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My ex would literally shut down. My current boyfriend soon to be ex also does not discuss. My experience is that men are afraid of an upset woman. I don’t yell. I’m upset if he flakes on a time to meet. Who wouldn’t be. But he’s already introduced me to his family and childhood friends. I’ve express that this style of conflict resolution, basically, ignoring the pink elephant in the room does not work for me. I’m moving on. It hurts but I’m slowly decreasing contact.
ОтветитьI have been on my own for so long…would love to have someone like this
ОтветитьWhen I love someone, I care a lot about him❤❤❤❤
ОтветитьReally Appreciate ALL your Wisdom, Mat & Im very maternal when I love a man bwo if he’s sick Ill take care of him...If hurt his back at work I’ll find him a “tommie copper”..Not annoyingly where I need “Thx” all the time but more a way of caring for my love on a consistent level because I want to spoil him to some degree...& hoping he’d want to reciprocate that back...Lead by example type thing as maybe no woman’s ever shown him this kind & giving way of being...But I’m no pushover so it would be balanced...I’m new at dating & this is all in theory BUT if he doesn’t give back his fair share of “niceties” of his own, I’ll act & cut ties as Time is Precious❤️...& You say better to cutout early If you know he’s not a right fit!
ОтветитьMe watching this as gay 😎
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Ответить"Prime time or crumb time"...PREACH! ❤ Sharing this...Thanks, Mat!
ОтветитьHe does all the signs and if not more. But I wonder when I tell him I love him , he never says it back?
ОтветитьI am truly and deeply in love with a certain guy. I listen to all he says and remember it all (and he was surprised!), follow all he does and praise and support him at it, compliment him truthfully. When he needs to vent or he seems discouraged, I listen to him and advice him. I am always there for him if he needs me.
ОтветитьAaw.. will you please make a video of your relationship long distance and everything how it all played out? So special:) God bless your family and the pictures are so cute…
ОтветитьHow to have a relationship with a Sigma Man.... Especially when you know hes really into you.... But you need a little more from him
ОтветитьWhat about us going to live with the man we love?
ОтветитьWe use to call that capital save a ho! Not capital solves a lot! Ha ha ha! But if your man jumps in and tries to save you from something, he is yours! ❤
ОтветитьI know what you mean. I started to be unwilling to give more of myself in the relationship I am and am not at the same time.
I understood it was not worth it the day the boyfriend said « Here we go again » after I asked something totally legitimate.
I never ask any questions. I never was his priority. His work comes first. I have been with him for 9 years now without any kind of results.
I live alone. He never slept at my place neither. I had time to do a bachelor degree and finishing a PH.D in metaphysics. I invested in myself, not in him. I lost interest in knowing him also.
Broken promises all the time.
Now, I just answer his texts if he writes if I have time. That is what it gave him.
I will not be there when he is ready to settle down. He taught me so well that I was on my own that I now own it! 🙏🙇♀️
Be friends (only) before you're exclusive with each other.
ОтветитьGo dutch types of dates if you're not exclusive with each other.
ОтветитьBull. My ex of 20 years was so refreshing, he wanted to meet his family, friends, and family gatherings from the get go. I thought it was good .. well it wasn't. After 20 years, he told me that he never loved, that I have been imagining everything and . I am the worst person in the entire universe...
Every single video of this kind of internet describes exactly the way my ex was...
My therapist keeps telling me that I should have seen the signs and everything you describe are red flags
I had to train by husband that arguing about stuff (debating) wasnt the end of our relationship by telling him. Im really pissed off at you right now. Just because Im pissed doesnt mean I don't still love you. I just need to cool off. so now when we argue and we are both mad. he will tell me i guess its just all my fault...and i will tell him back no remember its all my fault...and we usually end up laughing after a few Im taking the blame come backs. While all this teaching women about how they should be to attract men is great, however, we need more emphasis on what happens when we hit that 7 year itch mark. if couples can whether through it and stay together the relationship is richer and greater after.
ОтветитьIt's now( slow learner@ 62!!)-
About Space & time & NOT Controlling out of neediness.
I've done lots of inner work on my Fears of rejection & abandonment...so then I can allow my man time to breathe, relax & to Think
Especially after work!! I believe also in the "Attachment theory"
An an avoidant/ or an anxious clinger.
Having my Own hobbies that aren't necessarily his.
Always being as grateful as I can be
Glass half full.
Men use Texting to avoid you or the person or block you or just disappear until they want to reach out months later as if they can pick up where they left off. Really...
ОтветитьMy husband works the night shift and called me up to 6 times a night. I was very annoyed because he disturbed my sleep. After your video I see it differently now. He does this for love...
ОтветитьGood ending question that's easy to answer for me. When I am IN LOVE with a man, I do what it takes to be a part of his life. I want to take care of him and the homestead. I consider myself a modern woman but I have pretty traditional values when it comes to my relationship. I'd be willing to fall back and be in the traditional role for a woman in the relationship IF he is sane and I trust his judgement. The only kind of man I could fall in love with is a man who is sane and who's judgement I trust so this would come as second nature for me. Making a good impression with and getting along with the important people in his life would also be very important to me, also. If I start talking about having a family with him, or agree to it if he brings it up to me first, then I'm pretty much head over heels because I wouldn't bring a child into a relationship unless I love him. Loving him is one of my 5 criteria that needs to be met before I'd agree to procreate with a man.
