9 Signs Your Wife is Toxic | Pooja Priyamvada x Bonobology

Sometimes it may not be the wife's fault when she is also a victim of narcissism i.e. her mother. There are few grains of Truth in jokes & tales about Mother-In-Law from Hell.

hope we can have a divorce in our country. So to correct those failures and possibly live longer unaffected by undue stress. Maybe in the next life i guess.ooo{

Good men suffer with bad wife Good women suffer with bad man its going vice versa😢

If you live in the United States, just stay single. It's not worth it.

I m newly married my husband is so toxic he controls each and every move n isolated me from my family friends n I cnt use phone of my own he took it from me n always blames me for everything in his life n make me feel I m wrong I thought many be I HV any problem with me so I came to this video but it's opp I realised it's him who is toxic I give him space n time he live life like he want but I cnt he dnt bother to ask me wt I like. OMG I m suffering so much I HV isolated myself so much tht I dnt want to contact my friend this days bcz of his aggressive abuse behaviour. I dnt know whn is it going to end.

Thank you so much

I have also same problem. My wife is toxic as well as narsisist. Married for 13 years and having a son. She always try to demotivate, humilate even in public. She starts argument deliberately then start abusing me and then start shooting loudly - mujhe gali mat do .to pretend victim in front of neighbours. Gali khud deti hai aur phir kehti hai mujhe gali mat do.
I can never suggest anything to her. Once i suggested her to cook spices in low flame then she twisted my finger.
Once i was having fever and i said that i could not go for my job ( i have a coaching) then she forcefully thew me from the bed.
Once she compared me with my brother then i also compared her to my brother 's wife then she attached me with her hair pins on my hand.
Once my bp start rising sharply due to side effects and it suddenly rise to 180-200 . In that situation i was measuring my bp which was nearly 190 then she started shooting - mar ja sale.
These are very few incidents.
All these incidents took place even when i used to take her for ride or dining in big restaurant about 3-4 times a week so that she may allow me to do my work peacefully. But best way to deal such toxic women is - never suggest them . Make a silent distance. Focus more on your work and child. Use pets (dog etc) and music for positive energy. And whenever conditions allow then i will certainly divorce her.

My husband is highly toxic.

Do what I do, just don’t listen to anyone. Be a man and take your own decisions, ignore her, after few months she will be straight like stick.

All signs mentioned here are all I am going through. I have decided to divorce her since I can no longer tolerate

Am I a toxic partner ? Im working DiDo with 3 weeks on and 1 week off roster and have 20 months old son. There are my sister, my mom in law and my partner (recently ex) living at our house. While Im home for my week off I spend 24/7 for my son and even this my ex always find an excuse to go out for partying, meet up with her friends, meet up with her new bf and his daughter, meet up her sick friends or anything else. When she's home she just laying down and do nothing leave all the house chores to us and telling everyone that she's feeling unwell eventho we can clearly see nothing wrong with her but a moment after she said again that she wants to go out shopping some stuff and meet up random people again. She basically careless for my son, she's working part time but only bout 20-24 hrs a week but rarely seeing her own son. She just go anywhere she wants and just leave my son either to me when im home or to my sister or my mom in law. She can spend hours out there and dont even asking for my son at all. When i talked about this she called me being rude and disrespectful and controlling and yes Im so disappointed by her behavior and try to tell her what a good mom suppose to do. But she never listen. She always call herself as a great mom bc her friends told her so and bc I always complain of her behavior she called me toxic. I care bout my son and his wellbeing, i understand that I work far away but i never go out with friends, no drinking, no cheating, no smoking, just work but when Im home im a full time dad. She in the other hand always feel entitled call herself that she deserve to be happy and thats why she go out a lot and told me that our son is fine bc he under supervision. Yes, thats correct, but he's her son not my sister or my mom in law's son and Im asking for her to spend more time with him.
The other problem is when my mil and sister working she goes out with my son for partying till late and my son not get enough sleep and food. Even my son sick rather than bring him to doctor she just carrying him everywhere she wants. And when i asked him to stay home (only when im not at home due to working) she said im so contrilling and convince me that my son is fine, the sickness is normal and so on.

