When an Emotionally BROKEN Man is Using a Woman, He’ll Show These Signs!

Yeah what about the man who tells you he wants to marry you and then you see him with another woman on Facebook and their Profile says they are in a relationship...

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Thank you. 🙏❤️

He's aware of the issues, but said he's a lost cause and there's no point in trying to work on them or get help. :)

Thank you

Damn. Hit the nail on the head.

This is fantastic advice. It is hard to say goodbye to someone like this, especially when you've already made that connection. But it's for the best. Open yourself up to someone who isn't dealing with issues like these.

The childish heart, described my 63 year old husband, and the emotional vocabulary to match

I can tell you that being used by a guy hurts like hell especially when the guy doesn’t want to talk about the fact he used you. Not to mention get frustrated when you’ve brought up the fact you felt used.

Great Eyeopener and Gamechanger for me ❤ Just need it so much to face reality and to trust my gut 🙏🍀😅

This man cracks me up .. he reminds me of the time I use to date projects/ fixer uppers. Haha

There's another bigger problem, which is the fact the denial goes and comes in certains cases. It is totally unreliable.

Omg I’m
Going through this. This man is so confusing . Hot and cold all the time

Surrounded by hungry ...What???

Will you marry me please your so level headed - i love you already 😍

My ex told me that no one had ever shown him as much love as I did, that he had never felt so loved before.

And then he told me that other thing too: "I'm not ready for a serious relationship" after we've been dating for almost 5 years 🤦‍♀️ he totally broke me!!! That was really confusing and the nex 5 years were even more. There's two signs just in that paragraph.

And yes, he started to call me "exaggerated" in SOOO many different contexts while he showed just a pokerface, and I told him. So, in one of those contexts, I began to contain myself, to stop being so nice with him, stopped to show him that affection in order not to suffocate him, I stopped being me...

When I began to realize something was really wrong, like 2 years later, I started not letting him to mistreat me, and he began to respect me but, when my angry was gone and began to show him love and to show myself vulnerable, he again, he seemed to want to get away. So, I even told him exactly what you said, that it seemed as if he liked not being treated with affection because he seems to care for me and for us but when people show him affection he doesn't seem to care at all, in fact, it even seemed to make him uncomfortable as I said before.

And yes again he wasn't capable of deep conversations, one day I had to explain him like 2 hour what does fear mean, trying to talk with him was exhausting!!! really REALLY mentally and physically exhausting.

And over and over again, yes, I even told him it seems like he wanted a mom in me to teach him, educate him, and to make for him things that, as an adult, he should at least try to do by himself.

And finally yes, obviously he affected my mental health, now I feel like in a way I fixed him (cause he's now better than ever at actually being an adult) but he broke me, I feel now as if I'm now that child without direction that he was, as if he had left in me his worst attributes and taken for him the best of me.

Just half and a year has passed since we definitely broke (yeah, because we broke, I mean, he broke with me like 15 times in 6 years of almost 10 we "dated") hope I can totally recover who I was before him, at least, fortunately, I'm not drown in sorrow for him anymore, I don't wish for him any harm but I'm not interested in having anything serious to do with him neither anymore; it's just that now, I just feel lost, by myself.

I'm amazed on how EXACTLY have you pointed to everything!!

I'm not happy with my bf anymore. One day he'll be so affectionate and loving then the next day or next few days he'll be totally cold again, wont be hearing anything from him. He have this push and pull dynamics which confuse and hurt me all the time. I truly love him but I'm getting tired of trying to understand why he gets that way. And then he's excuse being busy and stressed at work doesn't work for me anymore. I wanna do the same thing with him, treat him like the way he treats me but its so hard I feel like I'll be just the one who will get hurt if I try. When I try to tell him how I feel he gets so sarcastic and accused me that I'm the one who did him wrong and will just randomly text me like we should just be friends or like telling me that he feels like I give up on him already, that I dont understand him then the next day he'll say he miss me so much or he wanna build a family with me, he wanna have babies with me, travel with me. Often times, I just stay quiet. I learned not to say anything anymore because even if I say something in a calm way and make him understand how I feel he'll either gets very avoidant or gets so aggressive. So better not to say anything at all even if it hurts me a lot already.

I know a man who want a partner
He wants to do things together
He wants to sing a song with me
He confessed afraid of watching horror movie alone
He explained how to make spaghetti source from scrape
He never used fxxx words only in extreme situation.
He admit he is weak in certain skills set and looking for someone who can help him like excel spreadsheet and budgetting

What u think ???

Thanks so much.💜

They are unhealed from their ( childhood) traumas and they are self sabotaging to make excuses. Nobody can heal themselves except themselbes. It's also their choice to be healed or not. People (men/women)with unhealed traumas has cycles of shallow chaotic relationships.

If a man is upfront about not wanting to be in a relationship, please count that as a blessing! Chances are he'll never be ready! He's going along for the ride and is nothing more than friends with maybe benefits.. you'll be the one heartbroken and devastated!

Good nice

damn it.

