Pick Mes Versus Haters.. | Two Hot Takes Podcast Full Ep

Story 1: why would OP think that anyone would be ok with his "friends" saying those things about the love of his life?

if my boyfriend was in that group chat of a random girl just openly sending nudes to a bunch of guys WITH WIVES 😭😭😭 ain’t no speaking we breaking up

Announcing pregnancy at a funeral!!! Wtf😂😂😂🙈🙈🙈some people have no awarness at all

in the first one or second one, if its a joke then why do you care so much you can make jokes about ONE person?

In my opinion as a woman, I don’t think strip clubs are a big deal. I think it’s more than women freaking out about her man going to the strip club that makes it somewhat of a forbidden fruit.

i hate when people are mean and hide behind the excuse “it’s a joke” if it was a joke i would be laughing wouldn’t i? so either ur just a dickhead hiding behind the excuse or you’re just not funny

My ex best friend who was my ex boyfriends ex girlfirend, used to pull the "you remember when we did this? you remember when this happened?" EVERY TIME we where in calls playing games and everyone said i was "just paranoid" so im so glad you just validated my pain without even trying T.T Thank you ;-;

Ive got this weird situation. Ive been wirh my girl for a year and like 3 months or so and her and my girl best friend are now really good friends. My guy best friend who's been my roommate for the last couple yeare i feel like is the one who is feeling possessive of me. Theres been severel passive aggressive comments about how i spend so much time wirh her, especially now that hes not in a relationship himself.

If your partner knows that you’re going to a strip club it’s not a problem in my opinion. Also not a pick me opinion

Yeah my first thought was she was in love with her sisters man and is bitter. She was talking about his good qualities like it was her man and passive aggressively sayingnher sister wasnt good enough lol

“Love them most times… some times.. some days” IS SO FUNNY

What makes a person a pickme? Because i feel like everyone in this video was just assholes in the stories

For the first story he said that they make fun at each other’s expense. Not at their partners expense.

The story about the jealous sister, it's clear that the guy and her sister love each other. She is putting down her sister just because she is pretty. That is so sad that you could have such low self-esteem to be willing to hurt your own sister to feel better.

4th story, Rose. I feel awful for Bran and has GF. When I met my Bf his female friends had all known his ex, they had all lived together and they used to always say things like “oh him and (ex girl friend) used to be so loud when they had sex down the hall lol!“
Like…what am I supposed to do with that info?

Omg i had to skip her story about her friends' entanglement. 😵‍💫😫

I never realized that I was a pick-me girl.
Well, it makes sense why people avoid me😁

I’m a man in my 40s me and my boys still pick on each other about everything and I have multiple friend groups and it’s the same across the board

As someone that does have a boyfriend, I think the roommate is definitely not at fault (for the last story) she lives in that house and she should be able to dress and feel comfortable, that's like the LEAST you could do in your own home. And the boyfriend is responsible for where he's looking and how he's acting. Plus, of the only thing that keeps a relationship from crumbling is some cleavage....then you need to rethink your relationship.

In the first story, he doesn’t understand the difference between his jokes between friends and what he says about e’s girlfriend. I understand making fun of your friends because that’s how me and my friend group is. We’re immature and poke fun at each other. But we know we like each other, and that there is no malice in anything we do. He clearly showed in how he spoke about j that he DOES NOT LIKE HER. These are not jokes, you’re just saying why you don’t like her. Ofc e doesn’t want to hang out with you because you don’t like his fiancé for literally 0.0 reason other than your own petty beauty standards.

Im like 99.999% positive @ 40 mins she was talking about the movie Wish Upon A Star with katherine Heigl and Danielle Harris, not 27 dresses......🤷🏽‍♀️💁‍♀️ juss sayin...

In my friend group we call most pick me guys "schrodinger's douchebags" basically it means the person decides whether their shitty comments are "jokes" based on the reactions of people around them. These guys tend to put other guys down to make themselves feel better and usually don't like women. My friend told us about the term and its so useful. 😂

my problem w pick me’s is them acting above and beyond someone else just bc they allow and “ like “ certain things . ex: morgan wanting to take her man to the strip club it’s alright but don’t hate other women for not wanting to do that , like bragging to the women who doesnt wanna do that telling them their insecure, bragging about being like that to the other girls bf etc

So funny how I’m watching this episode and they talk about 27 dresses when I had just seen it for the first time this morning 😅

PLEASE Don’t crop reaction and conversation I for one enjoy the entirety of the of all the verbiage on a story and it feels like we are in the room with you and involved. Love the contributions from Lauren and Alejandra and how Morgan pulls is all in and weaves those side comments back into the mainframe that is quite the talent.

