Does A Man Marry Out of Convenience vs Love?

Them women just dumb remember that song the girl is dumb dumb dumb dumb girl lol!!

You right keep doing you alone you doing just fine it's true birds of a feather flock together ijs I'm ole school and believe that.They say imma OG I say that stands now for ONLY GOD😊

Yes and speaking from experience with my son’s father who after I left him went and married my young cousin in France last year at her 25th and he groomed her when she was 13 slept with her when she was 17 and came here to visit us. These narcissistic men will marry for convenience, for money, for free whatever, for sex. for a visa and a place to live rent free

Yes, everyone may do something for convenience.

I really wish I had this insight in my 20’s .. I wouldn’t have poured 10/11 years into a man who was immature and did not know how to love/and or. never loved me. It was all down hill from there , I lost all my confidence, all my light and it lead to some severe dark times.

You have way too many ads coming on repeatedly. Every couple minutes.

Ben Affleck got J Lio back because she is needy, she already said she can't without a man. And as for Jay Z they didn't want to give up the brand. And I'm sure Beyonce had too much invested and didn't want to break up the family.

It seems like TG believes All women are weak. And people can have a different opinion that's how God made us. TG acts like everyone should agree with him 🤔

How come you are not reading the questions out loud? Why are you not answering the question with scripture? God has the answers for everything

Amen

Hi Tony, women or man doubt really love your wife's,they change their lifestyle and go to other women who they really love.

This is really God’s work… relationships that can lead to Godly marriages and existing marriages are under serious attack . God created marriage and from day one and since day one the devil been on the move to cause it to fall…

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Absolutely loved this ! Haha one thing I learned about men is they are going to do what they want to do. The girl he's with right now is the girl he WANTS to be with period!

Those women online saying how men love the one that got away are trying to make their self feel better and projecting. A man's love is STRONG AND INTENSE! Goodbye😂

I have a question for Tony….
How long should a man or woman wait to meet the family n friends. It’s been a month but we been knowing each other for years but not on a personal level he would ask my cousin about me but that’s as far as it would go bcuz I was involved with someone. Now I’m single n we ran into each other n connected.

That Jim Jones Christy thing is ridiculous 😅

Good teaching ❤

This has so many gems in it 💎 I love Tony for his realest & authenticity 🤍

How you go say you love me and you cussing on my platform! Get thee behind me devil 👿 😂😂😂 that statement had me on the floor Tony! 😅

I wasted 31yrs with someone that cheated and kept chasing his past. created a double life with someone else. the other women knew he was married and knew of me and I had no clue what was going on because he was dealing with someone miles away in his hometown so when he went once a year he will be living a double life. but having a long distance relationship basically. social media texting sexting etc. but never allowed me to find someone else or allowed me to find out he was cheating with someone else he was having all this sex that he was to tired to have with me even though he only went once a year to visit and i was here 360days next to me. text at 2am 4am 1am as I was laying next to him sleeping. I hate every single thing about this man that ask to marry me 31yrs ago for wasting my youth when i could have been with someone that really loved me. he never allowed me to have friends or male friends but he was friends with all these females from his pass and school and affair partners. didn't allow me to go out to clubs bars or even grocery store by myself. car pool on purpose so I didn't drive. this love was suffocating me and drained me. I lost myself and gave up on my self. he was telling other women how hot and beautiful they was and hidden social media but I was taking care of his diabetes copays meds care doctor appointment and labs and never got a hey sexy or you good? no like no thumbs up nothing. but never brought the divorce papers never allowed me to leave. we never was sexually crazy or active but we can be in each others presence and enjoy every day life. simple and I never brought drama or ask for anything. I was not physically or emotionally good in this marriage to protect myself but I always put him first and he was still cheating.

They love the perks and convenience

Many women are in denial of the fact that men will never love a woman the way a woman understands or expects love to be😊.

Biologically men are low in empathy compared to women. Women's brain is '' hardwired for empathy'' whereas men lacks this neurological trait, It is a hard pill to swallow.

A man can learn the skill of being empathetic, whilst in a woman, empathy remains an instinct.

What a message!!

I can tell you I think I married more out of convenience because it wasn't loved since we fought for 4 years prior to getting married. I thought getting married would change everything for the better, man was I wrong. It lasted 24.5 years then she left me and divorce me with her seventh different affair partner

Love this..

I am curious, had you not bumped into her 6 months later, would you still have come to get her? thinking aloud

👸he only changes for the wm he doesn't want to lose/ live w/o. trust😌!

Discernment is key 🔑

A man don’t run back because he FEELS like it’s over. Love is not a feeling? You ran back because you knew or was scared that other relationship wasn’t gonna work.
Men needs to know that if she don’t RESPECT YOU. She don’t love you.

My impression of marriage is two people marry purely because they are in love with all the connections for life. But if they are in agreement of having flings outside marriage or keeping secrets but still remained married because of financially status house car etc etc then it's not fair on those that are caught up with those that are married usually they like them there's an attraction they get played used left confused hurt whilst the married person continues with the one they with. Stop this fairytale disbelief of marriage a contract a business deal and playing with people's emotions out here we all want love some of us been single and naturally have a need for companionship you can't ignore those feelings you have for some may not be mentally strong to walk away and forget there needs. Married People are humans they have to also interact with other humans around them.

I have that same rodeo shirt Tonya 😊 I went to a rodeo party back in March here in Texas❤

On Point Mr. TONY G.
What A Great view on this topic.
❤ Women, we have to learn how to listen at times. ❤

Lust and attraction comes and goes in long term relationships. They key to a long successful marriage is to make sure you actually like the person. Lust and love don't last. However, they do come and go. So, if you truly like the person, it makes it so your relationship can survive the moments when they are low. And after time, love and bonding forms. Reality is different from the fantasies portrayed in TVs and books. The romantic ideal of TRUE LOVE, where there is only ONE person that is your soulmate is farce. In reality, you can love many people throughout your life. Long term relationships are about commitment and compatibility.

Problem 1 Mr. Gaskins, HOW do I get a man to love me like that hehe.

Too many people are negative, you're right.

Mrs. Gaskins is so lucky.

Love is a choice.

Man said them boys be hobo sexuals

That why i don't trust no man words but his actions speak for itself!!

Mr. Stop it!!!!!

So does this go for YOU and your wife? So did you ONLY marry your wife because she was around when you WANTED to get married? Did you NOT truly love her?

It's the same for women as well. It's better to marry than it is to burn. Discipline is having self-control. Having self-control is knowing how to control your life. You don't want to run the streets. The streets don't have no love for you, man or women. You must have will, determination and desire commitment

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God Bless you my Brother you are doing a great job! I listen and appreciate your Wisdom God has downloaded in you especially you being such a young man, keep keeping it real 💯 lovin it ❤❤

Truth!

Tony, you are a great man of God!!! Don’t let the Evil ones discourage you from teaching God’s plan for family, man and women in is Church… I love your faithful work ❤

Say that again 😮😢

You are speaking facts

Love you Tony for all that you do!!!❤❤