7 Reasons Why Men Cheat (Revealed) | Dr. Doug Explains Why A Husband Would Cheat On His Wife

I totally reject that it can't be the woman. I speak from experience; my wife is great, we get on, we are great friends but we are more like roommates. She has a low sex drive, doesn't show the affection I need, and the sex is mundane compared to my mistress. I don't want to leave her though and destroy my family. So the best option is to remain as a husband and father while getting my needs met elsewhere. People say "just get divorced" but it isn't that easy when you don't actually loathe each other but something important like sex and intimacy is broken or insufficient.

How about because she's a narcissist

I do not condone cheating. However, you just gave women 7 reasons why and then said you don't know why he cheats. I think this requires an internal look more than anythinng.

Why would a man go see a prostitute the day after having sex 4 times with his partner at the height of their connection and closeness?

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my husband cheated on me with prostitutes. recently started a relationship with a normal woman. I don't know how to live on my own? I don't know why he did that. we have been together for 13 years and have three children. don't know whether to stay or leave? he says he wants to stay in the family and preserve it, but I'm hurt by what happened and I don't know how to live on.

Men cheat because it's in there dna to breed with as many women as possible, women cheat because they are looking for a better deal.

They cheat because they can. They cheat because society expects them too. “All men cheat” makes me cringe. They have been conditioned and even expected too. They have a sense of entitlement to have his “cake and eat it too”. “He just wants to hunt, find a prey and then throw her away”. Wow. Sounds like men are emotionally stunted. Immature. Users.

Are there even men out there that don’t cheat? I have lost faith. People that cheat are SELFISH. That’s the number one reason. You can have a lot of problems but an unselfish person doesn’t cheat. Period. They leave first.

Millions of years of impulsive urges engrained in our DNA. The propagation of our species.

Huhhh....this man...! This man is just talking about men's addictive nature
(which means 1- sex addiction
2- like to abuse someone emotions
3- crap mindset
4- idiots who can't decide fruitful decision when necessary )

Definitely in short he's talking about mostly psychopaths...

The men's usually cheats bcz

1- partner avoiding him
2- not enough sexual pleasure provided by mind not by body
(By mind here it's only meant to satisfaction not like shit pron stuff but actual nice relationship which help him relax and comefertable in be d as well as with her ,like men provide shield around women , men's also need that sometimes)

3- financial issues between both (bcz of no mutual understanding they both start hate eachother presence ; but in end of day they late but lately realised that both can't stay away for long but this only few understand in time )

4- family issues (sometimes me family do involve stick in between good partners, where for men it's become hard to keep everyone in peace

5:- wife forces or mother forces men to only choose one between them ( yes..🗿 usually happens when women hate women and never Collab to become piller of family)

6- sometimes it's just they are very emotional to some situations....



This are above some reason why men's ,( remember not psychopaths or diverted) loose relationship!

Same goes with women's , as it is ...bcz womens are not less than human ! And they are definitely not sex toy ! Give credit to both , mens and women equally by gender, and give work accordingly by psychology and physical abilities! Dont compare them by gender

I really like when things are to the point, so I really liked your approach, to the point.

So my boyfriend of one year, and we live together… I caught three times now online cheating. I have a learned to love myself and heal over the last three years before him so I’m trying to deal with this in the correct way because I don’t wanna lose my relationship with him, but I also don’t wanna lose myself ever again either, I plan to approach him this weekend with some really positive ways to help him learn why he does this and how to help himself correct it. He’s admitted from the very first time that he doesn’t like it and doesn’t want to change it just for himself as well as me. I have a whole plan of how to approach this with tools to give him that he can learn from as well, but is there anything important I need to know and approaching him on this subject, because at this point, there’s nothing that’s been done except for him, saying he got off of one of his sites, and stopped looking at the other ones for the most part like that was just a blanket for me

As women sometimes we have to take accountability. When I was married I used sex as a weapon. Or a form of punishment. If he did things I didn't like I would withhold sex and intimacy. That was super childish. I have several guy friends that are married that are not happy. They are not being touched, they are not being treated Right and they're gonna look for that from someone else. I'm not justifying their behavior but I had to look back on what I did wrong in my marriage I played a part.

I think I’ve been cheated on all my life… I don’t think that I care anymore.

Relationships are all transactional and when one party starts to lack or neglect the other without communication the other party will seek action somewhere else

Majority of men will cheat depending on their opinions.. Example .. If an older married man got offered wild sex with a gorgeous 19 year old girl he would not be able to resit ?

WOW! What an eye-opening video ❤

I guess they cheat because their partners dont tend to them ?

I believe my husband multiple overlapping affairs was due to that he was a mixture of every last type of cheater you described I am just so happy to just be divorcing and moving on with my life with me and my children

Men cheat for the same reason women cheat. They are no longer getting what they need from the relationship.

I would just leave before I would cheat.

This is why I'm staying out of relationships (I never had a Boyfriend in my life, but this helps me alot).

For all the women out there needs to know 1 important thing:
"Mens Are Not Worth It".

