MOVING OUT AT 18 (What I Learned From Getting Out On My Own)|| STORYTIME

Go to Church if you ever feel alone or suffering from depression it’s good for the void that we all need, God got you.

Moving out of mommas house turn boys into men

I feel trapped I feel grateful they took me in but I’m ready to start building my self for my future I know it ain’t gonna be easy I’m gonna work for it no matter what I ain’t giving up I wanna be smart about it and your videos are really helpful thank you for the tips man

Thanks for sharing your experience I too am planning on moving out the goal is next year am currently saving money and learning new skills and everything I can to prepare me for next year I can't wait 🏃

All I can say is staying until your 25 shouldn't feel shameful.

I'm 18 my parents are moving out of state I don't want to so le and my friend have been planning for the past few weeks I tell the next week.

dopest video ever

Im 19 i moved out at 17 because I was in foster care an I ran from the foster care long story short my mom helped me stay on the run an bought me a bus ticket to Kansas to live with my friend while I was there my mom passed away now I have no parents no support system my dad isn't in the picture an idk what to do I'm struggling mental an I don't know what to do with my life because I have no money I'm sleeping on my friends couch an I have no family here what so ever

You are an AWESOME INSPIRATION❣️ Thank You!!❤

Y’all need to stay eeet homee. Suffer! 🤬$&#%**

Lol hopefully room mates don't give me limitations

I'm 18 turning 19 next month and I'll be going to university next year and I'm going through exactly the same thing that you went through when you were 17 in terms of wanting to move out and not returning back home ever again.

Great video , thank you.

Man I’m just want to move out because of the pain 🙁

Yk man, this is huge for me, my parents do love me and all just I'm not in an environment where I can truly live, rn I'm just surviving, this video helped me be prepared as 17 going onto my senior year were I plan to move out in 4 months

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I needed this

I’m 23 and I live at home with my mom. Living with your parents doesn’t make you “weak” or “privileged”. There’s no need to dump yourself in the deep end to prove that you’re strong. Focus on yourself and your finances & build habits while IN your moms home. Don’t let other people’s circumstances push you to make a poor financial decision. I know dozens of people that was eager to move out and wished they had stayed at home with their parents so they can invest more aggressively. If you’re reading this and you live with your parents, strategize your life REGARDLESS if you’re living alone or not. You’re not weak for having a safety net, you’re more prepared, because let’s face it, you’re going to experience the real world and get tougher with or without prepared financials. And for those that move out early due to poor circumstances or eagerness, I’m proud of you for making the jump but tread carefully on words you use around those that haven’t made the leap yet. Keep in mind there are people that stay with mom and pop maybe because mom and pop need them. Focus on yourself. Your finances. Your objectives & YOUR health❤️

this was very motivational cause im going through this my first year of college and it really made me think

How's the real world? I'm 18 and I feel my world is pretty real lol

You could be a good motivation speaker !

Oh.. the thing that pushed me the most was when I told my Mom and dad that I was moving out my dad looked at my mom and said he’ll be back don’t worry. Now there were two ways that I could take that , 1 a reverse psychology thing or 2 He had no faith in me , he knew that I wasn’t ready something in me my actions told him that I couldn’t do it. Which hurt more but kick started that school yard phrase “ I’LL SHOW HIM “

You learn that if you let it your “friends “ will use your place as a refuge. You’re the excuse given to their parents “ I was at Sharon’s house” Lastly you will lose friends. Crazy I know but you will lose friends for the basic reason of you’ve GOT BILLS TO PAY. You can’t go out because rent is due next week. The cable is out, you can’t play music as loud as some would like. There’s a level of decorum that has to be followed in your apartment complex. Parking,some places only allow you one spot maybe two but no more than that. You’re not as free as you thought you’ve just changed from the rules your parents had to the rules of your landlord or apartment complex.

One thing that I noticed when I left my parents home is your friends are on a different time table than you are. You thought that it would be fun to invite your friends in on a Tuesday evening. They’ve got school they’ve got work choirs at home.

Thank You

Aye, you jus lived a regular experienced but privileged life. Atleast you had a father, and that gives you a more head start in life than everyone who only had one parent present and struggling financially. When you learn all these “life lessons” at a young age of 7,10,11 or even younger, you learn quick how hard life could be when your suppose to jus be a kid.

