The Mommy Dom Guide | What is a Mommy? [BDSM] [MDLG/MDLB]

I had a girlfriend who loved for me to call her Mommy when she was spanking me. She was not always bossy, but when she was she did not tolerate any backtalk or I got a strapping. In addition, she was a nurse and was hyper vigilant about my health, what I ate, exercise and my bowel health which resulted in me getting many enemas. I loved it, but we ended up moving on

Yea do your homework and chores boy! I need this

What on earth? Why the strange voice pattern? You sound as if you were raised by puppets with fake personalities, or something. Sorry but you present as if you're someone who hasn't found their own identity and perhaps thinks they can exploit the vulnerability of our little space to make you feel like you have a place or some kind of status. Move on with your journey, girl.

Im a switch so sometimes I'm a Mummy sometimes a little.

tfw you're listening to this video and realize your Domme has been doing ~90% of the "mommy domme" actions but you didn't realize it until this video. *deep thoughts*

We are a gender fluid switch. One of our favorite scene plays is : Greek / Roman Goddess with worshipper. 🏆

I've been trying for a couple of time to put words and terms on this "care craving " that i've been having for such a long time and your video has been very informative so thank you very much!

Follow-up, ples!

"You could be a mommy who wears Halloween clothes all year round" I did not know that was a kink and you have awoken something powerful within me

You know, I haven't watched the video yet, but I first wanted to say that I still feel shame over my mommy kink. I feel safe with your channel, so I'll go ahead and just... let it all out, I guess.

It's been incredibly hard to tackle for a long time―every time I think about it, I feel like a creep. But any other kink I have I'm completely fine with, it's just this one particular one that gets me wanting to find some way to force myself not being into it. But really? I know that there's no such thing. There's no "cure." No matter how much I've tried to, somehow, train myself into not having a mommy kink―it's still there.

I hate this cycle, and my OCD doesn't help with the shame.

I might see a sex therapist and go from there, as my kink is sexual. It's kind of jarring to me to see so many commenters in here who have the same kink, yet I still don't know how to feel.

It's like, I'm definitely not into my biological mom. Nor my caretaker/guardian who raised me. That's downright disgusting, incest in itself is disgusting, harmful, and deserves to be shamed to hell and back. I would be heavily traumatized if any family member were to attempt to do that stuff with me.

And I understand that kink ≠ reality.

But my mommy kink involves some age play, and for no reason (as my other kinks are. Just popped up out of nowhere), I'm into being "corrupted." Acting innocent and unaware of what's going on. After I satisfy myself to this fantasy, I just hate myself by the end of it and try to pretend it never happened. Make an empty promise to myself to never do that again. I really don't know what to do, and even acknowledging my kink here is making that shame slither in again. I just want it to go away, but that's not possible.

Hopefully, one day, I'll make some kind of peace with it. Because that's the only option I have. 🤦🏾‍♀ Thank you for taking the time to read me vent―I've never opened up about it before.

I'm a trans boy, I have a girlfriend who is also my domme. It took us months to get into the actual dynamic, discussing boundaries, preferences etc, she's a lot more experienced due to the age gap.

I'm very comfortable with her and she really helped me being more open with my desires.

I love my mommy domme <3

I don't understand mommy dommes

I’m so tempted to leave an outrageous step on me comment but I’m pretty sure you weren’t joking about blocking people.

I have been into ABDL for 20 years, and you gave me new ideas about what I might want from a mommy. How do you know SO much about things you aren't even into? There are also some great books out there that could be useful for someone new to the role.

Lol. Drew Barrymore and I are the same age. I've literally always had a crush on her.

I sort of fell into a CGL relationship when a partner wanted to explore being a Little. It was very awkward at first because I was the sub generally. We very quickly figured out that the service elements of our relationship very easily flowed into this new aspect and was extremely natural. Our cue that it was a Mommy Day was my partner not picking their own clothes when they got up, often in tandem with them coming out for breakfast with a stuffed toy clutched to their chest. We called it "Hitting the Mommy Button".

While the dynamic certainly shifted after the mommy button was pushed, I can still honestly say my partner remained the dominant. It meant that the service I provided changed in character, and activities were certainly very different (we had a no intimate contact rule for Mommy/Little time), but they still chose generally what the activities would be. Sometimes it would be projects and crafts typical of a pre-school or kindergarten, or going to the park, or going to the pet store to play with the puppies and kittens. I did have more authority and responsibility than otherwise though. Directing activities, dressing and grooming, supervising trips to the toilet, etc.

