He’s Moving SLOW? 7 Signs He’s Into You! | Dating Advice For Women

Dude, bro, my-man....you forgot. He's got a lot to "HIDE" thats what's holding him back...so the damn-fool runs 🏃‍♀️ 😳

I cant watch your videos because of the beard . Please try showing your face . sooorry

All good except he is in a relationship so there are no physical attempts being made towards me nor am I available as a third party...😭
We have mutual friends and occasionally see each other in this capacity 😊

I admit my male friend has feelings for me, he will find a way to see me when I least expect it, but he is unavailable because he is separated from his wife, so I know I have no place in this. I'm a very high-maintenance person, so I keep it moving 👉

Bizar, why would you be so negative about men? 🤔 With a distrustful attitude you will never get far.

Hes been divorced for 7 years paperwork finalized in April, hes had 5 situationshish/ relationship relationship. Hes been calling for 7 months 7 times a day and every day sometimes on the phone for 6-7 hours hes in Boston (my home town) im in NYC.i cant travel until i am healthier (he is aware) i belive hes frustrated making statement that i pushing a relationship that doesnt exist- thus im letting it go to focus on me my health- see him next spring! If its meant to be cool if not- not!

Love all of your videos

Chivalry is one of the best signs of a man that likes you 💯✨

He is explaining that dude you have in the friend zone basically and doesn’t want to be your friend

Signs of Genuine Interest and Effort:

💬 "The willingness to talk and to communicate at the very least says he enjoys you, he likes you."
⏰ A man who is into you and serious about you will make an effort to see you and come up with a plan, regardless of distance.
💑 When a guy is truly into a woman, he will find a way to have personal, face-to-face contact with her.
💪 He shows himself as wanting to be the man you can depend on, offering help and finding a way to get things done for you.
💸 If a man not only lends you money but gives it to you without expecting it back, it shows a high level of interest and generosity.
🤔 Men who are genuinely interested in a woman will want to introduce her to their friends and family, indicating serious interest and a desire to integrate her into their personal world.
💑 When a man is genuinely into you, he will go the extra mile and do things like opening the car door for you and showing his romantic interest.

Importance of Communication and Understanding:

💑 When two people are truly into each other, they not only want to spend time together but also prioritize communication, even when they can't be physically together.
🚦 It's important to understand the signs and communicate openly to avoid misunderstandings and navigate the complexities of dating.
💬 A willingness to have open and deep conversations, even when confused, is a message that he values your thoughts and wants to be there for you.
💭 "What's worse? Facing the fear of expressing yourself or living in a state of confusion for Lord knows how long?"

Yeah well this is why I don't believe in "Male best friends" Also that in my case men would hurry to the "physical" part more Idk why

My fiancé started having excuses to see me and spend time all I asked for was physical contact and attention smh it’s not that hard

Rodel is cancer patient and i pray everyday my dear because brain cancer it means nurse me po in prayer time! Now u know

I mean pwede ka or ur right partner 4 me my men!

Many men today only look for the honeymoon face, when they get tired they go for another one and so on, sad

He behaves like that for me, especially the last sign - deep converstaions. But he says he wants to be just my friend and he wont ever marry. What should I do? I feel fantastic in his presence, talking to him. Or even talking on a phone. But still confued. Did I scare him off (I told him I feel safe with him)? And I pray for him...

My coworker crush recently for the first time ever, grabed both my shoulders and sqeezed slightly during conversation and lingered holding my shoulders after he was done with his sentence, I was like why is he still holding me ????

If he is pleading for 2nd chance should I give a try or not

I like this guy, but his so slow, very quite, we are opposite's of eachother other. He dont chat or text nor does he pop a phonecall, he does not initiate, Im doing most of the things. What am I doing rong? We've hang out mostly around friends and not one on one with eachother trying to get to know each other. He confessed he likes me to, but his afraid of leaving his friends behind when committing to a partner. Should I be worried or walk away?

