Why She Divorced Porn Actor [ENG CC]

He was not an actor, he was a prostitute, except they filmed him.

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Isn't this the same woman who said she would choose her job over her lover and his requests? So he chose his job during the week and it's not ok with her? Yes, it's way more complicated but the fact still remains.

Do more men around the world need to be more attentive to helping raise children, participate in making decisions, and sacrificing some of their work time to pick up the slack? Yes. Absolutely. But it won't be 50/50 like everyone assumes. More like 75/25, especially in this country. Women love the idea of a hard working, self driven woman but the moment they get married or are pregnant, they will most likely quit their full time job and rely solely on their husbands income (which is usually enough for only him and a small single person apartment). The money here is horrid for traditional family raising. She HAS to work and that would be more acceptable if both parents shared the burden of child raising.

It comes down to communication and expectations BEFORE you friggin get married. Why be surprised after you have a child that he was more traditional when you never actually sat down and talked about expectations for child raising?

Very selfish. He got off lucky. Nothing worse than a nagging wife who is trying to change someone.

brava hai fatto bene a divorziare certi uomini egoisti non si meritano bambini e una moglie cosi intelligente e bella. egoismo totale senza rispetto e la causa di tantissimi uomini e importante avere rispetto della donna specialmente quando e una mamma .consiglio per te per la prossima relazione gli uomini hanno un semplice difetto .quarda i suoi occhi durante una passeggiata .vedi se rifiuta uno squardo feminille.l uomo che rispetta la sua donna a solo occhi per lei.vai nei bar e vedi come si comporta con la barista vedi se li da attenzioni .allora lasciolo .un uomo non dovrebbe mai ordinare da bere .solo la sua donna se una donna se invece e un uomo allora dovra lui chiedere questo ti fara capire che li sei importante e se questo succede sara sempre con te ad aiutarti in tutto vuol dire che solo tu sei nel mondo e mai ti potrebbe offenderti queste sono cose piccole ma si puo scoprire la verita dentro l uomo se ci sei o non ci se

"He only focus on his work & himself", my guy getting paid to pipe women tho, damn...

She married a porn actor low self-esteem

Shimiken-san... 😅😅😅 omg!!

i think this is a very caring and loving woman, i believe any man would only dream of having her as a wife, she appears to have done 100 times more effort to save her marriage....if she is available, i know many men would want to meet her...i wish there were many more women like her in the world..she's a good woman...

Simply put: Don't have a child with someone who doesn't.

It is sad to have a child & then the marriage broke up.
Family planning should have been discussed before marriage.
I think it’s also a cultural matter - in Japanese society the men leave the housework & caring for children to the women. It’s very much a Men’s society & women remain the the background.
It’s sad for a cold to grow up in a broken home & the impact on the child when he is growing up.

Anyone know her and her ex husband name?

You married a porn star! 🙄What an absolute fool of a woman!

If you just take care of your kid and not work, then just do your part and stop complaining. Plain and simple. If you don't bring home income, then your job is to take care of the kid and housework.

First half of the video is all about how he should change his ideas and ways, but then you get to the middle of the video where the truth comes out. He didn't want to have another kid. She 'convinced' him to have one though b/c she wanted one. Amazing she wasn't willing to change her ideas and ways about wanting a kid once she got married but dude is supposed to change once she's ready for him to.

Her name???

I've already watched this before but my mind can't help but to criticize her in this whole video. Every words that came out of her mind was her having kind of "resentment" towards the ex-husband. First of all, the guy already told you he doesn't want any kids. She knew that but still imposed her desire of having one. Isn't that selfish? If you really want a kid but the other party doesn't want it then it's either you end the relationship or talk it out and come up with some sort of agreement with each other. Communication is the key here. Sounds like they had one but clearly this girl didn't even listen

It would only be fair to interview the ex-husband.

Another divorced Japanese woman, and worse, divorced Japanese single mother, screaming "victim," and not accepting any responsibility or accountability for her own actions and stupidity.


One does not get a divorce to "take a break." She's another idiot with a pretty face.

He even told her, straight up: "I don't want anymore children." So she convinced him. How fucking stupid are you ⁉Children are not toys or stuffed animals. They are a lot of work and responsivity, and require endless sacrifice. Becoming parents is a mutual decision. Whenever the decision to have a child isn't mutual—the woman decides that is—it never works out; and the child always has to bare the consequences. What a dumb-ass‼

I firmly believe that parenting responsibilities should be shared, but raising children not only requires time and energy, but MONEY—LOTS OF MONEY ¥¥¥¥¥¥¥. Somebody has to work and probably extra hours as well.

