156. Not Man Enough to Be a Woman: How William Allen Detransitioned After 30 Years

My dude is absolutely delusional to think he “passed.” Lmao.

Thank you for you authenticity , William.
Thank you, Stephanie for featuring Williams story.
From 2015-2020 , our daughter identified and presented as a man. (She was 19 yrs old.) She took hormones, had her healthy breasts removed, and changed her name. This behaviour came out of nowhere. She surrounded herself with "affirmers" and treated us like the "enemy".
She now sees herself as she is : a female, but still hangs on to her "trans" name.
We dont ask why. We just avoid calling her by that name and avoided using male pronouns.
William is right when he said affirmation is like "crack".
She loved it when she was affirmed. Her whole countenance would take on a euphoria.

Here is an idea..forget about the past and enjoy your life moving forward! God bless you!

Depending on the region and neighborhood, the boyhood behavior was not uncommon in the 60s when right vs wrong was "slipping" in society and bad behavior won respect from peers...

I'm just going to wade in here. I got caught by seemingly everyone putting on makeup in the mirror and trying to look hot like.. the day I began puberty. I forgot I was already trans until you know, after that. I know how to be sexy in some sort of long drawn out bath or shower. That sounds gender dysphoric, when you put it that way. Because that seems to be what women do. Shaving, exfoliating, moisturizers, nice hair. I seemed not ready for foundation eyeliner lipstick and blush. It always looks good anyways. Maybe he did that? Also, to clarify, I'm not gay. That was part of the confusion here

Although this man has had quite the journey through life, he has been so honest that what I have got from this interview, is a deep lesson on true repentence.
Thank you both for this clear and intelligent conversation.

After listening here a wonderment came. Could Trans People be Trance-Mediums and not know it?

God bless you William!

I’m glad he repented and now has Jesus in his life.

I met a trans man in 1987. I was 17 years and she was a friend of a friend. She said she was waiting for a sex change. At the time I didn’t think anything of it.

The trans trend is rooted in a spiritual crisis

I'm interested to know if the presenting as a woman, played a part in your s c x life. It's said "auto Gym on you know". Did it play in?

"I wished he (your dad) could see me now". He is seeing you and surely he is proud of you for all the good you are doing to so many people. Bless you, William.

Here is the thing - I don’t bother if any adults human beings wanted to be men or women but please don’t indoctrinate children ! And please stay away from women’s bathroom, lockers room , prisons, sports or any other women’s spaces ! I personally don’t feel comfortable if I knew a man in women’s clothes in bathroom ! The government should just build spaces for Transgender !

Sorry, you lost me at "...because there's sin in the world."

I absolutely enjoyed this episode. We found out recently that our 21 year-old son is going to transition to be a woman. I feel very assured that we have responded in the right way. Which is loving him, but not affirming him. Our prayer is that he will come to be saved as well! Jesus is our only hope!

If a person is straight don't they want to attract the opposite sex. It seems counterproductive to do something that would most likely not attract the opposite sex?

I wonder how was william treated differently when a trans woman?

I question and doubt the denial that he did it for autogynopile reasons and I thank her for questioning it. Just disappointed that she backed off so easily but I get it, she wants to be a welcoming podcast host

Thank you for sharing!

More of these stories need to come out. Respect.

Also look at 'coming out ministries'

Thanks William for sharing your story. Testimony that there is nothing too hard for God to do. Jesus saves. Hallelujah!

The Lord God bless, refresh, strengthen, comfort and protect you William, and everyone else working through grief and loss as a detransitioner.

My body is damaged from the Charlie Oscar Victor One Nine Plandemic injectable poison, and I'm looking forward to that "twinkling of an eye" day described in 1 Corinthians 15:50.🥰🇦🇺

God changing one's life is a Placebo effect. Been there, done that.

Words are importand. He was not transitioned, he was mutilated.
He was not a transwoman, he was trafestite. But he was not the only one responsable, we are all in this togather, we who are to affraid to speak up, let alone the medical world. We should not depend on medication as much. We should look at livestyle, food and relations that are more importand than money or power.

Thank you thank you William for sharing your testimony. As a parent of trans, I have the hope that God will deliver my family from this distorted ideology. I’m so happy for your new birth in Christ and your detransition. I’m also encouraged by the response from your church to love you and support your walk with God. I will get your book for sure.

I am a Detransitioned Lesbian who lived in transition for 30 years, presenting as a trans man. I began living in transition in 1987. I detransitioned in 2017. Let's talk Stephanie.

