

Same video in हिन्दी please

A narcissistic man never gives clear and long explanations to his victims he has tortured, stalked, lied, and abused. He prides himself in hurting and blaming them when they demand replies. Or he gives a one word reply and keeps silent. He says that this is a very powerful technique of communication instead of saying a thousand words. Why does he think so? He prides himself for this technique. After that when his victims say bad things about him to others as they never got closure, he says that he will never forgive them for the way they betrayed him. He has done the most disgusting things which he expects his victims to share in a very nice way if at all they need to discuss this. Please analyze this behaviour.

spot on 🎯

Love is blind! 30 years with my narcissistic husband, our last separation he had many dating apps while I healed. We got back together, he ghosted his gf. God please protect me from this parasite! 🙏

When I didn’t know anything about narcissism, I used to think to myself that something was fundamentally wrong with the relationship

Bottom line, we don’t want to accept that we were fooled. We keep justifying the pain we endured either by doing self-introspection or by trying to understand them

Want this in hindi

Anyone notice he was picking his nose and then looking at his boogers in the beginning?

Thanks Danish

Hi .
Can a person living with a narcissistic leave him and run away to overseas without making police report or court case .Please advice

Love ur content 👍🏻💯

PSA Victims: The black hole destruction that a victim goes into at the hands of a narc discard; the lack of will to live, the loss of your own identity, emptiness, confusion, disassociation, is the SAME as a narcissistic collapse. This is what they are avoiding facing. The dark night of the soul. When you feel so alone and lost not knowing right from wrong, sane or insane. You can feel insane which is incredibly frightening. The.Numb, stage 2 I call it, is a blessing -your brain disassociates as a protective action to keep your sanity intact for survival in cases of severe emotional trauma = Because you are a NORMAL kind loving empathetic giving human who just wanted to love someone, heal someone.
You are normal and there is and was nothing wrong with you darling.
The victim, despite this main destruction stage, sometimes lasting for weeks, can be assured- it is temporary. It will end and heal and you will recover after the Numb stage; Stronger. Much stronger ladies. Your pain is TEMPORARY. Trust in this, you and your body's ability to recover.
The narc is too cowardly to face that pain and attempt to recover. They are terrified of being alone and having to face who they are- because who they are is the opposite of what they wish to be, and have been told they are by supplies. They determine who they are by whatever a supply shines on them, which is why they cannot stomach anything other than positive reinforcement.
This is the difference between a normal loving soul with a sense of self, YOU, and one that is an empty shell of a person inside, with no idea of who they are because it's been easier to pretend to be their ideal in order to gain worship. Acceptance. The easy way out.
A narc can not change or heal themselves anymore than a person with Down Syndrome. The personality development was stopped in childhood. The narc never developed a sense of Self. It's missing.
It may take you a long time to recover from the Numb, stage 2. Slowly it will fade as you work to develop trust in yourself again. Nm others. Take that time ladies. Make decisions and actions, for yourself based on the idea of what you'd advise a friend or your child. Actions of loving kindness only while you recover. Big love.

Hey Danish, please translate your all the videos in Hindi so that everyone can understand them better. It's a request ❤

They are users

They always study people to see how to utilize them

They are focused on their needs. And they want people who will serve their goals

Hindi Mai video banaiye

how do I get a divorce I am having a hard time PLEASE HELP.

Mine said infront of multiple friends of ours .
You just lost a damb good woman!
Then went on to have dozens of boyfriends and live ins that none ever lasted more than a year or two!
I was trauma bonded for 30 years to this monster.

For my experience being disgarded and the moment that my intelectual capacity comes in end i pray solemly and submmit my self to him to enlighlhten my capacity to think and guide me and for instance an invisible energy hug my personality submmit to him the power of forgiveness is important

My ex,still begs for forgiveness,he has tried all means even playing the victim. He aint fooling me again.

37yrs.... kicked him out and he is with the one he was cheating with... he is gone full in with the new one... I wonder how long he will last with her when she sees the "real side"...