Top 12 Signs You Are An INFJ

My god im true infj

If someone wanted to discuss the weather regarding which current (and future) technologies could provide more control over the weather plus the technical and ethical impacts of each then a conversation about the weather could be quite interesting.

When I took the test I Had no idea about these types of people. I thought I was alone lol

In the test I got INFP, but I'm more like an INFJ

Well for number 4 it depends, not every infj seems to be an extrovert. I think that's a general misconception, this might be true for many infj but it's not true for many others and nothing you should view as a sign of an infj in the first place

The INFJ truly is the cursed personality type. The high school social stuff was really tough for me but I thought it was just a phase and that it will be better now. Then I found out about the MBTI test and now my world falls apart again :/

For me small talk is like in the spy movies where someone says a key phrase to make sure they aren’t compromised, and the other person says a certain phrase back to confirm. I will always lead with Hi How’re you? I usually get one of three responses. 1: hi I’m doing good-I find that this means that the person doesn’t want to talk to me or isn’t up for an actual discussion. So I will either leave it there or just keep with the dreaded small talk. 2: Hi I’m good, how’re you?- the fact they’re Intrested in me shows that we can move beyond small talk and have a smaller discussion in general, or talk about their lives. 3: I’m tired because I stayed up last night you (they described how they honestly felt in more than than two words and asked me how I was- This shows me that I can actually have a good conversation, and that they are willing and emotionally ready to have a talk. I will usually only ever open up when someone replies with this as this is what my more trustworthy friends reply with

Absolutely spot on!

Empathy isn’t the same as sympathy. Empathy is the capacity to feel another person’s feelings. I can pick up on a psychopath as easily as I can anyone else. I certainly don’t sympathize with people. They would have to justify a reason to feel sympathy, for me to feel it. I don’t give money to homeless people who ask for money, because I work hard for my money, and for them to assume any right to this, is the height of arrogance, and offends me. See how sympathetic I am? I couldn’t give a crap. It is a principle, and I apply it to everyone, myself, first and foremost, equally.