How to Stop Being Constantly Overwhelmed

How to Stop Being Constantly Overwhelmed

Thomas Frank

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If you feel constantly overwhelmed - like you've always got too much to do and not enough time to do it in - then you're in the same boat that I've found myself in for several months.

Today, I'll walk you through the plan that I've been putting into action in order to strike a better work-life balance.

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neoloaded
neoloaded - 15.06.2023 03:54

How's this going, Thomas? Would love to get an update here or as a separate video on how you have evolved your thinking about the overwhelm in life.

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Mehak Rai
Mehak Rai - 01.06.2023 11:49

Needed this

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ChikuPachi
ChikuPachi - 01.05.2023 21:04

Hi Thomas Frank, thank you for sharing your experience and for the advices you shared in this video. I am currently overwhelmed with orders from my business to the point that I know exactly what to do but I end up not doing them.

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testosterone
testosterone - 30.03.2023 03:04

Self employed entrepreneur, can’t relate.
Overwhelmed people who work physically at a job for someone else is a completely different beast.

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Just a random dude.
Just a random dude. - 24.03.2023 16:30

Dude, I didn't go to highschool (home schooling myself) because I don't wanna waste any minute there. I barely do chores and worst part is I'm addicted to that "Toxic" rush it voice. Thanks for help!

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Manuel Silva
Manuel Silva - 13.03.2023 10:17

Thanks man wish I had found this at the start of the year. This is the only video I have been able to identify my current state with. Its crazy how even though you are from a different industry , I am going through the same thing and with this video you have given me hope. Wish you the best man and please keep the videos coming, It looks like I am 4 years behind you so I am sure the next thing I go through will be in the next video lol. RIght behind you.

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Jeffrey Marsh
Jeffrey Marsh - 25.02.2023 12:09

Your content is superior to anything else online. I wished you were still producing new content.

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Saumya
Saumya - 04.02.2023 20:33

EXACTLY what I've been feeling for the past couple of months. Especially because of the injustice that happened in my life a couple of months ago. I have decided to reset. Thanks, Thomas. All of us relate so much to you and your videos are fantastic. Very helpful.

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stacy jones
stacy jones - 30.01.2023 17:20

I’m always overwhelmed! Thank you

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Myself. Scheme
Myself. Scheme - 30.01.2023 13:18

Now I find the right knowledge to me for these days. Thank u for sharing this.

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Leonardo Romero
Leonardo Romero - 17.01.2023 19:51

Just listen Debussy. Don't stop on things you gotta do, just have a moment to breath while listening to relaxing classical music.

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Nahme Pineda
Nahme Pineda - 25.12.2022 19:35

Thank you, it was in fact like you numbered some of the ideas I knew I had to do in order to get better but the key thing I forgot was the fact I have to balance my own "me time" and the work time. Put myself as priority is something I leave aside this year.

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Lindsy Mccreary
Lindsy Mccreary - 15.12.2022 16:59

This video is life changing. Thank you!!!

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Edward Ivor Hazell
Edward Ivor Hazell - 03.12.2022 22:02

key take-home:
'do a reset sprint: evaluate all systems: file organisation : physical living space and workspace, your task manager' 
'get them back to a state where they are actually useful to you.'

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Hunter Alexis
Hunter Alexis - 01.12.2022 02:21

Basically just do it

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LONEWOLF
LONEWOLF - 11.11.2022 09:28

The example of toxic voice was just tooooo accurate for me. 😢

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Katherine Johnson
Katherine Johnson - 18.10.2022 06:52

Reset sprint sounds EXTREMELY overwhelming. If I could just do that, I know everything would fall into to place!

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Butter Beer
Butter Beer - 28.09.2022 15:03

I'm in this exact situation. My successes come at the price of extreme stress and adrenaline fueled sprints. Even getting to school on time has become a literal sprint in the morning because my brain is now convinced i can get there in 5 mins and I end up leaving late. Yes I CAN do it, but that doesn't mean I should... This is an analogy for the rest of my life, I've taken on so many projects and also I could get it done in a lot less time, i end up worrying all the time and can't concentrate on what I'm doing.

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JYo
JYo - 13.07.2022 17:56

I think you’re better than what you even know Your very hard on yourself. Enjoy your programs. Thank you.

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JYo
JYo - 13.07.2022 17:50

I need God’s help whenever I get around in a situation I asked for his help and sometimes doing something for somebody really helps also enjoy your programs thank you

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Valerie Jaeger
Valerie Jaeger - 04.07.2022 20:14

Perfect timing thank you!!

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Micheal Dalu
Micheal Dalu - 22.06.2022 12:25

Me watching this video and still being overwhelmed by other similar videos and the many comments... It's like an endless loop

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Erica Hoxie
Erica Hoxie - 11.06.2022 20:24

SO helpful

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waterberg ice
waterberg ice - 31.05.2022 19:37

I constantly Overwhelmed in everything, this video helps.