I just started my DiDo job 5 months ago and the only reason I keep this job is bc its very good pay and benefit and I got promoted only about 2 months since i work here. I planned to keep this job for 1 year so I hv enough experience but I dont think I can do this due to my family situation. Its really hurt me to see how my son being treated so poorly by her own mom. All i want is my son to hv a better living. Im thinking may be my ex doesnt want my son, she look after him bc she has to not bc she wants to. I realize that when she pregnant, she was asking me if i want this baby and I said I wanna keep it if you wanna keep it. And she just said okay. I should've known its a red flag that she's going to be this irresponsible. But i love my son and I wanted him so much so i hv no regret that he's born already. Honestly, i really wanted to her to say that she doesnt want my son so I can hv a full custody of him but she never say that eventho she act like she doenst want him. This is my first n only son and my first broken home experience. Im honestly so scared if i hv to fight for his custody and I'll lose and thats why i havent done anything about it legally. Im so stressed and dont know where to start. Im scared of losing my son. I cant even imagine if we have 50-50 custody and we live separately, how my son gonna be treated when he's not with me bc my sister also wants to move out. My mil is a good person but i dont really trust her to take care of my son. I've seen how she look after my son and its so basic, like she have to not she wanted to while my sister love my son and always do extra for my son and thats why she wanted to live with me and help me look after my son if we ever separate.

I hope the law can be more fair.

I have dated 2 narcissists ladies. Went through lot of mental injuries and self doubt!

I am 31 year old .. I have one daughter .. My wife has all the symptoms you shown. She behave rude all the time. She only feels ok if things have done in her way.. but no one knows what in others mind so I tried my best to do the things in her way to avoid heat arguments.. but I have trying this for many years but still she is not happy.. she always compare me with others and she inspired by others that her husband is like this but you are not.. so overall she always find mistake in me. Second thing I tried to help her in home but she again starts screaming that you have done this wrong which sometimes I did unknowingly.. but all I wanted to make her happy .. but she never satisfied with what I doing.. than I decided to stay calm not to speak her more so we can avoid clashes.. but now she thinks I am not loving her , I am unhappy with her... As I have may times tried to make her understand that what I am is what I am.. accept it.. but she never care what I am saying instead what she is saying is important that how I am bad to her.. she tried to check that where I am spending my earned money and if I spend on such things like food or coffee outside she get upset ..At this point her view is neither she wants to enjoy nor she let me enjoy .. we both are earning.. I never say anything about her money . I always appreciate her to spend her money in her way ,enjoy whatever she wants.. and other point which I never understood till now , she goes for travelling or visiting with me anywhere she always go for photos she does not enjoy or not let me enjoy the view, place etc.. she make me involve in clicking pictures only at this point I felt irritated that why I came here to visit with her if she only take photos and go aways..
What to do in these situation .. at last I have to bow down to look for my child.. and compromising everything in my life. Even I have lost respect in my neighbours because they daily see that drama.. but I have do face them too.. at other point in life I have lost my mother, younger brother.. so life become hell but I am still living it .. I don't see any solution..

I think ur headline doesn't suit me😢M a woman n u had exactly relied wat i wen thru n it took me 22yrs to catch my man wz behind n main reason wat i became. God has open doors @ las n m still recovering.😪

This happening with working independent womens nowadays they becoming self obsessed me and myself feminists types attitude nobody's feelings and priority matters to them in simple word selfish 👎

This is the truth.n it hurts very bad

How can I talk to my partner she's always in deniable, how can talk to her if she thinks she's always right and she will not admit what her mistakes, even I'm right and she's wrong she can twist it so the end part of our conversation I'm the who will say Sorry... anyone can help me or any suggestions?

