How Long Should Sex Last? Survey Results From 11.6K People

If your a pro atleast 30 min😂❤😮

I’m a male and I need at least 90 minutes including foreplay.

One half hour would be teriffic

4 hours in more than enough

Sex is to fulfil a need, just like food. Would you prefer a buffet dinner or gourmet meal?

Seriously? If anyone deep into it wont be able to figure out how long that was.😂

I love the top that Vanessa is wearing.

I can't believe no one has already said this, but your shirt is amazing! Keep creating the great videos. You are both soo appreciated!

I really don't like touch & go sex, but does 1 hour or more on overall sex normal? and for some reason I like to do more round for longer time.

Wow, my wife and I are in our seventies and we have sex every other day. Normal is around 40 or more minutes. Fifteen minutes of foreplay, another 15 minutes of intercourse, 10 minutes or more of oral. I no longer have the endurance I had when younger.

I'm definitely not your typical guy. I smoke a bowl of meth and have intercourse for 2 hours Non-Stop

Your Husband looks like a nice guy he is a lucky guy too. Nice informative video.

As long as she wants to go.

That really surprised me! We’ve been together for 12 years (my whole adult life) so don’t really know a lot but for us from start to finish it can be anywhere from 45minutes - 2 hours if we haven’t had much alone time in a week or 2.. usually time frame an a little over an hour. Is that normal for anyone else

I really don't like quickies because they do nothing for me, don't feel a connection or pleasure from them. I've learned to give in to them because partner wants sex more frequently but I prefer quality over quantity and partner doesn't adjust to my needs. I prefer a romantic initiation , sweet and kind words affectionate interactions before just rolling over for sex.

These lower end numbers have got to be a major lie. What is it about “statistical data” that wants sex to be 5mins or less? Me and my significant other on average are 30mins or more.

“Do you fancy a quickie, or would you like the full five minutes?”

All phones have stopwatch on them

Venessa, I’d love to know more about your journey to becoming a sex psychotherapist

I'm super confused though, I don't think the poll is too innaccurate. Average for hubby and I is 20minutes or more including foreplay...but like when we do the naughty, we tend to have fun with it, like we might spend 10 mins or so on foreplay, 6 mins on one position, 5 mins on another, a couple mins on another and so on, like if we do just one position sure it's shorter, but it really isn't possible for us to go less then 10mins start to finish because I need time to get to the big O haha good things can't be rushed. I'm very greatful my hubby has got the control to outlast me so I don't feel like I have to rush or any pressure to just get to it

I WISH it would be a quickie!!! I'm at about 30-45 every time.....it's on him, not me.....how do I make it go faster????

how can you talk to your partner about it. If i take an hour I take an hour. If i take 2mins I take 2mins it may not be possible to shorten or extend