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I cut out porn a couple of months ago, based on advice from "No more Mr Nice Guy," and to my surprise the next time I hooked up with a woman it was probably the best sex I had ever had. No, I don't think it was because of her. This is great advice Anna.

I don’t look at women on social media.

I have and am committed to making and saving money.

I’m average looking and 74 years old. I have been rejected by 95% of the women I have met.

As far as knowledge I have spent my life gaining knowledge, learning and doing. I have to many interests.

I have not watched any adult content in 50 years.

I have come to realize that these modern women are nothing but made up drama queens and not worth my time, energy or money.

Based on my limited experience there is no hope the a woman in the current state of civilization would work on relationships. A man must behave, but a woman must not. I am looking at the beautiful hostess and cannot believe that she would lift a finger to help her man

You are just so gorgeous.

Hi Anna Great advice as you said porn is very addictive it’s so powerful drug and so hard to break. You live your fantasy online, it’s not real all you do is waste time and money on cam models making other people rich and keeping yourself poor with a distorted view of what an actual relationship is. I agree leave it alone and enjoy real life.

Or they are catphishing

Your Phone and PC are a DISEASE
they are your enemy and they are destroying you

At age 60, I learned to play guitar, harmonica and sing.
2 years later, I'm the front man of a Neil Young Tribute band.
Was on stage at 6 months in.
My band members are all long tyme musicians.
I would never have dreamed this would be part of my life..

Thank you once again for the advice. I spend a lot of time on geopolitical sites especially about Russia and China. I constantly argue against their trolls when they attack Ukrainian vlogs. I actually found a use for all the knowledge I learned in college from history, philosophy, and psychology. I've even had one Russian troll accuse me of being an U.S. government propagandist!😂🤣😂 I probably shouldn't spend so much time on it though but Ukrainians like me as much good that does me living in rural Georgia.

Absolutely I spend too much time on social media scrolling hot chicks for their bodies and not their brains! It has become my favorite hobby! It seems like it is fun !

I don't follow ladies on social media other than you Anna! What can I say, I like smart ladies that can hold a great conversation. A nice time out is a whole let better once you get to know a person and share experiences. It's not at all about a physical relationship.

So true, I like the way you bring up these themes 👍

I was watching one of those "Adult Content" videos once and saw a new technique. I later tried with my wife and she was so very HAPPY I did. They can be instructual sometimes.

'Just the tip.' lol

I am actually not overweight and often people view me on the skinnier side, and I am Very Handsome my problem is women only want sex with me and don't want relationships event ough im a nice guy who always puts my woman first. I get called "too nice" but still have an edge. But when that dynamic changes towards a relationship I soften up alot. It's just hard cause I can really connect with someone but they only want sex from me cause I can make them orgasm until they can't anymore.

Wow its amazing your insight to all of this, its so simple yet its so hard because people don't want to fit in a specific boss. We can't question the way the world works we either choose to play ther game or we walk away.

I commented before and today again.
You are speaking of the point of view of a woman, who wants a man.
I respond as a man as follows:
It first happened, and I didn't know what is was.
In my teenage years the drive was crazy, & this was the only legal course. As I aged it became my stopgap, when things were dry or restricted.
Woman have it, and use it as a tool of leverage.
I am now a single man.
With a dog, a maid when wanted, and a trip to the red light district, to enjoy as I please.
LTR relationships that survive are rare. I keep the lights on for such a lady.
It is becoming less important now.
My life is free.
My dog is loyal.
And my mind is at peace.
I wish for a wonderful woman.
I am, like most, a defective man.
I realize that legally attaching to another defective person is self inflicted pain.
Life is pure torment, with brief periods of the lack of same, being happiness.
Stoicism & solitude are grand.
I raised a child, and it was grand & ungodly painful.
My wife was a kind person, but defective in ways ultimately intolerable. We were culturally different, & I was to ignorant to realize our issues in time, (before marriage & 1 child).
Have a family, & expect pain.
This is life for the majority.
Or help others, as you want, when & how you want.
Be stoic and solitary in peace.