To tell u the truth my college friend had boyfriend back then but then later he cheated on her & had an affair with some bimbo, never appreciated her, never give her gifts, he became alcoholism, cuss at her & everything... not only 1 boyfriend but all other boyfriends of hers treated her like trash. it's just making me sick to my stomach. I felt really sorry for her & she didnt deserve to be treated like that, she deserves life & love from her family & friends including me & my mom.

Me & my mom support her & told her the important quote routine "Mens are not worth it".

Sometimes it's the women too, especially if she chose him in the beginning bc of safety not bc he is the right man. This happens alot and resulting in women to disrespect the men a lot and men find the validation to fulfill his void from other women. So it's not just on the men alone.

He said there was no reason why he did it 😭

why men or women cheat : because they want to , extremely simple, you like someone else as well you feel attracted to someone else sexually emotionally like fond of lust etc. ,
we are not born to feel for just the one , polyamarous people are right in principle, and one of you makes their move , no psychological or judgmental assessment needed , no silly excuses

In my experience & observation? Women usually cheat when they feel ignored, mistreated or unloved. Men cheat when there’s a willing vagina in the room.~CAW

They don't really know how to love anyone deeply. The end.

Damn. Between the first four, seems every man would fall into one of those categories. Men probably just aren’t inherently monogamous, sadly. That’s their biggest edge over women. They can love their partner and totally cheat. Their compartmentalization skills are undefeated. Women lose in all scenarios.

Almost 2minutes in and "bullshi*$". Men cheat for the same reason women do. They are not happy with the relationship or they don't care about your feelings or other people's feeling's. If you don't feel respected, appreciated, or loved you cheat. If you don't care about anybodies feelings but your own; you cheat; both are wrong because you don't have the testicular fortitude (Balls) to end the relationship. If it's an abusisive relationship; seek help. There are a lot of programs that can help you out, but if you cheat just to feel something better, then you are hurting yourself and your reputation. Take control of your life. I don't care how old you are; you will feel soo much better about yourself.

My spouse said something to the effect, I don’t know what it’s like to be a man. And that if he sees someone he likes and wants to have sex he should be able to do it. How rich men do it, why can’t he.

Then says, it’s just like every once in a while if ever not a regular thing, Then says it’s a man thing and I don’t understand and it doesn’t mean anything to him.

YET, when I said so what if I did that. He replies. If he ever catches me with a man or sees me with one, he will kill that man.

This makes zero sense to me.

Monogamy is a social construct. Science clearly tells us that we are not by nature monogamous, but actually humans are sexually polygamous by nature, which will usually be the stronger instinct in comparison to our tendency to social pair-bonding.
Humans are neither naturally monogamous or non-monogamous.
human sexuality is naturally non-monogamous

Why do men of God not cheat ,my wifwe is overseas working why cheat on a good woman????

Men cheat because they love variety and cant control their urges… ask even the most faithful man if he would love to be with movie stars and models. Of course his honest answer is yes but he keeps his urges in check because he knows it is wrong and doesnt want to hurt his wife/gf

It's really a no-brainer. When you stop entertaining your husband or boyfriend they start entertaining other women. Men are very simple they only require X, Y, & Z and some women still can't get it right then have the nerve to get mad when he cheats. You helped him pick out a side chic, smh these bitches are clueless.

He is speaking FACTS. The sad thing is most women watching this video still not gonna understand that MEN are built different. We have sex with another woman with NO FEELINGS involved.. and still go back to our wife loving her like there is no tomorrow.

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do all men cheat? or would like to, if they could? seems no point in hoping for love :-(

spot on

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Wait let’s not forget his familiarity and cought him four times with ex

Looks an age opportunity and drugs an convenience

Sooo true and using us and no connection

Doug weiss I kinda noticed that you didn’t mention multiple extramarital affairs with multiple sexual partners when you brought up sex addiction

In addition: if you don't make your man feel like he has worth and if you stop trying, or set him on the back burner. He will find someone else to give him that attention. We have feelings and we get lonely and hurt as well

My partner & I have talked about how men work & how naturally they always desire sex. After kids things change, I’m with the kids all day, sometimes I’m tired & don’t want to have sex.. so I’ve thought about this long & hard & I would potentially be okay if he wants to have sex with other women. Now there’s just the casual sex & that he needs to give me my place as Wife & let the girls know he will not pursue a further relationship w them bcuz I do believe men can have sex & not catch feelings. On the other hand if he’s having sex with other women to replace me then I’m out.. but it’s a hard situation either way. Wish men weren’t as horny all the time 😭 that would fix a lot of issues

Cheating is abuse.

Mostly western men and women cheat the percentage of cheaters in Asian countries is very low...I am from India and this kind of things happen only in metro cities elite class people who are self proclaimed intellectuals commit adultery extra marital affairs...If you are not happy then leave that person and do whatever you want there is no excuse for cheating

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Why do men cheat? Good men don't. Just pick a decent men. Listen to Alexandra Vanderheyden who married NYPD Officer Sean Armstead.

This is soo Useful