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we all as men have to play a role in changing the stigma about talking to other men about mental health. it’s better to let your friend cry on your shoulder than having to cry at his funeral.
ОтветитьLife is literally a shit show
ОтветитьDo it.
ОтветитьIs this living hell worth living in? Only if your rich. The only act of self determination. You have no power over anything else.
Ответитьone thing I know from dealing with anxiety and depression is that intrusive thoughts become one f the biggest symptoms of anxiety. Overtime when you continue to stay in the same state you train the brain to react in certain matters when you dont express your feelings, if you bottle everything up your mental state will become worse and your mind will start to become overwhelmed and depressed which will lead to suicidal thoughts, i had them severally and had the thoughts constantly and it would give me panic attacks because its not something i wanted it felt like my mind was telling it was the best option to end suffering. Ive never been suicidal and the more i thought, i realised that the they were automatic thoughts that happens based on your state of mind. never let anything bottle yes we are men but that doesnt mean to keep it inside. If you can control your mind you can control your emotions, and vice versa. Also know the differences between Thoughts and Thinking, thoughts are automatic and thinking is done from your own control, if its intrusive let it pass, if youre actually thinking about it, dont do it, you have one life, and youll never get another chance, make the best of it, you wont be happy unless you allow yourself to be happy.
ОтветитьThe national suicide prevention lady hung up on me
Ответитьhope your good bro, stay strong
ОтветитьI cant find a way for someone to listen...no one listens...and if they do, most of the time, they dont understand...i failed everybody...
ОтветитьYour suicide thoughts are okay to imply it to your life but only if you're locked in prison for life.
ОтветитьRepent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand. That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead thou shalt be saved. If we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ.
Ye cannot serve God and mammon.
Ima be straight up and hopefully you receive this to heart bro. These “thoughts” aren’t you bro. They’re demons trying to end your life because you have a purpose God put in your life which they despise. You’re being attacked spiritually bro. Ima pray for you. And look bro, you might be wondering what the purpose of life is. It’s Jesus. Jesus is the only thing that can fill that void with his love. Read the Bible bro I promise you’ll never feel this way again if you truly seek him. Jesus was the only thing that gave me a purpose and direction in this life. I love you brother and in Jesus name these evil spirits inside you will depart from you and instead you be filled with the Holy Spirit.
ОтветитьHey, even if 99% of the entire population hates you, 17,000 people would think your still ok to exist.
ОтветитьLofe and his piece of garbage fanbase 5 seconds after going in a supermarket and ruining a complete strangers day as a "prank".
ОтветитьStop cancel culture
ОтветитьHonestly, I feel like another big part of the stigma behind men’s mental health is the fact that when you’re strong and you’re a leader, everyone just forgets that you have a breaking point too. And it feels weird because when everyone thinks you’re invincible there’s a mixed sense of pride and abandonment. They admire you when you run into the burning building, but only from a distance as to not touch the flames because where you’re courageous, they are not. I feel like men are afraid to show vulnerability because a lot of them are the man of the house or somebody’s rock, and they can’t afford to lose their composure, because if they lose it, everyone else loses it too. What I found that has helped me personally is making an effort to look at pain as something to learn, and grow from rather than a sign of weakness. That’s my piece
Ответитьthe thing im gonna always remember is ur just making videos when i heard that it really hit me cuz i thought doing all this would be like running a company or something you know but when i found ur channel i related to some of the things u said yk idk ever simce i was a kid i had a feeling idk what it is yet but ima find out thnaks for reading this if u see it u helped me sometimes in my life where i thought i was stuck i always overthink things overthonk the future and what idk im gonna do cuz i have all these people who expect me to do something i dont wanna do yk u have all this pressure on u what are u supposed to do ty for being here for me ihave no other people to talk to about this so just wanted to gett this off my chest thanks for being real i love u lofe
Ответитьgod. just go to god. he will fix all problems in you just ask him and do what he commands of you. god sends glory strength and peace to you all who are willing to accept it amen. edit: forgot to mention i'm diagnosed with bipolar 2, treatment resistant depression, anxiety, i've struggled with drug addiction, sex addiction, and still do but god is cool and forgiving and he only wants to help you. and yep you guessed it.. the mormons were right.... south park wasn't lying, but it's not macaroni necklaces it's far more than that.
ОтветитьThank you Lofe your courage to speak out on this difficult topic speaks volumes. I love you brother!
ОтветитьI completely understand I'm a 3 time surviver my father was an alcoholic my older brother died and my mother is a sociopath the first time I was 13 the second time I was 15 and again when I was 15 now I'm 16 i still have thoughts sometimes if you ever need to talk to anyone you can talk to us
ОтветитьFor my whole life I didn't think I existed, but I do and people are starting to notice.
ОтветитьOne day at a time. Try to see the little victories because they’re there.
Ответить🖤🖤🖤
ОтветитьJesus loves you brother no matter what you did or what happened to you! Repent from your sins and put your faith in him.
