Why Am I So Angry? The Underlying Causes.

I am so angry person sometimes. When ever I become angry I am always hitting my head or face my selfish. I don't know why am doing this.. its happen only short term. Then I become normal. Give some advice to me

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The second you said from a Christian perspective is the second I thumbs down. Why does anything and everything have to be something about God or religion? Can't we be responsible for ourselves and our own actions without it being something divine? Heres a real message for everyone with anger issues. You are responsible for your self. Mental health is very real and should be taken seriously. But it is up to you to decide that you need help. Stop letting religion dictate your life and stand for yourself.

This was great. Thank you so much . God bless you!❤

Some people are sociopaths and downright abusive. You can’t fix a sociopath.

Thanks so much God bless you ❤

Ngl i love it u should embrace it

people saying have sex is a stress angery out

tell me somtimg i dont know already

I want that music please!!

I don’t know what wrong with me I just was having a fine day then I just have a sense of anger in me and I don’t know why I just I don’t know I don’t get mad and that’s why this is so weird to me I don’t know what’s wrong

There is another way
One does not have to control, suppress, or manage anger or identity with it.

Anger doesn't exist without judgment.
The other way is to choose to face and let go of The and All judgment, choose peace and choose to develop and maintain awareness.

Anger is a symptom or warning sign of judgment which we can become aware of and tend to.

hatred is my main emotion.. i was sitting in the subway yesterday next to two women and listened to their rant about another woman..about her ugly flat about her son not eating well..my hatred protects me to connect to ppl cause ppl only have fun to dig into your life and then tear you apart right behind your back. Fuck them all

Anger is everywhere lol 😂

I have experienced way too much injustice and it’s pure ANGER. I don’t feel fear or sadness. It’s pure angry. Because I need retaliation. Something’s just need to be justified.

THIS IS AN AMAZING VIDEO, THANKS

How about seeing injustice

Therapists and anger management classes actually made me worse because 20 years of mental health professionals showed me how badly they suck at their jobs. It's taking videos like this that ACTUALLY do more then any of them ever did.

That is so helpful, thank you!

Thank you 😘

I was angry until i decided i didn't want to be. Only women are really angry because they are emotional. I was emotional like a woman, but i didn't whine i found God and improved myself.

I have a question. Is it fair for me to be angry with my boss for secretly having a disrespectful perspective of me? She expressed herself at a hypnotist show. See, the hypnotist asked the participants to explain a complex philosophy they each have, and my boss talked about intelligence and hard work. She said she didn't believe that everyone was smart; that only certain people were while others were unintelligent. She also said that hard work does not always make people smart. She used my name as an example. She said some people were smart and hardworking, and thus were successful, e.g., in school. Some were smart but lazy and thus didn't manage what they could've. And finally that some people were hardworking...but not smart. She referenced me. She talked about how I was a slow learner at work, got things mixed up, and couldn't seem to do anything right alone. How she didn't think I could manage one-person shifts without someone to guide me. Especially after the time I set a wedding reception with black linens, not white, the official/usual color (though in my defense, black linens were used for most other events, so thus it was a natural psychological error.) She mentioned how I didn't have a driver's license and still lived at home with my boss in my late twenties.

The hypnotist, who seemed surprised by her comments, said, "So just to clarify, you don't think he has much honor or dignity in him? That his loyalty, hard work, and diligence is all he's got going for him? Just choices, no skills or brains?" And to my dismay, my boss said, "Yes, exactly." That hurt so much. So...do I have a right to be mad at her? She didn't say this consciously, let alone to my face, but she thinks that way. Even in private, I think that's disrespectful and shameless. Do you, guys?

Your words are not falling on deaf ears. Thank you for this ❤

Please explain how to “put it in God’s hand” How does that look like?

If you ask people about me they’ll say I’m nice, mostly quiet but someone confident who says what she means and means what she says. I know because people have expressed this. I don't have enemies, I think I'm compassionate, kind and patient. For example,I never complain at a store or restaurant for bad service, or respond in a negative way when people are rude to me, I never honk at other drivers! lol Anyways, as you can see I am almost Mother Teresa to everyone EXCEPT my husband. He's the only person I'm frustrated with and hold grudges. He's the only one whom I yell at. But he is a great man so it's a long story of why and how this anger built inside of me. I'm also resentful with my mom (but in secret) for the pain she unknowingly caused me when she raised me to be so insecure, and when she pressured me to get married instead of allowing me to go to University and get a career. I had dreams. Now I’m close to 44 being a SAHM for 21 years, feeling robbed, old, frustrated, wanting to work but desiring a real career or business but can’t think, have no vision and still feel stuck with minors at home.
I know it’s easy to say: You decided to not do or do this and that but having someone control your brain is real, my mom had a mental hold on me that I can’t even explain (she still does in some areas and I hate it but can’t be free 😢) She’s caring and I love her but it’s so hard to not feel bitter against her. I guess when I got married I also went from her bondage to my husband’s. Everything he said we have done, I haven’t felt emotional support from him, or the feeling that I could go out and do something good in life because he wouldn’t help with the kids or the house. Everything he does triggers negative feelings in me. I can’t afford a therapist and he doesn’t believe I need one, he says “just be happy” but I feel I need techniques to deal with this, I need to vent, I need help. Seeing how years pass by is so depressing.
I already know why I feel like this. I’ve done a self search and realized what caused it, the question is, how do I get rid of this? How do I heal?

