The Dumbest Dating Mistake Everyone Makes... (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

All those women LOOOOOOOOOOOVE him. Really.

It's great that he speaks about the difference between the tone and the action. As an example, he is all friendly and understanding in his tone, while seated in an elevated position, as some kind of dominant preacher 😂

Amen

"People may not remember what you said or what you did, but they WILL remember how you made them feel." Everyone who has had any customer service experience will likely know this, whether you worked in a fast-food restaurant or a hospital or store. It's true, though -- if a person feels like they've been treated badly, they won't forget it.

Women from the US are suckers for a british accent, and this guy is certainly capitilizing on that.
Couple that with the fact that feminism has ruined relationships by teaching women that
they dont need men, and having a man supporting you is a sign of weakness and failure,
(men is portraited as the scum of the earth while all women are beautiful empowered disney princesses),
and also that prioritizing your family instead of your career is a sign of submission, etc etc...
and there you go, you have the perfect scenario for a room full of failed woman
(most of them past their prime let's be honest) so desperate that they're willing to pay for
advice comming from what they were taught as being the scum on earth.

I feel sorry for the good women in that audience. They are just victims of feminism, which
has poisoned the relationships between men and women, and these poor victims dont
even know what's happening. Now there's another portion of the audience made up by
a$$hole women who have completely unrealistic expectations and who also treat men
like trash and wonder why they're still alone. These deserve to remain alone, and they probably will.

Every woman in this comment section think that Matthew notices them 😂

if a man is not attracted to you, your tone will not change his mind. he may think better of you, but you will not win over a man who is only there to use you. this guy is telling hopeless women that they still have a chance. A man who is poor and ugly will NOT pay to get this kind of feel good advice.

This is great. In the interests of women, it is advised to appreciate the interests of men. Dating is not one-sided, and here you can see that working with what men look for helps women get what they look for

This is good marital and career wisdom, too. Thanks, Matthew.

I agree with the concept but not with the explanation, I think people get angry and ruthless with the tone because they take things personally, they let other people's actions affect they're own perceived value, mostly because the come from a place of low self esteem in the first place. Anger is just a sign that your mind gives you to remind something is potentially overstepping your boundaries, people need to learn how to act rationally on that instead of put out in the world the first emotional response they have. If someone is not interested in meeting/knowing you, let's you hanging or overstep your boundaries you just move on, you really don't have anything good to gain from him/her, if you stick around is because you don't respect yourself in the first place (and the anger is probably signaling that). Build up your self esteem, set up healthy boundaries and standards that are respectful of yourself and you see you'll stop making bad dating choices.

Brilliant. Spot on!

I know this guy is making money. But as a (widowed) single father, I have to go outside the U.S. to find a wife. Screw American women - figuratively. They suck.

LoL, all these women want to date this guy.

Don’t trust this guy around your girlfriend🤣

do women screw over their own standards to see a man who is ruthless in his tone? no. he talks sweet but is ruthless in his actions. all this hussey dude is saying is talk sweet right back while doing your best to hold the line on your standards.

Being kind and sweet can't be taught. You are or you are not and this is true for so so many things that these coaches are selling to desperate people. You are born a don Giovanni , a player , a bitch etc etc . You don't be like that one morning for your suprise or just because somebody says be a bitch or a player and that's it , you take a class and it's done. Desperate people would belive at anything .

Top man. So right.

Girl in the front row with the wavy blonde hair is in love.

💌

He just like me fr

Think about this for a minute: how screwed up are modern women whereas they have to go to seminar to find out how to get a decent man? The entitlement of these women is astounding . . . .

One would hope that these women had learned these very basic life lessons a little sooner

I keep coming back to this video periodically because is such an important life lesson.
Thank you!

All the hookers are in the front row.