The only time I watch porn is with her which is probably a red flag to begin with

I don’t do social media… at all, no fb tic tok or anything else. I only watch Your videos to give me info on the one woman I am interested in

I'm glad to be an older man who does not have any of these habits. Probably should spend a little more time in the gym but when you work 12-hour shifts 5 days a week, not a lot of energy left over for that. I feel sorry for these "social media models" because they don't even realize what they're doing to themselves, personally I find their image more like trashy throw away women and it's heartbreaking to think with their future holds for them. I'm more partial to the actresses of the 40s and 50s because they seem far more glamorous and classy women.
I do enjoy your videos, even though this one really doesn't pertain to me but I think your content is very helpful and informative.

Social media has changed women's idea of what an acceptable man is WAY more than it has affected men.

Thank you!

Funny I never cared for when a guy tried those “turn on’s”, which actually are off putting to me. It just shows arrogance and cockiness as well as disrespect. In fact, I had stalkers and perverts behave like that until filing restraining orders and taking up self defense training and getting a legal gun permit. What turned me on - deferring to God, being humble, being honest, being musical, and being shy. Incidentally, I don’t mind if my husband slouches. :)

Great video. I agree with you completely. As someone who fought my way out of a prawn addiction, I can say that everything you've said is accurate and well researched. You can develop one even if you are in good shape and have a life. It is that addicting. While this is not an excuse, I can see the Sisyphean hill some men have to climb. Many of the guys selling no fap for clicks (and I don't disagree with their premise) are guys that can get it often. So if you see a gym rat who has girls falling over him, and he's preaching no fap, it becomes difficult to see yourself in that situation. It also stinks because while there are hundreds of videos encouraging men to stop doing unproductive things and start a business, level up in their career, go to the gym, play sports, be conversational, etc There are very few videos telling women (from women) to stop their self-destructive behaviors. Stop being the bait that hooks men into an addictive prawn habit. I understand, hooking men on Only Fools is lucrative for some, and others see that and want to get in on the action. The onus of all dating woes simply can't be laid at solely at the feet of men and expect a positive resolution. I've said to guys for years, don't simp. I've watched your very good video on it. But I can see how younger men are struggling with meeting anyone. I'm not saying every tiktoker is the norm, but there does seem to be a much more brutal screening policy than when I was a younger man. And given the complaints of women in their early thirties, it doesn't seem like their strategy is working out.

Anna porn will never replace the experience of having a good experience with a good woman.

You are still my favorite person right now I have agreed with all of your points that you have made especially your comments on porn sex is a important part to a relationship but should never consume your mind there's so much more to life

Don’t be afraid to give tough advice to men, and don’t apologize when you do give tough advice. Tough men will appreciate every ounce of tough advice you give and everything you said in this video is true.

When it comes to addiction to social media, it seems to me there are as many women who are guilty. One of my contacts posts almost everyday, and it's the same things: pictures of her dog, her cats, or her polished toe nails. Some people have a pretty strange criteria as to what they consider newsworthy. Of course, some are in serious need of a LIFE, too! BTW, she is also recently separated!
Now, among the habits you listed, numbers one and three have never been factors for me. I do not spend any time on Tiktok, and I refuse to touch pornography under any circumstances!
It is point number two that has been my undoing. I tried to pursue an accounting designation, but had my funding cut off by a former employer when the manager found out I was seeking other employment. She was a complete dingbat who always played favorites in the office; specifically in favor of her lazy, good-for-nothing daughter who always disrespected her.
I have also had a lifetime of bad guys in the workforce who did everything they could to destroy me. I expect to finally get out of debt at some point next year, but I know that, financially, it may be too late for me.
Now, just last night, I was at an annual Christmas pot luck and gift exchange for the dance troupe which I am a member of. I got word that a young lady I had ideas about now has a boyfriend. Little does she know, but any friendliness she shows me from hereon will no longer be reciprocated. In something of a knee-jerk reaction, I went online on an international dating site and chatted with a young lady. The conversation was a refreshing pleasure. You can criticize me for this, but I get tired of only getting bottom-of-the-barrel women that I don't want. I have a very nice appearance and look 10-15 years younger than I am. I am not one of these guys who walks around with a beer belly and gotee beard!