I have noticed this certain type of anger about myself. I don't start trouble with anyone; I do defend myself, I do speak straightforward tactfully; though many do not handle it well. I am not always angry. In fact, it takes time for me to get annoyed and angry. But once I am angry, that person receives sharp but true words and can receive cannons depending on the incident, the person, their spirit, their intent, etc.

Then, there are times when another or even the same person can do the same action but I will hear the Holy Spirit directly me what to say to the person. This latter, I would say happens most and when anger is not present.

G-d and how He works...is amazing. I accepted life in Jesus Christ at 9 yrs of age. I have recently asked YHWH about this during self-examination and asked why. Where does this streak come from, what is it stemming from and what is really the source? I have worked past the rage of being abused as a child in every way except one since I was a teenager, with Yahweh's counseling; and continue moving forward to today and beyond. Though, the rage left long long ago; I was a young adult. Your video came across today and I'm ready to address this area. Thank you and continued blessings to you🙏🏽

She’s counseling from a religious perspective and I don’t feel like humoring her right now. She seems nice though. I wish you all courage, vulnerability, peace, and love. ☮️ 💗
Wish me luck on helping my angry dad.

The funny one: you may be hungry...is actually not that funny...

Surprise, it's more anger.

I have troubles with feeling anger at all, suppressed anger.
It is the former stage I suppose in the work.

Thank u for this video. I’ve been nothing but angry lately and it’s so frustrating and I’m tired of it and now that I have an understanding of why hopefully I can put an end to it. :)

This video really helped me, I dont know what made me look this up but it made me realize what i need to do and God really sent me A message through this video lately i’ve been lukeworm and distant from God and I have been trying to deal with this on my own but there’s only so much A person can do on there own we need God so if you are seeing this comment your not alone God is in us and dont cut him off and open up to him confess dont hold back

My mother blamed my sister and I for things that SHE did wrong...fucked up, yes, but she had a very violent Dad so maybe it was a survival thing. Her husband, my Dad wasnt violent at all though so it was really hard to understand why she was always passing the blame. 😢😢😢

Anger 😡 Happened In Different Lives

My anger has gotten worse for the past couple of months, I am normally quiet because I've been taught that I can't be angry, I was never allowed to express it. Everyone else was allowed to do, say and treat me however they wanted but I was expected to be the mature one, even as a child, even when my mother would tell me I was good for nothing. I always had to balance everyone and I'm just so tired. I just want peace.

This was very helpful ❤

I’m scared to tell my therapist that I am very angry all the time. Because I will feel like I’m a bad person. Plus I feel like I can’t trust anybody so that makes me more angry.

Thank you for this.

Thanks

I'm not aggressive nor mean, I'm realizing listening to your video, that I have never had the opportunity to let the person who hurt me so deeply, I've never had the opportunity to let him know exactly what he put me through and how his actions effected and impacted my life. ? Maybe if I write him a letter,some of this anger will leave me? I just thought about this issue while making breakfast and not sure what brought it to mind ?

For me I guess just realizing this,I guess it started in 2018 with a great traumatic event ?

my anger is self-directed.

How do we give ourselves, hurts, pains and anger to God? I've heard it said to 'GIVE IT TO GOD", how does that work?

Thank you for this and rhe Christian perspective 🙏

I just want to hold both your hands and say thank you. I am grateful.

Ive always held my anger or my sadness inside and try to hide it until i cant and then i cut loose. I don't like it.

For some reason I’ll go from being fine to so angry I’m nearly seeing red for no reason it doesn’t matter if I’m alone or with my family I’ll get so angry but if I hold it in I genuinely start to feel suicidal

If i can remember this . Quote.. if it will affect the next 10 years of your. Life get angry. About it .. but if most people will forget about this event in next 10. Days don't all it to make you upset

I do have negative thoughts, self hatred, a d hidden anger from severe childhood trauma, bullying, religious abuse, betrayal, loss, and many deaths of my loved ones. This has affected my relationship with God. Even though I like my trauma therapist alot I need a Christian therapist that deals with trauma and mental illness so my faith in God and hope in life can be restored. I will keep praying and searching for one.

Your words, were wise and helpful. I thank you for the messages you give.