How to build a new social circle this summer

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End of 2023 and the whole 2024 is the year of male improvement

What if you’re too depressed to go out and do things? I’ve forced myself to hang out with people when I’m depressed and all I wanted to do was go home the whole time

Legit Q. Did you just photoshops yourself in the thumbnail image?

Sick vid, thanks for the advice.

I live in a small town that's mostly old people and rednecks. I'm 35 and the average age of the person living here is around 55. For guys in college and in decent sized areas, your stuff might work. You have to have the demographics working for you. As for girls, you have to be tall and attractive. I am not, I'm 5 ft 8 and average. I spent a lot of my college time trying to socialize with not many results. Not even UVic could save me and that is one of the most left wing universities.

The problem with trying to join high level social circles with men who make a lot of money, i.e. investment bankers, stock brokers, etc you have to fit into that culture. If you didn't go to Harvard and not a tall frat boy type you're not getting into it. I'd actually be careful if you're not so attractive or tall in those environments due to the kinds of people that it attracts. Not all bullies bag groceries for a living lol

I'm an intellectual and most people where I am are not. I read books like the 48 Laws of Power and The Art of War for fun. Most people don't read Aristotle for fun. People don't study the occult like I do because most people especially where I live are more concerned with the hockey game than anything beyond their reality. Me? I would literally become a wizard if I could.

One tip I give is always be yourself and develop a brand. When people talk about brands they think corporations but you can develop your own personal image.

Good vid 👌

always great videos. Always great advice. Man fawks

Indeed , great video. Let the ones complaining is imposible be loosers.

this video filled me with so much rage and anger because all the things he said to do, i feel like i could never not in a million years could do, i suffer from a lot of social anxiety and when i'm in a room with a bunch of people i immediately start to shut down but i feel alone in this world and i don't have any friends and i haven't had girlfriend in 3 years and i've been suicidal for a hot minute now because it's really starting to affect me and really want to do the stuff you mentioned but i just can't, for some reason my stupid peace of shit worthless fucking mind just won't let me.

FUCK YEAH, LET'S DO IT GUYS!!!

I loved this video! Awesome advice, thank you :)

Thanks bro, really helpful video. Quite sad that there is not so much tourists nowadays in Moscow due to well known circumstances, but all other advices that you gave are really applicable. Keep up!

dropping a comment cause i enjoyed the video

How do you make people worship you?

Bro i don't bother trying to achieve anything in life because the next day i could die in a car crash

Thanks!

Quit cussing so much.

thank you for everything

big ups the advice man

Someone from VIenna who wants to connect?

I'm going to the gym,but im mostly isolated there despite having people around,no one talks with no one,wich is kinda a good thing because they focus.But I'm thinking of trying Crossfit for the community, although im not sure i like this kind of training,but im considering it.

how the start businsess with part time job broo

Problem with this is that I’m 19, I can barely find girls my age and can’t really date younger or older girls

The older you get, the more you realize friends are not worth investing in. I'm not saying have no friends but only keep a select few people in your life who put a similar effort in. I'm in my late 20's and it seems people are always busy in life and can't even make a bit of time to hang out. Then it turns out most are just at home doing nothing. Focus on yourself first. Get your career going and once you have that going for you. Everything in life follows through. Your meet women once you got money and people will naturally want to be around successful people.

You make it look easy cause you're an extrovert. As an introvert being social requires much energy.

I do not want to bang a lot of girls. That is exactly what I would not want to do. These are meaningless relationships if that’s all a person is after.

Bro this came at the perfect time. I just picked up a promising internship at an actors studio locally. Who knows what I'll learn 😆

Anyone in PA?

Fuckman i am having 41 degrees in my city

Hey Jack appreciate your content. But it always demoralises me when girls say they dont wanna get approached or bothered I do approaches and they go well but never did anything more from there. So is cold approach still relevant in 2023

Good 👍🏻 stuff jack and hilarious 😂 the same time

Thanks for another video that I can actually use

Im 37 working pt at a coffee shop inside a hospital. What do u thinn about a man my age friending younger people. I feel like that branch that isnt pruned. Theyre there so im not gonna NOT be friends but its obviouslt im 15 years older... And yes I do like younger women. It is what it is

Idk how to find ppl my age. I dont necessarily care but i feel like othrt pll do.

Sort of stuck in a weird situation

Hey man, great video as always. How viable do you think these strategies would be for teens? Gyms and jobs most likely, but I do not know about the other opportunities you mentioned. Thanks dude

This is such a cool idea. However there's just one thing I need to do before I become the type of guy to try this.

How do I build connections, bond, and make jokes? I am loved by everyone, I bring a ton of value, 1/2 the people I can make laugh for days, the other 1/2 do not get it and make me feel awkward. I am ambitious, smart, kind, funny, chill, borderline quiet. To me everyone including work where I have been for a year feels like a stranger, I do not want to hang out because I have not yet gotten anyone to make me want to likely because I have not gotten anyone to open up to me. Also not many people ask me to hang out and I do get awkward in convos from time to time and they sometimes do get dry. I do not know what to do about that. Can we get a video??

Is that TaySocial you're hanging with?

I do Uber on Saturday nights and honestly It's been one of the best things i've done to meet new people. I've met so many girls and successfully got their number for future rides. If you're fun and like to talk a lot this has to be the best way imo.

Yeah, this works for people who ran through the instances of a propper socialization and now find themselves in a situation where they leave an old friend group because they've outgrown them or move to a new place e.g. Most people will go through such a situation a few times in their lives but it won't make a big deal as they are used to integrate quickly under new circumstances. However, people who generally feel uncomfortable around those propper socialized ones, especially in groups, need other solutions. Statistically, it's very unlikely for people who have social anxiety, avoidand personality disorder, trauma etc. that causes a lack of social connections, to improve by will. This is, because the premise of such a disorder usually causes subconscious believes and identity traits that have to be displayed by experts first to weaken them. This doesn't mean that it is not one's own responsibility to do something about the problems but the solution is way more complex than just getting into a job, a course or a gym to meet people. And it will definitely take more than one summer to accomplish. It's like putting a dog in an environment of birds. It won't change it's behaviour and grow some wings just because it sees others having them. Exercise needs to be adapted to the circumstances of the individual needs.

Definitely needed this.

Great Video Denmo! Gets me really motivated :)

I got rid of 90 percent of my friends the past few years. I became more and more successful and they seemed more and more stuck and just bitter about life. I can't be around shit like that anymore. I tried helping but they didn't want to better themselves. Been working on dating, have a date Thursdsy, and I definitely need to make some new friends.

First of all thanks for the vedio. I'm from Ottawa, 🇨🇦🇨🇦. So boring city. Nothing to do. People are not very friendly. I work at Downtown. Sometimes I say hi. Girls got angry. Idk why? Their ego goes up😮😮

Nice video as aways my bro

Amazing. I'm going to make a 5 year plan video for you, Denmo.

A travel job sounds like a great idea. What's a good website to find these jobs?

i needed this advice, thanks.