You’re right, my mom just showed me she doesn’t respect me as a man. Just happened an hour ago from posting this comment

wow I never comment on videos but this was worded so perfectly. God bless you, because you didn't have to share this with us. Thank you!

I am a girl of 32 years and single leaving with African parent😭 I m really going through trauma and blackmail from mum & how she hadly understand me, every day I feel I need to see a physchologist or someone to talk to that can understand me, worst of all is how my married siblings come home and fight me why I m still not married & why I have no shame still single in my parent house maybe cos I like to care toomuch for my mum & I get worried who will take proper care of her and daddy the way I want it, I have a good job and right now I feel I should move out and have my peace, when it's time to get married I will let them know, I am in pains & hurt ..I don't even like the part my mum feel my married sisters are always right when we have any argument jst bCOs they have kids and married they treat them like they are more responsible🙈 I need to go pay for a house soon and I need advice on how to nicely & respectfully break the news to them without been offensive🤦🤔

I was luckily still living at home when my reality check hit. 2 years later I'm finally about to move in a couple of months and it won't be a struggle move

I’m 18 currently working two jobs one at the W Hotel and the other at Hollister but my biggest problem is saving and when I think about things like moving out and going out there on my own I get nervous and stressed out

Im 18 i have 2 sports cars and i havent moved out yet im planning on putting money back to buy downpayment on a legit house even on my own

I’m 19 and living with my dad and step family, I don’t like how negative it is here, and I really really want to leave

so far this is the best video i've watched on the subject of moving out young. take it from a 16 year old

i just got in a argument wit my dad and i felt disrespected and all da pain i endured feeling like a little kid, i could not take it. I live in my car right now but I know that I need to make it because there is no going back

Nice message brother, thank you and good luck in life

Thank you so much bro ❤

You are inspiring

Now imagine going through the real world in a third world country that is religiously restricted. It’s Hell.
And with a family that is narcissistic unstable and full of drama.
You gonna have two choices, either become one of them full of dirt, or struggle to stay sane. I chose the later, dying alive.

why is this like only for men

I’m planning to move out to Uni in 4 days and I needed to hear this. Here’s what I picked up:

1. Have a solid plan before moving- packing and moving to the new place, meeting people and preparing for your course.

2. Discipline is key for studies, budgeting and financial independence to the point where you don’t rely on anyone.

3. The world is cruel and will test you physically and mentally and this will test who you are and that’s pretty scary.

4. Pushing through so many barriers by yourself makes the experience so fulfilling as you earn respect for yourself, your parents and your peers.

Thank you so much! Hoping I can do this!

My parents are really strict and hoping to leave at 18 it’s not because I hate my family it’s just my parents and family are very toxic and very religious and that kinda pisses me off my parents called the cops on me and wanted to put me in jail when I did nothing wrong.. ☹️

Reggie could you do a video on pursuing home ownership when you moved out and pay rent. It’s tough to save when you’re not at your parents house how do you save to own a home when half your income goes to rent?

I'm 16, and I fucking hate my family, I get so mad thinking about the fact that I still have to finish junior and senior year to move out of here. I'm just beyond excited to get out and move out.

I don’t have my mom and dad here in the US , I’ve been living with my family ever since I got here in the US , lemme tell you this , it was hell , I know I’m living with them I don’t have to worry about bills and other stuff , but I’ve suffered mentally for 5 years because the way they treated me , this is the reason why I’m gonna move out by the end of this cause I can’t anymore , I don’t like people controlling me , I feel like I’m in jail , and they told me that every time if I move out by myself I’m gonna mess up but I’m gonna prove them wrong!

Same boss I hate living by people’s rule this sh*t is killing me now , I’m gonna make a move by the end of this year , I hope help me out

I’m 18 I’m planning on moving out before 5months from now

Thanks reggie am planning on moving out as soon as am 18 years ..please make more videos like this ...am new to your channel

Should I hide my plans to move out so my parents don't try to sabotage my plans

I plain to move out at 18 because I don’t feel right living here not in a bad way I’m loved and all that I just don’t feel like I fit even tho I can tell I do I have never focused of fun compared to life I mean I own my own business at 16 and doing good I just don’t feel right here so at 18 ima pack up my shit in my truck and drive away idk I feel like it’s what is ment to be