God's blessing! I need brotherly advice. I'm in a difficult situation. I met a man through my sister in faith, and we study Scripture together for about two months over the phone. The man is very good as a friend and brother, older than me. We laugh a lot, comfort each other and we clicked immediately, even though we have too much in common. But I have a strong impression that he has feelings for me as a woman, there are too many beatings, joys, praises, nicknames messages. He is single, I am in a long relationship. We comforted and confided in each other a lot, I'm vulnerable around him. And now I'm afraid I'll have to end that friendship, because I'm afraid it won't get out of control. Because where is the limit, even in faith as believers, it's "dangerous" to be in the company of a man. My boyfriend knows we talk, nothing is hidden. How should I act so that no one gets hurt? he's behaving strangely, it's even worse that he told me that I'm a precious being to him and that he's glad that I exist, that he'd like our "friendship love to last forever" the man has a good reputation , but the Lord warned me about this, I prayed and fasted, good advice comes in handy

Can i get the link to the vid where he gets too sexual too fast please? They always said im too attractive while i just wanna get to know em as a person..

The whole video about a guy I liked 10 years ago, but we both were to stupid and stubborn to admit.

When you find yourself on this type of content that IS your answer.
There shouldnt be any confusion if they are not good at expressing themselves then you can interpret his level of commitment through actions. If thats all you need then great. In my personal opinion its BS people should not have to interpret anything, working out puzzles left right and centre, be confused, feel alone, doubtful. If he loves you will know.
I am 54 in a relationship with a man almost a year we both have narcissistic exes so there was a lot of healing time before we met up. He is kind, generous, he is constantly in touch, he would fight and protect me in the blink of an eye...so many good traits that outweigh the bad. ....sounds perfect? He is emotionally unavailable even though he's sentimental work that out. He shows signs of codependency which makes me feel needed but not in the right way.
I am confused , I feel unsure, we havent said the L word, i feel like im not measuring up to his life before which was narcissistic and materialistic but it looked good! I know he thinks now he has nothing. Thats upsetting. So despite all that and loves complexity it for me boils down to brass tacks! Communication is key and the package of love is Words and Actions. You should know EXACTLY where you stand....this amount of doubt and effort is a no for me.

This one video hits home. My friend is moving slow, love buying me concert tickets and uses that to see me. ❤

if i only saw this video 2 days ago? this guy would've had a date this week o goodness.... Oh well I'll just use your advice for the next guy.

Thanks Mr. Stephan Labossiere 😘

Sorry this is going to be super long but I need help with this…
So the guy I’m seeing off and on I really think he is the one god sent to me. There are so many reasons why. I’m praying and praying about it. I keep getting drawn back to him. In his presence I feel a sense of calm and peace. I’m on a spiritual awakening since seeing him. Our energy is like unother. I’ve never felt like is for anyone ever before. He makes me want to elevate myself and be a better person. The downside is our first disagreement scared him a lot and pulled back. It was like it felt like it was getting a little too real for him after getting out of a 19 yr marriage and he is 40. I’m 46. From the beginning there was this insane connection and attraction. Our energy together is electric. But he’s not ready for another commitment which I completely understand. Where we went wrong is that we never had those conversations about what we were looking for and not and boundaries etc. we just went with our emotions full throttle. In the beginning after a month and a half he stopped seeing other women he was seeing casually until our first disagreement. He is not one to have serious conversations and open up. He shuts down and that’s from his past trauma from his marriage. I kept asking him if we were ok and he kept saying yes but I knew we were not ok. He ended up seeing again one of those women that he would just hook up with from time to time. He didn’t tell him cause he knew I don’t play that. I won’t date more than one person at a time and I won’t be with someone that is casually sleeping with other people either. When I caught him it was bad. He saw how hurt I was and that hurt him so bad. He couldn’t look at me. Fast forward a month after all that. We talked about it. He said that night made him think so much and has stuck with him and has F’d with him. So he says this (and I don’t believe him) that he won’t allow himself to feel feelings for me past a certain point and he won’t open up to me like the way I want him to/and won’t get vulnerable (although he’s done it already with me but won’t do that with the other one) If he doesn’t feel for me like he says why feel a certain way and get mad that I had a dating profile when you were still seeing someone else….he stop seeing her 3 weeks before he found out about the dating profile…which was found by one of his friends who took a screen shot and sent it to him…I never used it after him and I started going out. I had no need to but literally forgot to deactivate it) so while that profile was still active (and me not using it cause I was seeing him) he was casually seeing someone else. So why be mad if you don’t care about me that way? Why get mad about be going out with some friends and staying with them and not coming home cause we had been drinking but tracking where I went and where I was at cause my location was on. If he doesn’t care why track me? He wasn’t honest with me the 2nd time about still wanting to see other people cause he knew it would hurt me and tried to tell me multiple times but just couldn’t is what he says. I think cause he knew I wouldn’t be ok with that but he didn’t want to lose what we had either. I know I know how this sounds. As much as I wanted to walk away from this man (cause I have in the past from others that have done me like this without a 2nd thought) I couldn’t. We went 3 weeks no contact. I broke out in shingles because of all the stress. When he found out I was admitted to the hospital he was there that first night to see me and when we looked at each other in the eye he had this genuine look of hurt in his eyes. I feel his energy and feelings when he’s around me and it feels nothing like what he tries to tell me and himself. He says he knew we would see each other again. Didn’t know when or how but we would. All those 7 points you listed he would do UNTIL he had the feeling of it getting a little too real cause that’s not what he expected or was looking for. He says he wants to see me but he knows if he does he is going to want to keep seeing me but he doesn’t want to hurt me cause he really does care about me. So he can keep seeing the casual one but not me??? WHAT??? Help me understand this cause I can’t wrap my head around it

