Getting married to a second wife - Sheikh Assim Al-Hakeem #assimalhakeem #assim

“Guys think that having a second wife is macho”??? These words won’t stop me getting a second wife. It has nothing to do with being macho. Stop the generalisation it’s not very sheikh like.

Mashallah❤❤❤❤❤

Refreshing that Shaykh Asim is sharing his personal experience for the benefit of others 🤲

Inshaa Allah it'll "save" many from doing something they have no idea about

Not a good speech from Shaykh here. Encourage it with its conditions and necessities. Don't be such a discouragement.

I'm still waiting for the first wife✔️
I can marry 4 wives✔️
Marriage is the best success.

What answers we can expect from a person who himself married multiple times

Don’t destroy someone’s daughter’s life, if you plan on marrying more than one wife, be clear about your intentions from the beginning as not doing so is a betrayal of trust. If the woman has no objection then fair enough go ahead else if she has an issue with this then look for another woman. Those men who have affairs with other woman or wish to marry a second wife, Please remember you cannot cheat on her that is a sin also you cannot mentally torture her after marriage by emotionally blackmailing her. Be honest about it before you marry her. It’ll all seem justified but not when your own sisters will be in the same shoes then you’ll understand!

No it's a lust collection........

Worst culture of this society..... absolutely makes no sense....

These people are surviving on religious bayans....as uts easy to sermon mugged up things and pray mugged up prayers five times.... absolutely makes no sense in this educated world....bullshit!!

True

prophet muhammad peace be upon him loved one woman and one only and others shd follow this real sunnah, allah azzawajal didnt order you like he did muhammad peace be upon him, ur not him, so who th u think u r lmao, js for the lust yh thats not following sunnah at all.

Don't ask such things from a Sheikh who himself just married to one wife
&
Have no capabilities to have 4 wives

Ask such questions from a Sheikh who already married 4 or atleast 2,3wives
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Only such a Sheikh will br able to give you true, honest, positive & practical answers

Those people who find it hard to keep 1 wife,
Will
Always discourage & joke around about having more than 1 wives

Becoz,
They themselves aren't capable & eligible for that..!!
So,
Mostly they don't want anyone else to do it

So which one did you divorce ? The new one or the old one?

Wallah marrying again is the best thing.

Being a good husband to one wife is hard to do. Being a good husband to two sounds like a nightmare. The only way I can see the average person pull that off is if they're a scoundrel and mistreating their wives. Time doesn't double because you have two wives. Resources don't double either. And then you add kids with both on top of that and the idea stresses me out on behalf of the husband. I'm not even a man.

Nowadays our Muslim brothers intentions of having more than one wife is all wrong. The majority of these men, sad to say, are called womenisers. Why complicate ur life? Having just one wife n treasuring her is much better than having more than one n causing heartache to these wives.

Marry 4 wifes or more instead being loyal to one wife with love and support..

That's why he is my favorite 😊

That went from funny to sad real quick. أستغفرالله

Second wife here 👋🏼 and my husband is a wonderful husband and father, then most men are to even 1 Allhumdullilah 🤲🏼

My husband married me for love. I am older, and it’s his first marriage. I am divorced. He tells me I can go to Africa and live with him if I want. I would like for him to experience life here. Why is virginity more important than love to some people? It’s off. I am 60 years young and a mom to two precious treasures, my four legged daughters who are now in Heaven. My husband loves them very much. We are very happy.❤❤❤❤❤❤🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳

To answer the question if my husband’s mother knows of our marriage, sadly, my mother in law is deceased. It’s been eleven / twelve years since her passing. My father in law is very happy and he prays for us.♥️♥️♥️🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳

Respectfully for the person who said that the prophet said to marry a virgin the first time. Why should I consider what this man said? He is not a prophet to me, and I don’t have to listen to that since I don’t agree.

my mother's grandfather had 2 wives he was most unjust man to his wives, especially his first wife, my grandfather was son of that woman who was first wife but he used to be treated as an outcast because of that man's favor to his second wife and children from his second wife only, he didn't even care about his children from first wife

It's difficult to be fair even to one person

This must should reach to some fans of Mufti Tariq Masood . 😀😀

Man, I can’t even imagine trying to split the love I have for the woman I plan to marry among two or three different people. Not for me, I don’t care how macho it sounds

My daughters were born with four legs each, and paws too! They are my doggy daughters ♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️♥️❤️

Fact fact fact allahu Akbar

I am my husband’s first and only wife, and we are very happy together. I am a Christian, and my husband is a Muslim. We have always respected each other.♥️♥️♥️🌲🎄🌲🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳We celebrate Christmas together too♥️🎄🌲🎄🌲♥️♥️

this shaikh has two wives .

God did NOT permit polygamy. He gave Adam only one wife!!!🪅🪅🪅🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳

If anyone wants to second marriage then widows can marry widowers.sweet and simple without breaking others hearts.

Having too many women is not as great as it seems. In fact, it's the mothers of all nightmares!. Just get one, and that's it. Isn't one woman enough anyway?..And they are all the same

my husband is getting his permanent residency. He has to be in Africa until then. I have gone to Africa several times to be with him☺️🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳

Four wives means four mother in laws. Good luck!

Actually , before we married my husband told me he was looking forward to celebrating Christmas with me. I was surprised but he said in Africa, where he is at there are Christians too, and everyone just joins the public festivities.☺️💖🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳

Does everyone just forget why marrying multiple wives was there in the first place? It wasn't just for men's pleasure or to satisfy their needs, it was because back then the men were dying in battle (like after battle of Uhud) and many women and children needed to be taken care of it was for PROTECTION and PROVIDING but clearly we are forgetting that. If you cannot be just and provide and protect them then do not take more than 1 wife? Its mentioned in the QURAN as well. Simple as that. Instead of making life horrible for them think and use your brain. Marriage isn't a joke you must have love this person and care for them its not a competition for how many wives you have.

I myself wouldn't want my future husband (if i get one) to have multiple wives. Not because of jealousy or anything, but because its just simply not for me. My idea of marriage for myself is not like that so I'd make it a condition. Nothings wrong with having multiple, but its recommended and encouraged to have only 1. You need to keep in mind that this is a human being whom you are promising to take care of and treat with respect and fairness.

One last thing, please don't start lying to people or keeping things a secret when you are getting married. You're just gonna ruin your relationship! If you want multiple wives let her know, its better to clear things up before marrying instead of telling after marriage.

The two things I would marry someone for is love and hard work! You must have love for someone and also put in the work (both ways). I personally do not want to be in a relationship all dull and boring where there's no love at all. Don't marry just for lust and whatnot. I'm 15 years old and I can understand this better than you lustful hippos and that tells ALOT (talking about the weirdos who marry to be "macho"). I wrote a lot speed run it 😅

Having more is a good thing though.

The way she's looking into his eyes>>>>>>>>>

No, lots of guys don't think that.

The part with blood pressure hahahaha