Why You Have No Self Control

Don't worry, be Fappy!

“And after you do it, you go who the hell was controlling me?”

You’d never believe what i was doing just three and a half minutes ago….

am trying to become a Christian after being the closest thing to an atheist my whole life and now that I need to repent of sin this is helping me a lot thanks dawg

Best I’ve ever heard on the subject!!! Loved the quote “front door-back door open to let thoughts come & go! Just don’t serve them Tea!!” That’s the Best!!!

You have no self control because there is no self control. Everything is controlled by God's will.

Self control is what makes you separate from a boy to a man

Unscientific bullshit. +1 dislike. "This voice is not you", lmao.

Thank you, Cole, for this video so, so much. It helped me during difficult times when I thought I just couldn't do the right thing.

You can stop being autistic through hard work.

Not. I likely have ADHD and thoughts do not go all the way for me. But I agree that self thought control is a major component.

for the first time i have a little control over myself

Sir, this is a beautiful video, I have little self control. Masterbation has conquered me since I was a teenager. This video has inspired me to try and grow and build a better relationship with God my heavenly master Jesus Christ. Blessed be those who read this. God richly bless you for creating this video

I have a weird thing around a curtain friend I act negative and annoying and can’t control myself I don’t understand?

I'm an adult, nobody can stop me 🧐

Sounds like a cheat code to self control. Appreciate the information man.

It is easy to hear this and be like "Imma do this right now, easy piece of cake" but what is hard is to be constant or to actually understand this and apply this to our own minds since everyone is different and not everyone might do the weird observant "strategy"

FR <3

been on a loop since starting a job in sept 21" of "hey don need to do your hobbies its fine do it tmr"

and its like 2 years and im so scared ahh

i needa re-calibrate

I needed this video cause i said very nasty things on someone on Instagram because they judged what i liked and i went way too far. Sometimes im unintentionally toxic and i want to have more self control so i dont end up hurting soemone at one point

I tell my self to stop being a loser and get off pornhub, shaming yourself out of certain things works great for me

Just remember guys, learn to let those intrusive thoughts come in and let go, you are not able just to get rid of them in a minute cause your brain is used to it. Don’t fight them or as video saying “serve them a tea” by that I think it means “pondering them”. And that little voice will be less and less loud. But that doesn’t mean that you don’t need to think at all, that just means that you shouldn’t be runned by that

Whats wrong with masturbation? I always heard it was healthy and normal to do

You’re such a superhuman 🙂

This really spoke to me. thanks for the new perspective.

you aren't the little voice inside of your head you are the ears that hear it.

how does he not have at least 1mil subs lmao cole is underrated af

I'm 5 weeks on retention and this Friday will make it 6 weeks NO PORN NO SEX AND NO EJACULATING 💪

Two Years later, and I now get it!

Thanks alot for this video 💗

I hear animal i have become

Mental health applies to ultimately everything we do in our lives. In order to take control of your mental health, you need to take control of everything you do, think, and feel (not saying you should suppress or repress). It's easier to indoctrinate kids to do this, but for adults it's far far harder. Not that it is impossible, but it will take a lifetime to master your emotions if you start as an adult.

while I was waching this video, my thoughts were telling me that it is too much effort and that it's okay no to take this seriously. But then, I realized that what I really want is to control myself, so I watched all the video alghough I found very attractive to just pass.

This video helped me do how to MEW

Thank you ❤❤❤

So my urges is a social conditioning? Hahaha give me a break

If we are not our thoughts, then what are we?

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So I should tell myself "I am not my thoughts, and my thoughts do not control me. I control my thoughts," right?

Thank you ❤

Coming home after working all day. Hanging out with my kids until they go to bed. And then it’s watching TV immediately. Instead of doing absolutely anything else that I want or should be doing. every single day and it’s almost impossible to pull myself away from the effing TV

8 mins of bullshit i love how all of this content are just intentionally towards nothing
all psychological things are not accurate even to professors in psychology they know that human brain and topics like self control are way off our understanding and most of the test aren't confirming the results they are just there to make there theory true and the admit that

and everyone here is talking about there experience which highly differentiate between even the twin brothers there is millions of variables that affect any decision they make or any type of personality they have came

I'm sick of everyone just acting like they got the answer to solve it while them selves damn know there is nothing would change let me give u an example :

lets say I'm someone who can't make a cup of coffee and when i ask people about how to make it they just tell me get coffee and water and that's how i imagine how far u guys are from the real answer u know that coffee and water are necessary to make a coffee but don't know how it should be done is should the water be cold or room temp or fuckin boiling and how much coffee per ml of water or should i put the fuckin water into the jar no one knows and many people who eventually made there coffee wont even know how it happen and will suppose that such reasons where the true reason . that how complex these shits are

devil stuff guh

It is pure vednatha.. seperating ego from thoughts and this will automatically kill the ego to reveal your true self (Ever exist conciouness bliss).

The part relating to masturbation is not scientific at all and only partly true

I will try this method bro
Thanks for this video

Well... that kind of self control helps sometimes and even often. But not always. I worked for 6 weeks straight on my job and on my channel and had a total meltdown one day before eastern where I did not want to do anything, my head just said "world, leave me alone". No amount of self awareness and control helped me there. I took 3 days off, turned off my phone and just went out into nature hiking and watching nature.

Instead of always trying to work on self control, I try to rely more on habits and environmental design. And yes... sometimes it´s okay do watch netflix and do nothing productive, regardless of what hustle culture wants to tell us :-)