Who You're Attracted to Says A Lot About You

How do we snap out of it if we've realised that we're attracted to someone who's unavailable to us?

as a girl i am highly attracted to femininity and feminine features, especially in men because my bio father is the definition of toxic masculinity. i do not live with my parents anymore, i live with my grandparents, but when i use to live with my bio father he was emotionally abusive, and very aggressive about EVERYTHING!! living with him was a nightmare

so whenever i notice a guy thats more sterotypically feminine, i feel very comfortable with him. also theyre just so pretty.
femboys have my heart

Wow I wasn't expecting to see Jungkook here in this video ❤

Thank you for your work and your videos. Your explanations are understandable and the voices are so sweet ♡

I'm attracted to red flags, Possessive,Yandere types but it's only fictional so i guess it doesn't really matter for now, as long as it's fictional but if it comes to reality I'm not really attracted to any gender actually i don't have any interest on anyone ,i can admire them yes but i don't admire them too much such as making them as my crush. I can't tell if it's a good thing or bad thing???

I recently asked my gym crush out for a coffee as I felt a massive magnetic 🧲 attraction for her but she said…”I’m sorry I have a boyfriend” which bearing in mind I am probably at least 20 years older than her, (even though I’m told I look a lot younger) so I didn’t have a problem with it but now she totally ignores me turns her head if we pass almost to the point of being rude! I mean flaming hell I know she has a boyfriend but is there’s a chance that much of a problem to nod your head and be civil? I make sure I’m On the opposite end of the gym now and don’t make eye contact But I must admit I do feel hurt as it’s rare I find a girl that attractive ie maybe once every 3-4 years! I would just luv to know from any of you guys if you think there’s a chance she secretly likes me back??

not me being attracted to choleric and angry people 💀

If you're attracted to people who reject you constantly, you're probably replaying your relationship with your opposite sex parent, who also rejected you no matter how hard you tried. If I ever figure out how to fix this, I'll come back and update this comment.

i literally came here seeing jungkook lol

I have a tendency to be attracted to men who have an indifferent, cold look. In my experiences, they are usually very attentive and caring about others 😅

i like cute dorky guys, that are sweet and competitive

Am attracted to Big Macs and French fries 🍟

jungkook 😭😭😭?!!???????

What does it mean if you are attracted to guys who look mean, but are genuinely sweet and kind? I’m not talking bad boys, I’m talking about guys who have resting scowl faces, look icy, but are kind and compassionate to everyone in general, not just their s/o. Would this be considered a healthy attraction? Or is there something else going on?

I'm attracted to women who make sandwiches on demand.

Personally, I get attracted to people if I observe certain traits / behaviours in them which I want in a partner. After that, my brain takes over and fits the pieces to make this person physically attractive to me. Is something like this common?

coming from the toxic relationship portion, after 3 years of my so called "relationship" is similar to this, especially the validation portion. it can also fit in with the less interested and feeling undeserving portion, they arent a good combo.

The fact I only thought about fictional characters throughout this video 💀
Fr tho all my past relationships (cough the 3 of them) stimmed from close friendships and even when we eneviltibly broke up because it just didn't work out I'm still friends with all of them- is it toxic? Idk 💀

HELPPPP, I'M NOT INTO ANY OF THESE, I'M INTO EMOS AND JUST NOW REALISED 😱

Wholesome

I like gap moe ppl

Me, attracted to almost any type, 💀

Crap from the first, a real bad boy attracts a woman who is looking for someone bigger and harder than their father, a protector from this father. But this bad boy is attracted by those girls that lean into him, and give the veneer of acceptance, which often means they often lean into others just as quickly.

he recorded that voice over 4 am at his parents house

personally, I like a tall women with a big ass, like Jenifer Laurence

Everyone is very different. I don't believe you can categorize people by groups based on their personalities.
It's only when you know someone for real (after spending one on one time with each other more than once) that you can point something out about them... I even go as far to say that, most of us have all these traits, and it just depends on the circumstances to let them come out.
A lot of people may even show a type of attitude in public, but once they become comfortable and attached to someone, they are completely different... Some are more sweet, others are more detached, but neither means they love you more or less. When people are with a person they love, they don't feel that they have to explain every single action to the other person, because they expect you to kinda understand, but some feel the need to tell everything. Neither is a bad thing. (some people don't need to talk all the time to feel the same level of love, and others need a lot more attention).
If you're truly in love with someone, you should be ok with trying to understand the other person, because only then will you be able to help them improve.
If you're in a relationship, I'm of the opinion that each person should try and elevate the other person, helping each other feel better.