She created the situation she's in, and the long-term negative effects on your child will be irreversible. Live with it bitch ‼
🤬🤬🤬🤬

stupid husband, he should quit his job after marriage, what a man

he only care about f--king beautiful girls everyday, of course he less care because of his job

I’m sorry that her husband was not a supportive co-parent and none of this is her fault.

But let this be a lesson to anyone who wants to have kids: Discuss with your partner if they also want to have kids before actually having kids with them.

You can see this woman try a lot for the marriage but will be good to hear from the man as well , in order to get a more balanced opinion. Divorce is never easy and one can only wish the best for both of them

Everything started to make sense after she said that, he didn't want to have a child. He never had such goals or values and never asked for that kind of life to begin with.
No wonder.

Seeems like a sweet lady, but should have realized that a male porn star with two kids he doesn't see may be self centred person.

Your life your choice decided right or worng

I am not a mother and nor female, but for sure doin works in home, such as cleaning and cooking and plus any other stuff are also tiresome. And I was once take care of my niece and nephew for full day like 3 days in a row gives me real feelings of taking care of real kids. Yes full day I am not exagerating.. Just because the husband working outside, being a mother is also hard too..you also have to do something emotional related with your kid, not only thinking about the house stuff. So how to solve the problem? Ofcourse the parents should works together, and I love that my dad always helping my mother to do homeworks when he is not very busy.

自分のことを内観出来ていて、とても尊敬できます。🙏

She was raising the child alone before divorce.
She is still raising the child alone after divorce.

I hope she does well.

all the blah blah blah statements lol. She was brainwashed, now woke up and continue to spam nonsensical statements lol. AV industry sprouting fairytale endings? Dream on😮‍💨

Would your child be okay hearing this when he grows up? Why not divorce and keep it quiet? Both of u know what the problem is and when a child is old enough you can share this with him/her in a considerate manner.

Yeah right. There are many women who just want a child and not a husband. Why all the pathetic excuses?

She's never yours, it's just your turn.

I knew this gonna happen when i watched the first part long time ago

People who work in the p@rn industry have a part of themselves that is potentially void, insecure, or in bad cases, messed up. Just being honest, but don’t consider anything long term with one, as they are not good with commitment. You can’t change them.

Women are selfish, men have to make a living, but women want men to be mothers too. What's the point of getting married if it's like this, if women work, it's still commonplace, but if not, women just live on.

no human is perfect, what is the meaning of marriage if you can't live it sincerely, many men raise their own children and it works

What her ex husbands name ?

This man is surrounded by pussy all day those marriages never truly work out rarely his sense are already dulled emotionally his career is first. He not going to play daddy he really didn't want kids.

미켄이형,…..

Seeing this video and also a few others from Nobita where Japanese explain what they find attractive in a man or what they think is the most important things in a man I see a dichotomy.
A large percentage of the women interviewed expressed finding being a hard worker and making a lot of money as a top priority.
One would think those same men would tend to prioritize and focus on work and making money over other aspects of their lives and hence they are shooting themselves in the foot if they expect a more balanced or household-oriented man...

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So she forces him to have another baby, even though he already has two and told her from the get go that he didnt want another kid, then expects him to be the perfect dad? He has two other kids... No wonder he refused to do all the work. I would have too if I was forced to have a kid I didnt want.

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when people make children but aren't suited to be parents

Girl, if that what makes you happier, you should go for it❤

Shimiken is the goat 🐐

I don't know to me the rupture seemed childish, basically the man was too full of himself and being unreasonable about the situation. The whole "we grew apart because I'm busy with the kid" or was too busy with the kid to give attention to my husband: its all bullshit to me.

As a man if I feel distanced from my wife and child in this scenario its because I'm not getting INVOLVED in their daily life. I mean what are they gonna do? Spend the day following you from one pr0n studio to another pr0n studio? Please don't be ridiculous.
If you shared the effort of raising the kid together you would spend time with your wife and not feel like she doesn't love you. Relationships are NOT about what you take for yourself but rather what you give to the other person - because what you give is a reflection of the love you carry within yourself.

Not to be judgmental, but p stars are used to being "Takers" because pr0n as an industry is an environment of taking and being taken. Both literally and symbolically. I find it doubtful one can find a "Giver" type in the pr0n industry. Its all Me, Me, Me, energies.

Selfishness is the root problem of all of us. Only God can save us with Himself.