My ex wife would verbally abuse me all the time. She told me my hands, feet, and penis are to small. she also told me that I was to short for her. I'm 5'11 and my ex wife is 5'2. She said all her ex boyfriends were 6 feet and above. She was a real witch!

My wife is hating my side of family and complains everyday about them... Any solution?!

Thank you for the explanation.

Very correct 👍

Thank you so much mam

I cant even breath

I have a one year child and i have to go out from my house for dinner since my wife didnt cook thou i had a tiring day, having diiner from a car watching this video,,this video explains my life,all i wanted was a good wife but my wife is toxic as hell she will never listen to my problems

13 years & 2 kids. Your video is almost like my life's story. I am living with someone who is ever critical of everything I do. She wouldn't take responsibility or ownership of anything but criticize every decision I take. She'll go out of her way to make me suffer if I am even speaking to my parents or sister. She's the reason I spend every single day for the past many years under stress. I've gained weight & do not feel like moving out for a walk even though I like to play badminton and tennis. I want to work on my career for achieving better prospects but her behaviour creates conditions in my house that I always feel mentally tired and exhausted.

Thank youn for that video

Then you get to the point where you dgaf anymore about what they think and begin to rise up as a Phoenix 😂 stay strong gentlemen

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I have tried everything. Now my mental health is worst. I can not even live my life happily. She is being so judgemental. She wants me to love her parents and hates mine. My parents have done something vad with her and i took a stand for her. I stopped talking to my parents i never take care of them because of that reason. But now its been high time. Even after doing this she is still giving me tentrums and i never said a single word to her. My parents also understood their fault but even after that she is not letting it go. I asked her to leave this house but she refused and everyday she is harrassing me for no good reason. Everyone from her side thinks im selfish i dont care about her then let me tell you one more thing I'm in sexless marriage. I totally kill my all sexual desires after marriage. But she never think about that. I never asked her to get physical after hearing that she dont want to she dont like sex from the beginning. Still i love her. My love is pure for her but now it's at its worst stage. And suicide is the only option for me. I don't want to live my life. Just want to end it. So atleast she and my parents can live happily. Im sorry mom dad and wife.... I. Can not tell this to anyone but whatever happened in the past i love you all. Now everything will be ok and no ine is going to put you in more trouble.... Will see you on the other side of the stars............ Hope Jesus forgive me for my sins....

At present we did not expect anything from our wife's, not even love, not even respect, not even peace in life.
But we are also not expecting disrespect and every time controlling our emotions.

I m 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

I am shocked and disappointed in myself that I searched this video thinking I have toxic wife, but after watching it I have realized I am the toxic one. I befit every criteria you just told, I thought I was doing right because I cared for her. I feel ashamed now.

My husband does this to me

Im just a bad wife....and that's the end of the conversation, doesn't even want to try

It's the worst relationship of my life ...I lost everything including myself can't recognize who I am anymore..use to be all bright and knowledgeable..fell sick becos of her behaviour then she treat me like a trash, her brothers smoke weed in my house she's defensive her sister brings men to chill she's defensive...my home was torn apart...

You are a blessing to my life this is the video that solved my mystery questions self doubts.....forever grateful

Should she show all the 9 signs or how many to consider this

80% of this is in my live , so I have toxin relationship

not 100% accurate of course, made some good points but, im a special case... i hope she doesnt see this comment.

Help me 😢

And i am watching this video on my wife's phone

Wow. I feel so much better Watching this.😊

80 percent toxic

I am 50 % toxic for my husband... 😂 I searched this video to check how am I for him ... But I'll make it better. But I always want him to think about me and when we are relaxing I want him to hug me and if he doesn't my mood swings are on peak. I didn't knew that it is toxic for him.

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Excellent analyses !!

Simple and super

Sucks we don’t learn these things until it’s too late now we’re pretty much screwed…