I remember one of the only times I was in trouble in high school, I was dress coded. I had to dress up for a mock trial. I wore a sweater dress that went to my knees and tights, and some random teacher I never even met before took me to the office and had the dean call my mom about it. My mom proceeded to yell at them on the phone: "I saw her outfit before she left for school and it was perfectly appropriate. I am a school psychologist and see younger kids wear much more inappropriate clothing. Stop judging the body of my 15 year old daughter."

They let me leave after that.

27 dresses

There was a point in my life that I was obsessed with 27 Dresses, so the instant she said 2 sisters where one was blonde and the other is a brunette I knew EXACTLY what she was talking about

I was told I’m pick me before bc I talk to guys but I was raise with only boy like only I’m the youngest out of 5 boys so I never had older sister to teacher me talk to girl but I can talk to them but ig I’m good talk to guys but that come natural so I never seen it there way😅😭 I get ask a lot for how I do it and I simply say “be you, don’t copy other” bc at the end of the day you are you and no one else can be you 😊

We love the strip club - it’s fun for us both 😂 go girl go

Don’t mess with the bull, you’ll get the horns…

Those aren't even "jokes" about E, they're blatant insults towards J. Why wouldn't E be angry that his friends are constantly openly insulting his gf/soon to be fiance and laughing about it? That OP really just can't seem to grasp that the issue stems from both the target and the fact that they aren't making jokes, but rather clear and serious insults. "Why would E date her" isn't a joke, it's a question, OP, even a toddler can grasp that 🙄you also just sound straight up jealous of her like you want to date E instead, ngl

I had a best friend whom I met freshman year of college and we became so close, she became a total “pick me” girl. Like one time I met a guy at a party, we casually dated and he went to Vegas with friends and I was supposed to go with my best friend so he and I planned to meet up. A family emergency happened and I couldn’t go, my best friend understood. After the next few days I see she posted pics of her with that guy ALL over him. Needless this(among other shit) caused me to end the friendship & obviously I stopped talking to that guy

had a friend where i told her i had a crush on a guy we both were friends with and she said she'd help me get with him but started flirting with him then it turned out they were dating in secret right afterwards lmaooo

Men‘s friendships make no sense to me.

theres nothing wrong with being a pick me, its just hella annoying and we all know what your doing.

My husband has 5 brothers. They have a cousin who came to stay with them for a couple of years. He started dating a MUCH older woman, much much older (he was younger than her oldest son) They started calling her the gramma. 20yrs later and they say “oh cousin is coming with his gramma. 🤦🏽‍♀️ 20 YRS LATER!!! Some ppl just never grow up

Just listening now since I’m binging on all past episodes. The funeral one… first off, definitely wouldn’t have announced like that. EW. BUT. My family is all about excitement. We basically had big parties at all my grandparents funerals. Granted, they were all late 80’s or 90’s, and ready to die. But my family took silly photos at each of their funerals. Definitely depends on the family!!!

Story 1: if you’re calling someone ugly who’s obviously not-you’re joking. If you’re calling someone ugly who’s actually “not attractive “- you’re just being a dick.

I wonder how sundress guy had reacted if he heard his wife say "I love the big d" to her friends and later the guy ask "oh honey, do you want the big d?" And she just answered "oh you don't have one".
He'd probably not find it very funny.

I love you guys!!!!

The last story: It’s one thing if someone has a serious problem like their own triggers,traumas or an ED or A problem…BUT that “trigger” or health problem or previous trauma doesn’t give you the right to shame, bully, harass or tear apart or go trigger happy pick me girl/guy on another person. No excuse, zero excuse to behave that way. If you behave that way or try to justify anyone behaving that way to another person then you and said person with the issues is a royal AH who probably needs to get yourself professional help or you need to just be told to back off of hurting others.

are those real bananas???

I’d say most people are chill with strip clubs considering they exist and make bank. 😂