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Once I started referring to my wife (among other things such as) my gift from God, I don't think she would care if I never called her by her name again
ОтветитьMen stop being the boss of the house be the head of the house. Be an example, pray with her and for the family. Spend more quality time with her not your friends or golf friend. Speak with respect to her and stop drinking and stop bad language out of respect for her. Go to church with her and plan a roadtrip with her .
ОтветитьThere's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
ОтветитьWell as for me i give up
ОтветитьEncourage her spiritual journey…her alone time with God and time with God together should be added to this list.
Asking her about her day and about her quiet time is another one.
Pastor you nailed it on the men side but so disappointed on the women side
ОтветитьThank you very much man of God,may God bless you..
ОтветитьPlease pray for me a proverbs 31 woman . Thank you brothers and sisters in christ .
ОтветитьI believe a husband is influenced by the people he spends time with. My husband is a recovering alcoholic. He goes to twice a week AA meetings. God is part of each of the AA steps to recovery. Before AA he didn’t believe in God. Thanks to AA meetings and following their principles he now believes in God. I believe good can oftentimes come through adversity. Had my husband not been an alcoholic, had he not gone to AA , he would still not believe in God. Our marriage went through terrible experiences. I believe God wanted me to not leave my husband. God used who I am as a person to achieve what he wanted me to do. The fact is I couldn’t leave even if I wanted to. For reasons I’m not knowing I couldn’t leave my husband. My mother thought I was weak. Was she right ? Perhaps God used my weakness to keep me with my husband. I was scared to be without him. Our whole adult life we had been married. We had two daughters together. My one daughter says “ Mom you’re loyal. Loyal like a dog. “ She meant that in a good way. Perhaps I’m loyal without thinking about it. I love your sermons. You have helped me to understand Jesus in ways I never had before. You’re a true blessing on this Earth.
ОтветитьWow, I am divorced but I did not get shown love. My mother said after Our divorce he married me because I had it going on and I was a showpiece.
ОтветитьLove is a four letter word.😂
ОтветитьNo, don't buy her flowers if she isn't the type who likes having flowers brought for her. If money is a bit tight, the last thing I'd be wanting is my husband buying flowers. Honestly, so much of this video is just rubbish. You make women sound like fluffy little girls. You've been in America too long Vlad.
ОтветитьI am a wife and I laughted at how well is described what we need. Many of the things the pastor mentioned are things they I told my husband over and over again. I'll share this video with him, maybe this will help him understand better.
ОтветитьMy husband has been faithful in all these things and I fall in love with him more and more every day. We’ve been happily married for 30 years.
Ответить...spend time with your wife and kids than your phone
ОтветитьMe and my wife has been listening to all these marriage teachings and are marriage did a 180 for good. This was a God sent.
ОтветитьI was smiling through this teaching especially the taking the photo part. We just have to put in he effort to keep getting the results in our marriages. Thank you Pastor good Word.
ОтветитьOhhhhh so valuable lessons
ОтветитьThe toilet seat..🎉 thank you.😂
ОтветитьThks , ps
ОтветитьI may simply be projecting, but I feel top of my list would be saving your sexual energy and attention for your wife. We as women understand lust is likely the biggest way satan tempts men. When a husband can reject that temptation and put all his sexual energy and attention on his wife… no words can describe how good that kind of love, dedication, and respect must feel.
ОтветитьTaking the garbage out. I knew a woman who just started being the one to take the garbage out instead of her husband. When I asked why the change she said he would avoid doing it until the house started stinking and one time he left out the garbage near the front door rather than finishing the job and some animal got into it making a huge mess. So she now does it. When I asked why she doesn't just ask him, she said she used to, but he always gave a reaction that he didn't like it and wouldn't do it immediately even if the house was beginning to smell. And it would get to the point that the house would smell so bad it would embarrass her to have guests over. Yes he would eventually do it but often not until days after she asked him. So she says she just no longer asks him. Thenpoor women used to not be physically ablw to do things and she expressed gratitude that she no longer needs to wait on her husband to do it, but when I asked what will happen when you no longer can do it she said she would tell her husband she will hire someone else to do it if he doesn't do it by a certain time.
