The Mindset That Makes You Socially Attractive

you didn't do it -- the cat, reached out to you...

But how do I ask the right questions i don’t understand

i subscribed because of this video. ive been subconsciously & unknowingly practising this mindset. i agree with this perspective 100%

The Mindset Chapter was very very touching and beautiful. Thanks

This video was much better than I thought it would be, awesome :D

This content is pure gold

This is awesome!

I totally resonate with what you said about people being tiny universes. I tend to bend my reality through reading. 📚

The Dirty Six is a pretty interesting name

Yo my bestfriends name is Carson too !

My struggle is I happen to meet people who are not into deep conversations at all. My circle of friends panicked if I ask them deeper questions rather than superficial ones. It’s like either they don’t want to go there, they haven’t thought about it and not even interested to think about it, or they feel that I’m trying to knock over their boundaries. Even by a mere caring question ‘are you okay?’ threw them off. Somebody said to me that I like to ask questions that she never been asked before, implying that I think too much. Not only that, they are also not interested to ask the same questions or curious to know more about me. More often that not, they will talk whatever they want to talk about and I’ll do the listening 90% of the time.

basically, unpack a person

Your videos are incredible.

Wow this was a pretty amazing video! I am a big fan of your work and this opened my mind significantly and i just want to thank you for showing up in my life,because you didn't only helped me and so do you my friends❤

Wow. I can feel this video being the catalyst to a better me
Thank you ❤️

That’s exactly how I got my first best friend 😂😂😂😂

I feel like a robot learning how to be human

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Thanks Cole. You made realize how selfish I am. I only have to get and appreciate the reality of the other person through conversation as much as possible. Cool.

really interesting

How very interesting. These are conclusions and ideas I’ve come too on my own along the way. I say now that people ARE an experience, and i am open to see just how much of it i will get with everyone i meet.

It sounds like you engaged in big talk, instead of small talk, that's how I would say it

I am here

Now I know what 6 drake was warning us of

you are a great man

Hi, I'm in Pennsylvania and its a cult. I get along with people from other countrys or just other states, but I have significant difficulty thriving in this area. Everyone is religious here, but hardly anyone's honest. All this to say: sometimes its not you that needs to change, but your environment. Keep that in mind, and make sure that others greet you with the same open mindset before you become discouraged. It doesnt matter what designation they have, the proof is in the outcome.

step one: become intoxicated

So the thumbnail makes us think we gotta use women?

The thumbnail is accurate having a lot of bitches does make you more socially attractive.

I think alcool help me a lot to talk to a person and dont let the coversation die.

Greatest city in the world

Bs. You said you drove at the start then drunk. Why lie about this

So step 1 become a A-list celebrity
Step 2 Making friends isn’t hard anymore

Amazing stuff Cole, I too moved to Austin a little over.a year ago for the same reasons; change it up and meet new friends...

The thumbnail, really really easily cancelable

As a super introvert I feel like people find me hard to approach because I am so quiet and I give off a vibe that says “don’t talk to me”. 🫠 I don’t mean to be that way but I suffer from social anxiety and Im so awkward 😭 I do try to initiate a conversation first because I feel like people are too scared to talk to me or something (I’m not sure how they really feel) and I go for it. I tend to be very good at asking open end questions and am very good at asking more questions to follow through. But most of the time I’m just doing all the asking and getting to know them and that’s it. I feel like maybe people just don’t find me that interesting to ask me much about myself. But that’s okay, I’m a pretty boring person anyway and most of the time I just do more of listening about their lives.

The “right questions” is a really big skill I learned over time. People often mistakenly ask questions that can be answered simply with yes or no etc. it really gets a conversation going if you ask specific questions people feel more excited to answer

Hey sometime you got to be the main character. Break the ice!.

"Socially", ok JUST CHECKING THE SPELLING FOR IT. And i accidently hit the caps key, i got "accidentely", accident. Accidently, this whole comment is a failure. That spell checker gets on my nerves.

Moving schools. Realising imma have no friends. How did i even make friends when i was younger smh

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Cmon man, no need need to re-invent the word 'curiosity'. Good video otherwise, good story lead-in.

Bro just had his first conversation and is acting like he just discovered something fundamental about the universe.

Wait…so that means that people were approaching other people without genuine curiosity about the other person and expecting friendship? People won’t become friends with you just because. Friendships are build when one makes the other person feel special, appreciated, listened, understood, and shows them that they can be themselves around you. Approach every exchange with respect, open curiosity about what you can learn from that person, and willing to offer the best parts of yourself and you will see how friendship blooms, if it meant to be. 🪴🌹

Go preach the word of God