This is another good video on your part, but I'm afraid it has come years too late for me.

just lost a script...

So True Anna, all is pretty much correct.

To fap, or not to fap, that is the question 😊

There is a major flaw with social media. You cannot see how the women move and interact with others. This is important.

Such good advice. I was a high school teacher and witnessed young men getting pulled into porn and ruining their lives. It's way to accessible and young men do not have the restraint or understanding what it is doing to them.

Quitting the porn isn't as hard as people think it is. It's hard because people often MAKE it hard in their minds. I struggled to quit for a long time, but reading a free e-book called "The Easy peasy method" really helped. It's a 4-5 hour audiobook. But it covers one valuable point: The consumer has essentially brainwashed themselves into believing that they are missing out on, or sacrificing something by quitting. When we constantly think we're missing out on something, we automatically struggle more to quit. A lot of these nofap gurus make money on books, and coaching. They don't want people to know about this free method of quitting, so the easy peasy book is banned in many forums. The easy peasy forums are often dead, because a lot of people just use it to quit and get on with their lives.

I've been away for a while , Wow I missed you . what I'm doing wrong
league. like you...

As a former high school teacher, I can attest to the fact that porn among teenage boys is pervasive and really damaging. They really have a hostile way of looking at young women. Second, video gaming is an incredible waste of time. I had more than a few students fall asleep in class because they played video games all night. An excellent book I recommend for those younger people caught in a spiral of wasted time, energy and opportunity is "Be Useful" by Arnold Schwarzenegger. Get with it!

My case I get the women but I find the wrong ones . Mean and hateful put the blame on me when they have a bad day . Im a little over weight my Norm 185 im 210 But Im on a Diet and I am losing a little each week . walking a few miles a day . Im trying to figure out the Gold diggers from the good women . Last 2 only wanted my Home and my money , I feel Dumb . Im Not rich I was Set I Owned land 50 acers and a home Paid for no Debt lost my Business and Used my Farm sale pay off my debts Im Debt free with a small home and On a 2 acer lot in a small town the single women are Gold Diggers or on Meth . Dating stinks .

I'm a 59yo man that is in an unusual position. I've been dating an adult actress for 3 years now. Started out casual & now it is serious. One has to have a strong self worth & lack jealously. I don't game & I do scroll the "beautiful" but that has converted into research for my other halves digital image. I am flawed & need to lose weight, but my imperfections seem to be attractive to my gf. I'm learning until I die.

Love Wingmam! You’ve ruined me for other women 😊

Outstanding advice! You do care immensely about your young male viewers. Our society is in collapse!! We are a weak effeminate country and it is by design. Start practicing Semen Retention, fasting from food and exercising. Your flesh is weak and must be put under your control. Buy a Bible and start in the book of John. That public school, TV, radio etc has been lying to you your entire life. Everything is a lie. Learn to master your body and especially your thoughts and you will be unstoppable. Jesus Christ MUST be the center of your life.

I’ve given up all social media and porn. Not because it isn’t good for me, simply because I no longer care about connections or sex/intimacy any longer.

You are truly amazing Anna and I always learn something new from your videos. I am already doing your tips you are suggesting ( gym, learn new skills, etc ) but when it comes to finding true love seems elusive. So besides the self confidence program I got from you, I will soon purchase a coaching or consultation session(s) with you so you can demistify some of the elusiveness ... I seem to be on the "healthy good guys category" but I certainly need some "tutoring" from you.

Can't help it. Women enter our thoughts and we are finished.

Does this all also apply to women ?

Finding love? According to The Bible, women are incapable of love. As someone that married young and stayed married over 30 years, I can confirm that's it not worth it. Guys, your hand is better. Stay free and save yourself the misery and headaches of marriage (80% chance of divorce anyway).

I know the video is a bit old but dang, guilty on almost all counts! I guess I use the excuse that 'I'm retired' too much for letting myself go, both physically and mentally...

To fap.

I would say find a long term purpose.... ( I'm an artist during off times, and put time into it... but still one needs to get out into the world. It does get lonely)

Damm good video