A man that is consistently providing for you enjoys consistently communicating with you bringing you around the family spending time with you and moving slow! Is your Husband 💯 ✌🏽

amen.❤

You want to get married one day, right? Would u drop ur female friends when that happens?? lol How does that go?

I love this❤

This is one of the most awesome videos I've watched. This truly resonates with me. I love when you said" Women are crazy, men are dumb." LOL. This has truly helped me more than you can imagine. Even though it's over between my ex and I, your words of wisdom will help me in the future. Thank you so much!! ❤

I've been seeing a guy for 2 months and is very consistent I've been clear on how I feel and when I asked what are we he said he likes me but is not ready for a relationship coz of past hurt but I feel hurt that he doesn't feel the same as I do and don't know how to move forward

I don't need anyone to rectify my existence. The most profound relationship we will ever have is the one with ourselves.

If🤔 He's coming over And...He doesn't bring anything 🏃‍♀️

That friend business yes i didnt realize it was that until he called me one day and asked me to marry him. I was taken aback and scared me seriously.
But i took a few days to pray and seek God's direction. The way i turned him down was very important to me and today 8 years later we are still very good friends. I love him dearly.

I'm 49.
Men in my life have been either interested or distant.
They don't waste time, effort, attention if not interested. 98% of them.
If he's showing those signs, he likes you.

My male friends are all gay.
I have one male friend only and I’m in the overall an approachable person.
They don't approach, smile, try to talk if they don't like you.

So, pay attention and you will see who's into you.

You just need to get know your partner. . . And timing is absolutely crucial.

Im in love with my coworker but hes got a gf baby mama and my ex baby daddy been messaging me tryna get back together . Im just waiting for one of them to make a move bc i still love my BD

The beginning “Sometimes men can be confusing as hell.” LOL yes! Love it hahaha it’s true. 😂☺️☝🏼Stephan, we love you! (My best guy friend of 18 years and I have feelings for each other, we’re in different states and we’re planning to see each other for Labor Day weekend) now it’s in Gods hands. ❤

I met a chivalrous , charming , well spoken , well travelled , intelligent silver fox of a man who love bombed me . We had a very intense relationship . Yes he was in the same city , and he totally scammed me out of thousands of pounds . I’m awaiting my court date to sue him …. Beware !!!

👏👏👏 that last part. Don't guess, and don't make assumptions 🤡

Consistent communication on texting.. but he doesn't calling me too much 😢

What about slow online dating? Or it is an Illusion when he is not Initiative a date. Should I wait or move on

Don't need money off anyway got plenty myself.

If he doesn’t call, he doesn’t want you!

I don’t understand anything 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣😂😅

Stephan, you have the most beautiful hands...truly...dts/usa

Never pay to go see a man. Make him come to you. And not at your place, make sure he gets his own lodging.