This may not sit well with fundamentalist beliefs that dismiss the idea of reincarnation but, throughout the world people do believe in reincarnation. We sometimes reincarnate as a male, other times as a female in order to evolve our soul. In a channeled message from Kyron/Lee Carrol, someone asked Kyron about gender confusion. Kyron's explanation was that because our past lives leave energetic imprints on our conscious being, when we've incarnated many times in one gender, then choose a lifetime as the opposite gender, there's often confusion at a soul level as to which is our authentic gender. This leads to profound questions about gender identity and often leads us to believe that we were born into a body that's the "wrong" gender. I hope this is helpful. Love and blessings.

Wow, so true men are “not man enough to be a woman”.

When colors, dresscodes are strictly applied and create gender stereotypes like pink , glitter, fabric like soft chiffon, care role and dolls only for girls and blue, pants and cars , tough guy image only for boys, it confuses little children and take them away the opportunity to understand themselves and that philosophical questions scientific questions are normal for everyone anyway and that there adults who are still on quest to understand life. I did for decades martial art, i like driving car and wear jeans pants and liked as kid climbing trees, for woke ppl, they would want me to become a transman just bc of this. The gender affirming ideology is a destructive cult.

I am not a Christian and when it came to religious ideology, I am not on the same page as William. And that is exactly why I appreciate you sharing the stories of people as they live them. Thank you for bringing diversity of opinion to the conversation.

Great interview! You're a good listener and ask thoughtful questions.
Good luck to William. It takes courage to talk about oneself so openly. 👍

Much respect to this guest for being so open about this painful journey. However, I am concerned about the whole religious framework of repentance here. Please don't get me wrong: whatever faith or lack thereof helps people, they are free to have religion. But framing it in this way sounds (I say it sounds, not that I think it is in this case) an awful lot like what used to be done to gay people in (actual) conversion therapy, and I think it can inadvertently lead to gender-critical positions being dismissed by those who most need to hear them.

As long as you are happy, that's good for you, knowing you are talking your own story and experience not others

I wish i could hear such a story of detransitioning without it being connected to religion ...and just stick to the science perspective ...without the fear of someones religious beliefs ,are the leading drive behind a persons chioce to detransition ..viod of it being about sin ...lies yes ..talk about the emotional and phsycolical burdens of decrption and lying ...without making it about the sins and rights and wrongs of religion...many prople think i am christian simply because i gollpw MY HEART not makkng chioces based on PLEASING A GOD or jesuz ...jesuz Loves me just fine as an equal ,not grater than me ...and not in context to the modern bible ...
People are capable of having a strong moral compass without being driven by the fear of god .

Kind of ironic that you now appear as a woman identifying as a man because of how years of hormones changed you ...all so mind bending .

We used to have laws that protected children from influences outside of the home. Now in WA they are trying to legalize a conspiracy between state and child against the parents.

I watched a documentry recently on the "LadyBoys" from thailand ..
FASCINATINGGG!!!
Snd i LOVE that these lady boys do not wish to ever be identified as a woman ...they whole heartadly want to be what they are
Lady Boys ...as with every single matter in this life ...this is them and doesnt not represent everyone with gender disphoria ...just found them fascinating .

This Man is speaking the Truth. Thank You.

Great show, thank you!

My son and friends made petrol bombs. They stopped when I found out.... lively kids get into trouble.... they also ran through underground water systems and could have died there. ....

Strange they all mention church... most churches work for satan.. Not very many churches tell the truth... Like do you know the sons of God came down and had sex with the earthly women? They had children which were giants, So many churches only teach love, ever sin, or hell.

Your website is bs. Your religion is bs. Your reasoning is bs. God created all as equal. And, God, your God, preached love for all. You are the evil sinner you call others. You are not a godly person. Like must Christians. Practice what the Bible preaches and stop judging others.

I appreciate anyone coming out against this selfish, harmful ideology. That said, his denial of erotic motivation was not believable, sorry. His insistance that he passed and unwillingness to talk about his (presumaby ex?) wife, and bragging about the hormonal effects are all a bit off.

Normal boys....people today have no understanding of maleness and testing limits because we have feminized our culture 😢. Most boys who grow up to be 'criminals' don't have strong, but loving fathers. The attention piece and affirmations seem to be the hook!

Doctors who have neglected the patient have no right to be called doctors. They have violated the Hippocratic oath in every possible way. They are opportunists of human pain , "health" sellers and drug dealers with a medical degree.

A very brave and likable man.

Boys are abused for being "sissies", and girls are abused for being 'butch". So they flee ftom the labels, and end up reinforcing the labels. "Trans" is the most regressive ideology ever. Welcome to the 1950s, everyone.

There are so many enablers for this phenomenon!! 😢. It's such a shame!!