Now, if your partner is always looking at other people, that's when you need to move on.
If they cheat once, the chemistry is simply not there, but I often see more people fighting to keep these relationships alive. After someone cheats, things will never be the same. One of the partners will just fall on a lie, in order to not face the painful truth.
If someone cheats in a relationship, their priority is not set on their partner. If someone gets into a relationship and cheats before ending said affair, they are only worried about self pleasure.

Often times people stop talking because they don't want to put the work in understanding someone more difficult, and that's fine, but a lot of great people are being hidden by their insecurities.
Sometimes a push from someone who is in a slightly better place mentally, is all they need to then make a big improvement and become a great partner.

i see jungkook i click..i see psych2go i click

Clicked for that JK art lol

Damn, Helen Fisher is a real celebrity in the field at it seems because I've watched a video yesterday and she was in it too ! 😅

Me: why is this on my fyp.

Wait is that jk on the thumbnail

I like goth girls because in the media they are portrayed as cold and aloof but at end they are loyal people and perfectly willing to go against the world at your side.

who on the psych2go team is an army 😭

the guy in the thumbnail looks like my type lol

Hot, dommy, mommy, sugar momma, in their early to mid 30s, please 🙏 😅

What's that say about me?

Are you from SA bro

Then there’a me who doesn’t have a type and can be attracted to literally anything that’s not over 300 pounds 💀

JUNGKOOK

What happened to the woman who used to do these?

Okay so I’ve always picked guys that were normal and nice to me not agreesibe or any of that bull and I like to think I’m a very kind sympathetic person myself .. and. I’m a lil crazy so don’t Ned someone who’s wild , I had one relationship where I was 22 and I was going through issues metal health thing and back then I used to get into these not even relationships. But flings and anyways he was so loving and like he loved but I didn’t feel white that level and I don’t even know what live fekt like in that sense… so ugh yeah I weirdly in my stress became the toxic person I started to try to end the relationship hinting that we were temporary ect everything but actually grow balls and do it so (I will say we were both young and I recall him being a bit of a winey guy he could be a lil dramatic) so I found myself is a position I’m not. Proud of but the worse I’d treat him blow him off , just be a jerk …. The MORE he wanted to be with me and I was kinda confounded like why doesn’t he dump my ass. I finally broke it off after doing an inpatient psych treatment. With a clearer head I realized it wasn’t good for anyone and it scared me because I hate confrontation, hurting others , being mean ect but I scared myself because right before I sought help I found myself leaning in and using him like kinda a metal punching bag I had issues so I took it out on him. He’s married now and while mental health isn’t black and white I’ve never returned to that behavior and pick my partners carefully . Idk who taught me but I’ve always run from red flags. I’ve only had one real relationship of 3 years and listening to this I guess I chose a good partner that had traits of my father and he was the most beautiful man I’ve been with I love him still .

the bad boy drawing with the jacket on one side looks like one of BTS JUNGKOOK'S 7 PHOTOS

Me: I'm bored
This video: exists
Me, AroAce:...why not, psychology is interesting.

Another great video.
One minor observation though: may it is just me but i find the volume of the background music a tiny bit too loud, compared to the voice over.
That made it harder for me to grasp the information you guys were giving.

If someone asks me what my type is in that way...
(What goes on in my head)
'Damn what type is Sukuna, Mahito, Choso, Tsuchigomori, Hanako or Tsukasa.. or Tsukishima, Oikawa or.. Kageyama)

Note to myself: she can say worse things than no

What does it mean when I'm attracted to people who are intelligent and those who are in a position of power?

Thank you for the built in subtitle! ❤❤❤

Okay hear me out. I have crush on a shawty but one red flag thats a personal red flag is that she smokes cigarette but like I look past that. Does that make me a red flag ??

Lmao is that jk

The amount of people commenting about bts and not the actual video is sad and pathetic. Wtf does a kpop idol have to do with a relationship video? Nothing that I can see. At least I can say I'm definitely not attracted to idiots who drool after a famous person who will literally never know they exist. I know I'm gonna get hate, but bts isn't even that good. Sorry not sorry.

Thanks to BTS, I studied a lot at the uni. They taught me how to assess my values, be able to work/study for my future and love myself. I will be grateful for them my entire life.

I’m attracted to femboys