We're Judging You: AITA Couple Reacts

I don’t know if this’ll sound crazy, but don’t you think it’s a little convenient on how she said she said she was lesbian in EDIT and not the POST, I don’t know how people are gonna react to this, but what if op’s lying about being lesbian? Also, Devon’s girlfriend has a right to be uncomfortable and upset, she’s not “jealous” she’s clearly uncomfortable and not ok with that, if that were me I would ALSO be upset, op blatantly disrespected Devon’s girlfriend, tattoos are fine, but getting a tattoo that says I love you to a friend while you’re in a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP is not ok, it’s disrespectful and disregarding someone and their feelings, so in my opinion op is the butt in this situation, also, a HEART!!?!?! That’s just, she’s knows what she’s doing alright, tell me that you would get a tattoo with your guy best friend that says I love you, while he’s in a serious relationship, his girlfriend is CLEARLY uncomfortable, and the tattoo has a HEART on it?!?! You most likely wouldn’t, op had malicious intentions alright

My brother and I are bffs and our matching tattoo idea was two skeletons making finger guns at each other. Absolutely wilding out with a heart shaped I love you for friends

What rhe husband did isnt exposure therapy. It might be closer to "flooding" which is basically like throwing someone who is afraid of water in the deep end. What an asshole.

The lighter guy is a huge asshole. I have a major trauma with knives and genuinely panic when people are close to me with them, even when it’s for cooking. My husband would NEVER joke with me about it and anytime he’s walking by with a knife in the kitchen he warns me and stays as far away to not stress me out.

The fire story is crazy. Her husband is already the asshole for being annoyed with his wife just because she is affected by her trauma. It was sad to me to hear her say she understood him being annoyed, because she deserves a patient and understanding partner who supports her in her healing from the things she's been through, not a partner who expects her to just get over it. The "exposure therapy" he tried comes across as abusive behavior to me.

The guy who’s wife expected him to cook with a broken angle, she said she needed help to meal prep because she worked so much and so hard but like if that’s the case she should be THRILLED about grilled cheese and tomato soup or chilli and salad no matter where it came from. Shit is Straight up ungrateful. Poor man… when I worked 12 hour days I would have killed for someone to have prepared ANYTHING for me when I walked through the door, even if it was a ham and mayo samwhich or ramen I would still be happy because I didn’t have to think about what to make…

Greasy skin...

They’re such a cute couple!

Second story seems to me like the guy in it is the type of toxic asshole who always thinks he's right when he has 0 knowledge about the topic it's typical narcissistic audacity.

yugoslavia is a banger

It’s such a silly problem but my stepdad takes hour long atomic poops so I get the wife on the first one. You can not use the bathroom for at least 15 minutes after and he was already in there for ever. Like bro use the other one that I don’t need.

Way to lenient on the last story, having no regard for anothers property like that is insane

Why does every aita post start with "aita for being mad that my neighbor refuses to put up a fence between our properties?" and the next sentence is "so recently I killed my neighbor's entire family, and he hasn't been taking it well."

Matching!!

Also i get weird quora emails too

I dont drink but ill hit my pen in solidarity

Omg please show him the drumstick story.

The second guy is insane😂

It’s nice to see you smiling so much.❤

ur hair is always so fun! slay mama

I'm sorry. the tattoo one, she is NOT the asshole. she's gay. and if his significant other is so insecure, then they shouldn't be together

Just use candles during your use of the bathroom. Simple as that.

For the one about the cooking dinner, I am happy that you bought or prepared dinner. It does not need to be a full cooked meal.

If I asked for something healthy, buy something healthy. It can be microwaved, for crying out loud, but I am happy that he did what she wanted.

She is acting like a jerk and a little ableist in my opinion.

Exposure therapy isn't a "one-time and it works" thing. It's done in a controlled environment with a lot of saftey precautions and takes a lot of time. Whipping out a lighter and then pitying yourself when you trigger your partner is unbelievably stupid.

Why are you dating Kurtis Conner 5 years ago

The thing that baffles me about the sandwich and soup story is…. Her edits were all like “I work a hard job I need help too I can’t do it all!” Like okay yeah sure, but that’s not the issue. You asked him for help with dinner and he helped, and as far as we know, didn’t make a fuss about it. He did what was in his ability to do. She’s the one who made a big fuckin stink like a picky child.