ОтветитьThis is huge, thank you, Vlad!👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
ОтветитьThis is pathetic the video you have directed towards women is about respect for their husbands. But this is the best you can do when it comes down to men and their wives. Where is the sections about respect. Why are you not talking about respecting your wife only about doing little dumb things??
ОтветитьMy husband is such a wonderful husband and I couldn't ask for a better spouse, he's my life long everything after God, nothing comes before the Father.
ОтветитьThank you pastor, but my husband is totally the opposite of this teaching.
What can I do please?
This was very interesting and informative. Much appreciated. A word to the wise is sufficient. Hoping to be married one day and have a very understandable husband who will love me the way God expect him too.
ОтветитьMy husband use to think I hung the moon. Now Im just another woman he thinks bad about
ОтветитьI love my husband, but things happened for a reason.. i have faith that he has better plan for me.. For now I am working on myself, learning how to be a godly woman for the better future
ОтветитьI am guilty of all the points. My wife is a tough woman and sometimes I feel she doesn't need all these points that you mentioned. But she has started complaining and it's difficult for me to start. She doesn't seem to care anymore and I am worried
ОтветитьIn the guys video … is all about respect …. Here outdated …. What a house wife from the 1800 s would want.
Get updated we want respect and an equal place. Sad
My husband wasn’t hanging out with single guys, instead hanging out with single women who got married but he continued hanging out with them and they became possessive of him. So don’t hang out with women either
ОтветитьI agree 100% praise the Lord for this❤️
ОтветитьTrusting God for a godly man and a happy safe home
ОтветитьThat just depends upon her particular ‘love language.’
ОтветитьVlad. How about, ….”20 Ways a Woman Can Love her Husband.”
I am getting so sick and tired the way feminism is creeping into the church. What you’re saying very biblical. I don’t deny that. I’d love to hear how many ways women can show respect their men!
Unload the dishwasher? Beta male crap. The corollary to this statement would be ladies ….. ah, not worth even debating. I’m outta here. You don’t have enough perceived value from your wife and that it why she wants all this low value beta male behaviours. Crap advice. Men, be men of high value and your woman won’t care if you take out the crash. Crap advice. Majority of this advice IS NOT biblical! Where in the bible does it say to unload the dishwasher or take out the trash? Unbiblical.
Thank you for making this video this is very helpful to married couples.
ОтветитьI need help with #14 please
ОтветитьMany of these points are impractical with dating single mothers.
ОтветитьHow do i be her photographer without my phone on a walk? 🤨🤨
ОтветитьWhat about how women can show men love? Why are we constantly being guided. If women weren’t, so damn horrible to us men, it would be easier to show them love.
ОтветитьJesus was black.
ОтветитьYou’re right!
ОтветитьMy wife hates me because of me..She will never love me like before..we got separated for a year and we’re back together for me to feel like we’re more apart..I even got a dog that helps a lot.I just go fishing now because she doesn’t have to see me any more than she has too..i hope some
guy can make her happy and sweep her from me..That would make me happy to see her happy even if it’s not with me anymore..it is what it is..
These are great points and so hard to find. Men want women for sex but past that they dont want women to be women. Like the photo example. We are women just like a man should go hunting if he chooses. But no men squash our girliness and causes us to be small. I think that is what this uprising is all about. I do t need a man. Because men have proven they dont like us. I do believe its of the devil. But if he had no fodder to build with...
ОтветитьSurprise her with a snack or treat she likes. It allows them to know you were thinking of them.
ОтветитьGreat tips, Vlad! Just a few more -
* Maintain financial transparency with your wife.
* Make provisions for her to freely go out with her friends.
* If you have young kids, take up babysitting by yourself, so that she can participate in church and her ministry pursuits enough.
* Help her find time to pursue her hobbies.
* During a fight/argument, assure her that though there may be differences, you and she are still on the same team.