ОтветитьGuys don’t care about other guys because those guys are going through the same thing as you (somewhat) and those guys aren’t strong enough to help you. It comes off dismissive and offensive sometimes but they’re hurting just like you. Start with yourself. You understand yourself more than anyone. Then you can truly have the capacity to understand and forgive anybody. ❤ I love you boys and stay safe out there. Earth is colonized, but we face different realities now.
ОтветитьTurn to Christ, He won’t abandon you. Ever. You can only abandon Him. Stop living for the world, look where it’s taking you. Live for Christ. God bless you all!✝️🙏❤️
ОтветитьI have no friends no one messages me turned 18 , 2 days ago couldn’t cancel my trip to nyc lost 1400$ nonrefundable hotel and plane ticket.
And people ask why my life is horrible
This genuinely helped me a lot I been going through a lot just thinking , and this alone just helped me and I resonated with everything you said , I feel like men have to put a mask up just for others not to judge , what’s worse is family judges sometimes even friends . This helped me so damn much never cried off a video before this is a first
ОтветитьThese past few months have been rough watching this video pointed out a lot that’s been going on in my head. It’s been hard to talk about it I’m only 20 years old. I tried college it didn’t work out then I got a well paying job with work I hated. Being on nights and 12s. I was always down and tired. Then my gf broke up with me. Which really messed me up made me think about me as a person my choices how distant I’ve been from myself. It became a lot I tried to wait it out but I just knew. I had to quit my job so I can put more focus in myself and better career choices.
Ответитьi just want to give you a hug
ОтветитьNow im close to make suicide because my mom maked suicide because of m and my dad we dknt know hkw to help her 😢☹️
ОтветитьGod gives the toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. Stay breathing, Lofe. I know you’re going through a lot. I’ll keep you in my thoughts when I pray 🙏 There’s a lot of people who live through a persona but we can drop that in order to connect with who we truly are.
“Sorrow is better than laughter, for by sadness of countenance the heart is made glad.”
Ecclesiastes 7:3 NRSV
Edit: Stay in the moment as much as you can. If one looks on the past, they will be depressed; if looking to the future, they will be anxious. But if you live in the present, everything is a gift. I’ve been hospitalized before and I can say that I know precisely how you’re feeling.
In may I lost my best friend to suicide in may then in June I tried to kill myself I don’t remember much about that day but remember the paramedic that was with me in the ambulance was telling me about how he was the same paramedic that rushed to the scene when my best friend jumped i vividly remember how hurt he looked talking about it it just made me realize there’s a lot more people that care than you think suicide isn’t the answer to anything when I lost my friend I lost a part of myself and I won’t ever be the same it messed me up so badly and when I tried to kill myself it effected so many people around me even though I wasn’t successful and to anyone out there that feels like suicide is the only answer i promise you it’s not you don’t want to hurt your friends as bad as my friend hurt me you don’t want your mom and dad gettin a call that you’re gone you don’t want any of that i promise the hurt you are feeling will go away eventually but I promise you the hurt your best friend and your parents will feel is forever so please just keep that in mind and just keep pushing you got this
ОтветитьI can't see this video but I need to die aswell.... Tired of life it's too boring and all we do is work.... Each day is same nothing changes
ОтветитьYou might have BPD
ОтветитьIt’s all thanks to my fucking mom she don’t let me go out with my friends talk to my friends or do anything all day trapped between these 4 walls
ОтветитьI agree that suicide seem like the only option as someone who has dealt with is personally, but if you have not given a try something I have found it to be powerful is seeking God, the Bible tells us if we believe in who Christ is, meaning despite our mistakes and sin God still loves and care because he sent his Son to die for is even when we are guilty, you will then understand how important you are to God, it says John 3:16 "For God so loved the world he sent his only begotten Son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but recieve enternal life, God did not send his Son to condemn the world but to save it," that's you and me despite all our flaws if we just believe in Jesus and what he did our home does not have to be here but heaven.
ОтветитьI need to shit
Ответитьas selfish as it sounds, I want to kms because of my looks, i cant help it.
ОтветитьDepression is very real I can relate. After close family members have died I have had thoughts of suicide. I fight everyday. I'm fighting hard. I believe that failure is a steppng stone to success. Never give up at something that you want. Things work out.
ОтветитьYou meet me Lofe. Youll be transformed 👍
ОтветитьCan we all agree that lofe has the best videos! (I want to die)
Ответитьhits hard.. Love you man
ОтветитьI hate it when people say suicidal thoughts are a, “mental issue”. It’s not. It stems from real world problems. Hate it when people say stuff like, “get help”, or, “you’re not okay”. Stop acting like this is an illness. ITS NOT. Life really does suck sometimes. I DONT NEED HELP
ОтветитьI can relate how your feeling i also suffer from depression and bad mental health
ОтветитьThank you for putting this out there. I relate a LOT.
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