I Picture My Husband With Other Women

Second caller. Damn, the second caller made me cry. I wish my mom was alive and she was living on my property. Just remember when mom changed your diapers and stayed up all night to take care of you, and sacrificed her life to raise you. I am glad she didn’t set a boundary with you to feed you and take care of you and raise you when you needed her. I pray your kids don’t treat you the same way.

❤️🙏❤️

Hrt?

Her kid is crying at the back. Lady do you need more signs. How does she have the time. Spice up your marriage your own way. Don’t bring people in. Is nasty is chaotic for the kids. Girl 🤢🤢

every episode of this show makes me want to never have kids lol. it sounds like they make life infinitely harder

but then that baby fever hits

Man. Hearing some one be honest about their experience is like being in another world. So easy to judge and ignore my experience.

Let it be just a fantasy. Enjoy it if it turns you on in the bedroom but dont go any further. You will be sorry if you do. Fantasies are supposed to be only in the mind and remain there. Neither do you mention this to your husband. Enjoy your fantasy.

Wow… she’s going to find her self single in a couple years wondering why her husband left her for another woman she hooked him up with…

She opens the call with being a new Christian, and she wants to commit or encourage her spouse to commit adultery?
There's nothing good about this choice.

What the freak 💀

A lot of lesbians don't realize they're gay until later in life...just sayiiingggggg.

She already fucking someone on the side and feels guilty

she wants to pimp out her husband…

What an awesome woman. She’s very self aware and able to see exactly what John was saying. Her relationship will get better because she wants that too. I hope she’s getting some form of hormone replacement therapy. Could help with her pain.

1st caller is messed up

As a Christian this woman says she is, it's wrong to use another woman to be some sort of a sex object for you and your husband. There are lots of lonely people out there and you are looking at them to fullfill your needs at their expense. Please don't do this.

Why do you want him to use other women as objects for self gratification

It’s filthy to share your spouse. If you want this , you are twisted & don’t know what deep love is. You need to dive deep into your past as to where your low self esteem developed . Glad she’s seeking help

Wife asks about an open marriage its over. Just end it. This lady is really broken, like messed up in the head.

I haven't watched this yet but this would be my ideal woman. If your husband isn't able to engage with this very common fantasy then either you're with the wrong man or you need to shelve it. It's that easy. There are tons of men out there that would become giddy with excitement when they find out their woman gets turned on by this. Just saying.

Thank you for shouting out physical therapy!!

Me and my wife are in the same boat w a few differences, are sex is Amazing!
And It turns me on to think about her w another man but we don’t to ruin are marriage. We would never have an open marriage. More like a one night stand not a continuous sexual relationship, It wud have to be the perfect scenario like we wud not want to see this person again and don’t want them to know anything about us, maby someone while we’re on vacation. Even then I wouldn’t want it to damage are marriage bc it’s amazing it just a turn on to think about

if he ever singles her up

Caller 2-Mom has a mental illness try getting medical help and apply for Disability

Grow up Jose you sound clueless!!!!
Order and pick up food, do laundry, fold laundry, clean toilet, go grocery shopping seriously he doesn’t know what to do!!

It's so sad how most women have to worry about their man not being attracted to them anymore, leaving or cheating because our bodies change after giving life to their children... deep down we know most men's priority is sex, and they wouldn't want to have anything to do with us if we don't offer sex. Disgusting.

This happened in my ex marriage. I now realize how much trauma we both had. I also realize how it destroyed our marriage, when I think we were both in denial about this part of it really wrecking it. Thank you, Dr. John for enlightening me and helping me heal from so many things 🙏

Baby in the background crying. Lol. She is just tired and doesn’t want to pump. Just wants to subcontract this out.

What a mess

One of 2 things will happen. 1. She will start to get insanely jealous and try to close the marriage again, but the damage is already done. 2. She will eventually get interested in other men or women, and the whole thing will descend into chaos

She might also be suffering from post partum psychosis bc this sounds insane.

Why does cha cha make me laugh so much!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

My thought - Women tends to love guys with women around them. It is social proof that the man has been accepted by other female and must be good for them. She is thinking less of her husband. A social proof that other women want him will heightening her attraction for him

"You broke his heart".
In that case, you've got 24 hours to GTFO, then the police will be called.

He mentioned power dynamic and she got way more turned on 😂. But i can tell you from experience it doesnt end well.

Not to be contrary, but in the last call, when John says that there is no representation of emotional intimacy fuelling erotic encounters for couples, my thoughts went to Gomez and Morticia. Thy are all over each other, but they also communicate, support each other, and care deeply for the other's emotional well being. Sadly, because this kind of romance is not commonly represented in media, I can understand why he said "you never see it". I wish this kind of romance were common.

Dr. Delony, your episodes are really transforming the way I view long term relationships. Re-creating each time should not be seen as a failure but more so an opportunity, because re-inventing ourselves will come and can take couples to new places. With marriage, one kid, two kids, health scares and so on.. I hope to be with a man one day who is willing to re-create with me.

Dream of every man

I do too just in my head not in reality lol

omg... crap like this is why i will never marry again

God gave king David the gift of king Saul’s wives/widows. He had hundreds of wives and concubines and “was a man after god’s heart”. So I wouldn’t necessarily use your new religion to feel ashamed about this.
But I will say the STD’s alone is enough to make the whole thing very dangerous, or pregnancies, aghhh!
But it’s totally fine to feel the way you feel, I’m so sorry sex is painful and it makes absolute sense to not want to lose your husband but not be able to have the sex like you’d like to.
There are a lot of people who understand what you’re talking about. A lot.
I really really hope your pain gets better 😢
Best of luck girl!! You’re awesome!

What’s this ladies IG lol

😂 lol that's interesting

I definitely have those thoughts too when I’m.. alone. My fiance going behind my back with his ex, with random women etc but I KNOW that if it actually happens I would commit serious crimes.
Fantasy is NOT reality

I understand,..I picture myself with other woman

honestly, I wish I were that secure with myself.. pretty cool I think

'show up on a pony with a letter' ------- way way good.