I can totally relate to the husband poop story

Chili in the slow cooker and salad? Sounds filling and healthy

as someone with sensory issues, i kinda really understand this first lady like i would not be willing to be in there smelling like shit w the warm seat like absolutely not

there all assholes (I'm an alcoholic)

Lesson learned today: we need to communicate with our partners

I don’t have a fear of fire but I get really hot rlly easily around fires like being near a grill is mad uncomfortable for me idk why bro cared so much 😭

Of course this is an outside perspective and I hope it matches reality but I’ve watched you forever (and I’m still current haha) but this is the first time I’ve seen this video. You seem like you’re in a better place and I’m happy you have a partner that seems very understanding and kind. I wish you all best and I hope you’re happy and in a good place ❤

Nikki, it's good to see you happy. If you're still doing live streams I'll try to watch if I can.

Bro as someone who has broken each of my ankles at separate points in my life that one pissed me 😭 cause being on crutches and getting around is exhausting and can be pretty isolating at least in my experience cause i didnt want to go anywhere or do anything BECAUSE it was so exhausting

yall remind me of the twilight and mordecai meme in this video. his blue shirt , beanie, hair. your hair, hoodie. its cute lol

The bathroom one is crazy lol. Poo-pourri

On the tattoo yeah I'm a guy with some female friends and I very rarely tell them I love them. I for sure wouldn't get it tattooed. I had a friend who I was really close with and we said I love you to eachother a lot because she was like that and I caught feelings 0/10 wouldn't recommend

DUDE I GET EMAILS FOR QUORA TOO 😭😭😭

something i noticed about AITA posts involving heterosexual couples is that men will post "AITA for being the bestest boy on my best behavior" and somehow that post will involve him doing the most heinous shit you've ever read and women will post "AITA for being an awful person who makes my husband feel like shit" and its incredibly innocent/she's the victim.

Am I The Asshole for Leaving Our Transformed Captain's Offspring Stranded?
I know it sounds bad but please hear me out. I'm seeking your thoughts on whether I made the right call. I'm Charles (M43), the first officer of a starship. Now, this situation involves our pilot, Taylor (M27), and the captain herself (F37). Fake names for anonymity.
Taylor pitched this bold idea to break the warp 10 barrier, and against my better judgment, we went for it. Long story short, he ended up transforming into some amphibian-human hybrid. The twist? Turns out, during this warp 10 ordeal, Taylor kidnapped the captain they unknowingly conceived offspring.
Now, here's where I might've made a questionable call. After this transformation fiasco, we found ourselves on an apparently uninhabited planet, and the offspring were left behind. Yeah, I made the executive decision to leave them there. I know, it sounds heartless, but hear me out. I made the tough call to leave them there. Now, I can't shake the feeling that I might have messed up, especially knowing how much I care about the captain.
As the first officer, my primary concern is the safety and well-being of the crew. Bringing back the offspring seemed risky, and the area of space we are now is full of unknowns. My captain is someone I deeply care about, and she seemed to supported the decision, and I didn't want to undermine her authority.
But now, I'm grappling with whether I should've fought harder for a different solution. Leaving her offspring on that alien planet weighs heavy on my conscience. Did I prioritize the crew's safety at the expense of a moral obligation to someone I care about?
So, am I the asshole for leaving our transformed captain's offspring stranded on that planet? Or should I give myself some understanding given the complexities of navigating through uncharted territories?

You guys are so cute😭❤❤ i love the relationship you guys have!!!!!!!❤❤❤

The way my jaw dropped at the fire story like 911 is on the mf line… that is sick behavior 😨 to know that your partner has a literal clinical phobia rooted in personal trauma and weaponizing it by SURPRISE in CLOSE PROXIMITY??? Nah dude that wasn’t “exposure therapy”, that was malevolent aggressive psychological abuse, apparently just a singular event in an ongoing series of psychological torture where he is constantly putting her in circumstances that prey on her phobia and constantly cross her boundaries all while degrading her, gaslighting her, and invalidating her phobia. This man has no limit, if he’s willing to pull a lighter on her as she’s trying to have a sweet moment, threateningly bringing the lighter closer, and then have the audacity to blame “her antics”??? Bitch who was chasing who with a lighter get a fucking grip. These people are like actually dangerous dangerous this is literally a proof of escalation with the stove —> the grill —> the lighter. Get tf outta there

if someone gave away some of my hello kitty merch I'd be PISSED. it's my special interest and has been for 10+ years. I know it's different from simply being a collector but we don't know if OP's gf is neurotypical or not. If she's autistic, makeup could be her special interest or hyperfixation if she's another type of neurodivergent.... I hope they both understand boundaries better in that area now!

ill take a hit instead of drink cheers nikki

Y’all were so fuckin off w the tattoo story

Lmao I have makeup from over 5 years ago 😹😹😹 or more 😅😆😹