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Matthew Wilkinson
Matthew Wilkinson - 25.05.2022 03:29

This advise while good advise and well intended just rings kind of hollow. If your life does not yet include health issues, children, home renovations, financial considerations, obsolesce of skills, marriage, or on and on,... do you really know what is overwhelming? This advise is for people overwhelmed by their self-imposed to do list.

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Emily Gowor
Emily Gowor - 23.05.2022 08:27

So honest. Love this. Thank you.

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Monika Zimová Art
Monika Zimová Art - 13.05.2022 10:31

Thank you, this was a great video.

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Zeph
Zeph - 06.05.2022 23:38

I appreciate this video as I'm starting from scratch and don't want to get burnt out. I am really into the art of saying no even when it might be money on the table.

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jenvaher
jenvaher - 03.05.2022 06:19

Thanks but I just can’t listen to your video because the background music is just so distracting and annoying. I think it’s unnecessary. But thank you for your other videos this one just isn’t heating it for me. If

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ladykookosmile
ladykookosmile - 18.03.2022 15:37

This was a really nice video to watch :3. I've been overwhelmed a lot lately and through this video I discovered this is in part because I am currently in a process to reset the way I live, but I'm not allowing myself the necessary time to do so. It takes time to (re)build habits, set new systems into place and it takes energy to decide which opportunities I want to take vs. to which ones I will say no to for my own sake. Thank you for this reminder to not give up and some confirmation that I am on the right track.

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POLYGLOT PARKITLOVEIT
POLYGLOT PARKITLOVEIT - 17.03.2022 00:52

I’m happy that you said there are things that we can do although they are not productive and they might seem useless to other people, but we shouldn’t listen to that toxic voice. That helps me very much. 👍

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cali
cali - 15.03.2022 07:50

👎

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Gavin Koh Aquascaping
Gavin Koh Aquascaping - 22.02.2022 06:45

Just what I needed to hear this evening. Thanks for offering your insight and "permission" to start easy. Cheers!

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Soroush Torkian
Soroush Torkian - 15.02.2022 16:48

You need to hire people to take off the stress lol

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Anabel Ortiz
Anabel Ortiz - 10.02.2022 06:56

I needed this...

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dhanu k.v.
dhanu k.v. - 08.02.2022 12:57

Thank you ❤️😊 this video made me realise my fault which I was doing as my default ✌️✌️ I will take care of myself 😊

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SunnySide
SunnySide - 30.01.2022 18:40

Love this, especially about saying no. Probably the most important part of prioritising.

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JoeMama
JoeMama - 21.01.2022 14:28

Burnout is not constantly sprinting, it's a dysbalance of control. Burnout is when you feel out of control. There are multiple reasons why losing control can happen. 1. Challenges far away from our competence. 2. Passive Challenges, or lack of autonomy(someone/-thing else tells you what to do) 3... there a los of reasons.

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Emma Berger
Emma Berger - 11.01.2022 03:10

This is so inspiring thank u ! The bit about success building opportunities really hit because it feels like you’re literally wasting opportunities not to take on awesome things but it has just put me in a constant burnout cycle

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TehPef
TehPef - 19.12.2021 00:08

This makes sense, but I never make it past the reset sprint. Things are so backed up in every area of my life that to actually reset things would take me at least a month. Meanwhile work, family, and other responsibilities don't stop coming, and a month is too long to put them all on hold.
Anyone else get stuck on this and overcome it? What worked for you?

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Sydney Trotter
Sydney Trotter - 18.12.2021 05:07

This was so helpful!!!

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Suzanne Cook
Suzanne Cook - 01.12.2021 16:29

I found this really useful, thank you. Am going to try a re-set

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Teena Marie
Teena Marie - 11.11.2021 13:47

I like this, simple, feasible, practical and achievable. Thanks

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Greco Roman
Greco Roman - 02.11.2021 02:43

As a man in charge of an organization 450 people strong, I’m constantly in meetings, coordinating and planning. I literally have almost no time to complete my daily tasks, which are VERY critical to my operations and established processes.

I literally work 16 hour days most days and I think it’s killing me.

I feel like I’m drowning and if I stop sprinting, I’ll sink.

Unlike you, I have a boss. And any changes in operations require agreement. That’s where I have not taken action. I’ve been looking to impress when I should have been looking to become healthy. Both as a boss and an individual who needs to survive in this position for the long haul.

This was excellent. You spoke to me in a way other content makers could not. Thank you!

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Vale V
Vale V - 26.10.2021 04:57

I'll only take 4 to 5 courses next semester ._. Imdying

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Yuu Ouji
Yuu Ouji - 25.09.2021 03:42

My morning routine is taking out the trash.

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Wulf104
Wulf104 - 20.09.2021 20:16

This is too accurate

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