ОтветитьOnce again, this man is keeping it real.
ОтветитьI love your videos. Can you direct me to a video about relationships for those that are married over 28 years and having ED issues.
ОтветитьGood video, man. All of these are spot on.
ОтветитьA man inlove is willing and quick to apologize 😂 when he is at fault.
ОтветитьI WILL HAVE HIS BACK. I WONT DISRESPECT HIM. ❤
ОтветитьMy patience, honesty, doing things together through investment, willingness to talk things out when it’s sour, looking out for the positive side, respect, understanding and knowing that we don’t have to agree on everything to be happy shows am into it.
ОтветитьGreat points. Thanks Matt
ОтветитьHoping to see him soon here in the Philippines...
Ответитьhi Matt thanks for this very informative videos iam in a LDR relationship I cannot see and talk to him in video call but he always send me his videos where he travels and showing to me his apartment...because of our language barrier and out time difference we cannot talk on videos when he send me his message in french i search in Google and that's the time I knew what he telling me ...we usually send music videos about love...
ОтветитьAs a professional man, I certify this. 👍
ОтветитьThanks for the teachings and you opened up my mind and I will try to fix things with my Man but things that I like for a man is his time and communication and also it's hard to talk with him bcz his not talking to me and I always saw him when is got a problem I love him but it's hard to regained trust from him ❤❤❤❤ please I need your advice
ОтветитьThank you for your advice! You are right! How a person makes you feel is much more valuable than his or her behaviors.
ОтветитьMy Sweetheart and I had it rough in the beginning because of trust issues -- mine not his!! He was very patient with me and after a few months I learned that I could TOTALLY TRUST HIM.
We of course don't agree on everything but we both are very honest and respectful with each other so our disagreements don't last long. BTW: make up sex is AMAZING.
We are planning on getting married soon and we are very happy 😊
You do everything for him you get nothing in return long distance
ОтветитьMy signs that I'm in love with a guy or very interested ...
* I trust him enough to be vulnerable in his presence and reveal things that I don't reveal to other people
* When there's sexual chemistry, I have difficulty looking him in the eye, so I look down and smile
* I become physically animated with excitement, so I might need to go for a run or do some cleaning to release the energy
* All my senses become heightened, so I become extremely sensitive to touch, smell, taste, hearing, sight
* I blush, come out in red blotches on my neck, chest, and face
* This will sound weird, but part of me wants to run away. I'm a very independent person and I like my space and alone time, so, when I'm falling for someone and want to be with them, my independent streak kicks in even more and says "what the f**k are you doing?"
* Generally speaking, I don't want to introduce him to my family, especially in the early stages of a relationship, because I'm worried that my family will ruin my/our happiness.
Should I take advice from some who doesn’t practice what he prays?
ОтветитьIs Warren Vergarra my destiny husband
ОтветитьThis is genius. Crumb time or prime time 😂 but so very true😊
ОтветитьWhen I really love a man, I will, at the beginning of the relationship, if I am uncertain, I will sit and rehearse pretend conversations out loud hopeful pretend conversations between my man and I like I did when I was in high school. Silly teenage stuff like when I'm love drunk.
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Ответить#7 is sooo deep 🥺 thanks for making this clear. And now i really wanna let him go. Cause he's not putting energy and effort to fix this. 😢 10year relationship 😢
ОтветитьThanks, Mat!
When I am in love, I just want my man to be happy, to see a smile on his face. Accepting him the way he is.
In my current relationship I’ve just discovered how beautifully it feels when the partner is accepting me with all my emotions, with all imperfections. He gives me freedom to be myself and it’s priceless.
At the same time we are both vocal, when it gets to personal boundaries being violated. It is always only a warning without any attempt to push the other person to change. Because this relationship is so important to each of us, I see, how he evolves to meet my standards (his deliberate choice) and on my side it’s totally the same. 🙂
I meet that kind of guy.. but he is new separated to his wife. But he always do things like what you said.. Sometimes in his busy job he have time for me to see or call me without important reason.. but i am her employee and he is my employer.. His mode will change than before. What should I think now.. is he like me??.
Ответить, we are getting back together for almost a year he said he can't love me now but still did all the things you've said (a guy can do all those things with the person he didn't love?)
ОтветитьNow i am nearly 64, now!!!!!!! I met THIS man with THIS 7 SIGNS!!!!! , YOU JUST TOLD !!!!!!! WOW!!!
ОтветитьMy thoughts on long distance relationship is stupid, very few of you don't last very long, I have to hang out with a guy, to see the things he likes and do , so I know to go forward, A man or women can catch you in there web even before you meet them in person, you fall in love, they move in, to find out he or she has horrible habits or they can't stay of of bar's or strip clubs, you only here the things they want you too here . Then surprise.. don't meet Online or long Distance..
ОтветитьWhen I think I'm in love...
Smile...laugh out loud alot when I'm alone..and think of our time on phone ..in person.... heart beats faster...look forward to next time