I will be honest, I would absolutely love to have a truly non-traditional relationship with a breadwinning "mommy" type who I could happily serve. I don't think I'll ever find it, though, because I'm a third gender weirdo who doesn't really fit in anywhere. ;p

I'm a man that dose a mommy roll becoz I fell more like a mommy than a daddy coz I've aways had a girly way with my control for my little princess

Need me a cig mommy. iykyk

I have a long time Domme that both her and I have a somewhat mommy son relationship but far more mature most times. As in almost more a soft yet sadistic Domme/mentor and barely overgrown bratty switch. It's fun for us but most people rarely find it. She is one of the sweetest, giggly, yet scary and sadistic. I have learned a lot from her and still love her deeply.

Some Asmr were done in an up lifting and helpful.

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I love how you mentioned that people of every gender can be mommies. As a person who uses mainly he/him pronouns and is a mommy, thank you

Can we call you Daddy instead? Mwahahaha (I kid, please don't block me)

I have so much resentment and anger towards my mother so the "mommy" just grosses me tfo. I was enjoying a Quinn audio and she dropped in with this word and like gristle in my steak, I was done, over lol

I'm a switch, and I do have a motherly side. I'm uncomfortable with being called mommy, but people have called me Momma and that's ok. I'm not the 'taking care of a child' mom. I more or less comfort and take care of my friends and subs who just need emotional support. I would never go into a full on relationship with mother as my status.

Also, it's disturbing to me that ppl use these titles like "Mommy" w/out others' consent. I could never articulate why that disturbed me, but now I can. Thank you Evie

I'm so glad you mentioned Contrapoints!! I stan! Also she really helped me discover my sexuality!

I'm another one of those Trans Mommies. I find the role therapeutic as I never had the opportunity to get pregnant and become a mother in real life. Being in a MDLg relationship with my girlfriend gives me the opportunity channel my inner nurturing mommy and satisfy that need.

Thank you

Ngl, i really love the idea of like a really sweet and cuddly mommy dom but ive always wanted to experience it though i jave never gotten a chance to :(

Yay a video for the mommy dommes!

As a new little who discovered I want to be a little to a mommy thank u for this information it was super informative and helpful and mommy’s are amazing and definitely deserve alot more love and respect especially respect

watching this after recently breaking up with my submissive bf who liked to call me mommy. decided it wasn’t for me lol

>tfw no mommy gf who wants me to be her good boy and tells me she loves me 😢

My favorite mean mommy trick is the backhanded compliment followed by an unflattering comparison. 'You're doing so much better. Soon you'll be almost as good as Mrs. Smith's girl.' 😈

Ive started working out and my vanilla guy friends are too comfortable calling me a muscle mommy 💀😂😂 it's an interesting cultural shift for sure

Very interesting, would love a follow up to this, thank you! 😊

More you describe this dynamic more i got the feeling that you do describe stereotypical Russian family:)

I just play with this in fantasy (i would love to try it out irl, finding subs just isn't a priority for me now) but i like the idea of being the cold, cruel, unfairly strict stepmother with endless demands. I've also begun realizing how affirming the idea of being "mommy" is with a sudden drop in ability making it not really possible for me to hold a job and pitch into financially supporting the polycule i'm part of when i used to be the breadwinner. It's okay that i'm not the lazy husband with a hectic job anymore, i can be mommy instead.

I also love the idea of mismatch titles, possibly because of the whole nonbinary thing. I saw a flyer for a dungeon party at an international ftm convention with an illustration of a dom telling the sub "it's mommy sir, to you" and got so much joy out of the realization that you can do that.

Alcina Dimitrescu and Lilith from Diablo <3 totally mommy vibes.

I also like to be a mommy

I've been called mommy before in RP & I'm a cis straight guy, with a mpreg kink & me & a ex girlfriend explored that & roll reversals with pregnancy, I'd wear a silicone belly & stuff & yeah! it was pretty fun & hot & I was into her calling me mommy dressed up pregnant! 🤤

I love how you always offer different perspectives on the explanations of the topics you give. You always find a way to humanize or make things relatable, even if it isn't something that you take part in 🖤 your videos are so comforting and inclusive. Thanks for the watch. The ocean is mommy 🌊

I'm black, so I thought it was normal to call a significant other mommy/mami or daddy/papi until I was well into adulthood. To my surprise that it's not normal, and people think it's weird.

I've seen a lot of black vanilla couples where the woman is in charge and whoever she's with calls her mami as a cute nickname and no one rarely bats an eye.

Moments when u are a Male brat and u hear there is a hole "category" (said lightly) of this type of Dom relationship and you learn they dont take cheek/eye rolls- and u both start to chuckle and get nervious for no reason hehe

It all starts with the mommy jokes, and then next thing you know it youre in a mommy domme/puppy girl relationship. Totally not speaking from experience.