Discover Your True Essence After Narcissistic Abuse

AMEN ❣️

Thank you for your help and guidance as
I learn how to heal. You are much appreciated.

Melanie .. NARP IS AMAZING .. I feel so self - empowered .. releasing the trauma from my body through the modules is something I never imagined would heal me .. I am stopping the stinky thinking .. I am letting the false ego stop dictating my thoughts .. my thanks to you ..

Can't believe how colorful and bright everything is becoming, haven't seen since I was 6

You are looking so beautiful Mel!

I am enjoying THRIVE group, this video has opened my gratitude realizing i am ready ad able to TRULY leave all behind " lose it all" to get it all. Honestly it feels scary, yet i know can shift those feelings thru. QFH..... guru in training. Thank you,, blessings. MalekaKalina- newbie narper

And that is the TRUTH!!! The trauma is all there is...replace it with your true self...because you are light...just like Melanie said!!!

What if that trauma is physical. Every time I try to receive the light it’s like it gets intercepted or blocked

Thank you Melanie, I will continue with my NARP program for a SUCCESFUL RECOVERY.

In the span of almost 12 hours I have gone from a really optimistic and lighthearted person to just super angry and I DO NOT like this feeling. I have never felt this type of anger before. I’m willing to reinvent myself and take the steps to heal but my god this makes me feel like I can’t trust at the moment and I can’t stand it. 😔😔😔

A narcissist will NEVER CHANGE

Mel, will you be my date to a wedding??

Do you think one can discover themselves and heal while still with the narcissist and can’t currently leave? I’m learning and healing.

The problem with church is they way stuff is taught...its a lie... Bible says don't have false idols... A false idol is where you get your validation...interesting....

Melanie I'm weakening for him....too much time alone. Tell me NO! PLEASE!! I guess when you're thirsty even contaminated water tastes good.

Your words are so timely, The idea that the narcissist has pointed out my flaws by taking advantage of them is a tough cookie to swallow, I used to think that being easy going and accepting of others was a good character quality, now that has to be balanced with self introspection to a degree I never imagined, go-along-to-get-along is a quality the controlling person has literally bashed into my thinking by stealth words and cunning manipulation. Waking up to all of this, clearing out the energetic entanglements in my life is a humiliating task, I am feeling clearer every day now that I have realized the scope of the abuse and the techniques used on a predictable basis, I can almost predict that when I feel good a controller will call and mess me up, I wish all the victims of this abuse will work together so that maybe the next generation will be more aware. Then we can be a stronger community of people. maybe get our life purpose with a powerful and happy outlook. Thank you for your work.

I am so OVER feing discombulated! Yet even when i have time to do more module clearing, i dont. At least i am continuing morning sessions. I am wanting to feel good about myself... i am grateful to be able to participate in the thriver program. See you there. In'Lakech

Omg 15 years of dedicated therapy... and I was just putting icecream on top of poop? That's so good! And i just fully understood what my therapist was trying to teach me: self partnering as the start to real life

A comment I left elsewhere that I thought applied here as well.
Quite disturbing to recognize when your entire family are narcs, borderlines, or flying monkey codependent enablers. Because of being raised to accept unacceptable behavior and never being allowed boundaries, we then attract toxic people in romantic relationships. Being love starved and completely unaccepted for who and what we are, we cannot help but to fall for the act of the love bomber. The narc weaponizes our desire for love, acceptance, and affection against us. When they devalue or discard us, it triggers our abandonment issues, feelings of insecurity, and fear of losing the one person that we thought had accepted and wanted us. So sickening to realize they never actually cared, loved, or genuinely wanted us. In actuality, they sought us out to use and abuse, for whatever they thought they might gain from us. Then, they proceed to return with crocodile tears and faux-pologies, effectively using our empathy against us. All the while, they relish the pain, suffering, and drama they created.

How timely is this?! Been stuck with my healing (moving veeeeryy slowly), and 2 days ago started shifting ancient ego blocks. Realized THIS is why I haven't been thriving. Real self is right behind there. I am gonna set her free♥️ now, without energetic healing, how else was I gonna heal? Thank you Mel ♥️♥️♥️

I love how Melanie's words and metaphor always describe the narcissist abuse symptoms so accurately!

Can you give examples of the false idols?

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Would your classes help me heal from my childhood abuse ? My mom was narcissistic. And I was in a 29 year abusive marriage with a narcissistic husband also.

I have not let go of the me from other people's expectations 😔

Isn’t everybody just living with unconscious traumas?..separated from who they truly are is part of this human ‘experience’... for which the purpose is to return home to oneself by remembering who we are. Waking up from being unconscious..? We cannot remember until we crack.
I guess narcissists are necessary to create duality in life,,, to have the physical experience in order to catalyse healing...

We can heal from this narcs may not be able to. A girl told me and a covert about healing inner traumas. Not only did he refuse to listen he verbally attacked her, I almost decked him. ☺️

I'm almost there for the most part...I hate using this term yet...I had to find myself again! FINDING DIANA is what I call it. Doing my BEST! I say God is guiding me 😊

Really well put. The timing for this couldn't be better thank you! And Thrive sounds great! ♡

Thank you so much for this video Melanie! ❤️ Traveling the road with NARP to find the road to within is the most important work Ive ever taken on.... much love to you, Melanie! ❤️🦋❤️

Just two months out from being abandoned by a younger narcissist and its shaken me to my core. I wasted two years on that person and was discarded like a piece of trash almost overnight with no warning. I realize now that my lack of self-esteem allowed me to be sucked in by someone like that and paying for it with my emotions and finances. I've moved from being sad and lonely to being angry with him for what he did. I count that as an improvement at least. Now the hard part is tackling why I allowed a person like that into my life in the first place. The big fear is that I've wasted too much of my life with self-hate at who I am and now that I'm in the later half of middle age there's just not enough time to start over and learn to love myself. Regrets in other words for the time wasted.

One of the biggest problems post narcissistic abuse is the hope the narc will change and reach out to you out of the blue and apologize for the pain they've caused. Remembering to put the trauma behind you WILL help you become your true self ☺😉👐🏾

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