I'm the girl version.

Thank you. :-P Now I have some work to do.

I'm 100% hot/cold - I'm going to watch the rest of the video - I think you may have saved many men and myself a lot of misery.

Men who date women just to use her for sex. It hurts. Whoever taught men it was ok to just use women for their 1 body part created hurt for so many. Myself included 😢

I have dated or married every one of these. There is something seriously wrong with me to have a name for every example he mentioned.

When we just started dating, he said "everyone is messed up"...I didn't understand why he was saying it, but soon found myself always being confused where I stand with him. One day he would be nice to me and the next day he would be so harsh and cold. He said so many hurtful things to me and when I ask him why, he would become upset and quiet, he never thought he did anything wrong? I could never understand how someone who is persuing you (and making you believe he likes you), would hurt you so and not even feel bad about it.

Many of these men have mommy issues. If they do and not getting help or therapy for it, run far and fast

No lists today😢

Well why do these men marrie then treat you like shit

Ģreat video thank you. I almost finished your sencentences. 😅

Thank you for this message 💕

Brian Nox, thankyou, you're so good.
I'm now confused as to which guy I've been hanging onto for four years, he tics every box you mention 😢

Emotional highs and lows, keeps my mind wondering. He is a lost soul in this world.

You're describing a narcissist - or guys with narcissistic qualities.

LOW SELF ESTEEM ON BOTH ENDS

I want a partner not a patient.

I pray god leads me to a great loving relationship we’re there is no doubt or confusion🙏

Very well said

Peace should be w requirement. But sometimes chaos is more comfortable. Like watching crazy dramas.

I'm that situation in minute 6. 10 years together. We started as a very long distance relationship and it lasted for 3 years. Now 10 years into it, he finally did marry me after I got pregnant which was not intentional. We have a 3 year old and a good life. But I've been battling a mental illness that started shortly after meeting him. I was completely stable before he came along. Everything else is so picture perfect but I don't like the person I have become. I still can't figure out if it was all worth it or is my life a disaster.

Very well explained..Thank you 🙏

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Man used man also I been used so many times nasty fuc,,, everyone only want money

He doesn't even support me in my hobbies or interest sad😢

Give me a magic wand, please

So what when you only vibe with broken men??? I'm so tired of it. I honestly think I'm broken too

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This is the first time someone has made sense, so thank you, I really appreciated the information you shared!😊

Look at Dr.Ramani and surviving narcissm...it's to recognize people in general how the are. A lot of people would know these topics what the drs.say and better late than never. It helps a lot. There is much to say..yes not even stonewalling but I think he ment in his example(because stonewalling is saying nothing..I think)they can gaslight....and Dr ramani and Dr.Les Carter(Les is in surviving narcissm)have great examples and Dr.Ramani is fantastic also in acting how the other person say something and the words they use. And Dr.Les is also awesome he makes me feel with his answers ..the way he say how you can protect yourself as in what I say: standing above the other. There are different sorts of narcissism... malignant. Covert.the coverts in church(not no sure the exact title)all the video's come in your mobile and they say what you need. I am very thankfull I find out and the comments...before that I watched y.t.without interesting in comments but there you can read a lot of life story's short and long and the respond etc.Maybe you recognize as well narc.behaviour in and out in you. Also video's where the title is something like: after relationship with the narcissist, am I now become a narc? Gaslighting..stonewalling..everything they do..also what's in the heart and or mind of the narc. A d also..did they love you. Or do they love?etc.etc. I wish you all good success to become better persons to yourself and others. De.Les also speaks about the truth. We want the truth but what we see is often what we want to see as truth ..(SOMETHING LIKE THAT)he says it in few words as in order a coffee but it hits you!(I have lot on my mind I forget the exact words and how he said these). So: Succes. I believe a lot of people will be happy .and as de Ramani also says..it has a word. Yes...I did not know and wondering and pounding about some persons in my life ...as in family .work....when family..I doubt myself .etc. But the word ..and the let's say types, it's makes all very clear. Also I looked to myself, the narcissme traits or if I am or been a narc as well. Than, I want to get rid of it. The drs.talking also about the empaths....etc ..
Also Dr Ramani give examples of (plenty of feelings and thoughts and she says it fantastic, she just know as if she reads your mind she sais: oh I hear youou..from a distance thinking:....')we can think of our ex boy/girlfriend let's say narcissist..the ex narc boyfriend has now someone he would treat different...
They explain very well. The types situations what you feel think respond what is said..what you DON'T must do like saying:you tell me now the truth you area narcissist..'
Also WHY the narc won't say the truth even if it's a simple issue ..subject with a simple no or yes. Fffrrruuussstrating. So..with these Dr Ramani and Dr Les you will have the answers. And Dr Reece is also very good and the Royal we' these folks have personally experiences and Dr Les I don't know...but he sure knows what he is talking about and his dog on the couch haha sometimes it depends on the video you can see the names on the screen in a cute and funny way and you see his dog relaxing haha. You see I even forgot the name of his awesome dog. Success you all.