Girl in the blue is so ready for love

Dated a girl who in the beginning of our relationship.... maybe after a month or so... she tells me that she was at work and one of her ex's came in and basically tried to hit her up for a booty call. I asked what she said in response. She told me that she turned him down and said she had a boyfriend. Sensing she was maybe playing with me, testing me, or trying to make me jealous I told her in a calm voice, "Good. If you ever want to be with him or some other guy or find someone better let me know and we will break up."
She didnt expect me to be able to react so calmly and that scared her I think. She asked if I would be upset. I told her sure, but Id move on and find someone else. There is no sense us staying together if you are unhappy or think you can do better. She never tried anything like that again.
Know your worth, be confident, and dont say something unless you mean it.

A Covert Narcissistic be like "shit I totally agree" sad😢.

Yeeeeeeeeea but us men WEEEEEEEEEEW HAVE GET THE FEMALE TO HAAAAAAAAAAAAATE THAT THEY LOVE US JAJJAJAJAJAJAJ JUST THE WAY IT IS BROTHER. PLUS THEY DONT WHAT MAKES THEM HAPPY BECAUSE ITS A MOMENT TO MOMENT THING WITH MOST OF THE FEMALES. IIIIIIIII KNOW WHAT MAKE YOU AS IN THE MALE. THE FEEEEEEEEEMALE HAAAAAS TO LOVE THE MAN MORE THAN THE MAN LOVES FOR IT WORK.

Women need to chase and court men

Women don't just want any guy. They want a rich, smart, generous, etc man

This advice is gold and has changed my life. By the way, it is applicable in all areas, not only dating.

Great video. So true

This is so true because love and hate are on the same coin. The opposite of love isn't hate but is actually indifference like if you don't care they don't effect you in a positive or negative way

He's smart. This isn't just dating advice but great communcation advice

MH is a master, far beyond… dating

God women are such suckers ... You can literally sell them anything

How many women fall in love with this guy everytime he opens his mouth? The woman in blue is beyond smitten.

Women have an abundance mindset because there are endless men constantly trying to get with them.
What women fail to fully grasp is that the vast majority of those men don't want to be with them in any serious way, they just want to have sex with them.

This is why women are losing in the current market.
They dis the small handful of actual good men over petty stuff thinking she can replace him because she thinks the thousands of men who just want to screw her are viable options.

The scent of fish in that room would have the cats scratching at the door. Two guys in the room wondering what TF they've walked in to. 😁

Yeah, I'm just honest all around, I'm sweet when I'm feeling sweet, I'm angry when I'm feeling angry, honesty is important to me, and it is no skin off my back if a man I'm interacting with knows I have emotions. I'm only interested in being with a man who likes me all around for who I am. It's important to say how you feel, how actually down the road is this going to go. What he is actually doing is telling woman how to be passive aggressive towards men. Expressing that you are passed off or angry is honesty, not passive aggressiveness, he just inserted passive aggressive after the word angry but they are essentially mutually exclusive ways of behavior

Would have been nice if he described what actions and what tone to use. That's 6 minutes I'll never get back.

what you have with these women is this hustler being the image of their celebrity fantasy.....which is what women are all about..imagine all these dumb women ...and I repeat dumb...paying for this hustlers seminar.....what it proves is theyre all looking for this charlatan to to guide them to their ficticious James bond who doesnt exist...otherwise theyd spend their time actually engaged in meeting and engaging real men in their own environment..here you have a bunch of women in their fifties who cant think for themselves ..and remain single due to their inaccessable standards..

I always think of the movie hitch. There is the way it should be and then there's the way it really happens in real life

"You who i barely know had that much of an effect on me." Applicable in other areas of life as well.

I Watch Matthew for relationship advice. This helps

Thanks for that advice… only thing I now have left to find are women to apply this to🤣

He is making women great again, and the women are eating it up. He simply isn't using the words.

Wow this guy spoke for ten min and said nothing

There are many good looking women in the audience. Never thought they would ever have a problem finding someone

I'd like everyone to go back and watch this again......only focus on the lovely blonde in the turquoise dress in the front row. Her eyes NEVER leave Matthew, and I can see her adoration from here. Do you all agree with me that, if he wanted to, Matthew nailed her backstage after this event? She would have eaten sh*t if he had asked her to......