5 Biggest Reasons Why a Relationship with a Narcissist is Doomed to Fail

He told me when we had an argument that some women were also agreeing with him, women that I had never even heard of!!

Me too wasted 8 long years to that lieing nark went to hell an I mean hell I'm. Lucky to still be alive she was that toxic

I went to a concert over the weekend with my covert narcissist bf of 25 years and he ruined my entire experience. He ruins trips, events everything I’m so happy we don’t live together

Own the truth.. my narc wouldn't correct any mistakes done in her favour..

They also are not capable of honest loyal mature love. They only have fantasy love.

I was married for 25 years (three children) to a sales man who traveled the world a lot. He was traveling so much I often joked »You are away so much you could easily have another family without me ever knowing it.« We both laughed about it. Well, guess what happened. Dark humor is a warning sign. Listen to it.

Yes Yaz, My Nex always had his toxic brother who he worked with every day..and 3rd party family members who were Narcs as well. No doubt he would cry to them, and he would outright tell me they didn’t like me.. Birds of a feather 😂. 💯right on. There is was no love or empathy found in this one’s pathology.. Thanks for mentioning that Narcs family of flying monkeys that we are up against as well.. hell to pay.😮

All facts. I tried and tried and I now realize it was always her. I’m glad I know now. And yes forgiving yourself is a big step. The feeling of being taken advantage of or trying to fix a problem you didn’t cause. So glad I’m free now. Still in the middle of the divorce. Take my advice, anyone going through this should leave now. Right now! It doesn’t get any better

I've learned SO MUCH from listening to Yaz the past year or so...and always learn more every time I continue to listen, but out of everything I have learned the best lesson ever has come from the voice of Yaz: "The Narcissist is NEVER ALL IN." That one saying alone is so true, its the foundation of why a relationship, or marriage, with a NARC is doomed to fail. Little do we know that from the beginning, a NARC is never all in. Everything Yaz teaches is 100% true. I rarely ever hear her say anything that I did not experience myself. Keep listening to Yaz! She knows! Go Yaz! Yaz is the BEST!

You describe precisely my 20year marriage with a narc!!!

"We have become roommates". Typical of what a narc would say since they can't find something specific to blame shift you for their betrayal.

Thank you Yaz.. Moved out on my ex almost 3 months ago …. Already had a his Ex-girlfriend in the wings waiting. Never comforted me took full of advantage of me . He preyed upon me…. He Witnessed the death of both of my parents and then lost my husband I’d 29 years .. seen and heard everything .. he studied me and swooped and took advantage …. Had no idea took me for all I had..

Thank you i am dealing with this exactly

Yaz, I love you. I have been watching your videos everyday and you have helped me immensely. I endured 38 years of marriage to a covert narcissist and drove myself crazy trying to figure out what the hell was wrong with him to no avail. Then I blamed it on his alcohol abuse for 20 years but that was just a symptom of his personality disorder. I literally fell apart mentally, spiritually, and physically to the point of suffering a heart attack at age 50 and simultaneously finding out I had stage 3 rectal cancer! That was nine years ago... I survived and, I am now divorcing him. I'm turning 60 next month! Wasted my entire adult life arguing, fighting, crying and being depressed and anxious while also trying to be a good mom and housewife and Christian. Wish I had learned about these people 20 years ago. It would have really helped me figure out what was really going on and why. I've come to the conclusion that I will never know who this man really is because he is a pathological liar and has no conscience. Anyway, you are always on point and I really appreciate your passionate determination to put your life experience to use in helping others like us. God bless you.

Ask a Narcissist if they want a nice guy or a good man...they will say they dont want...tell everything from this statement and their affiliation

I literally got SICK & TIRED of his shit, I had to go, all you’re speaking on here I truly endured with this narcissist. He was a straight up demons, fake, a spoiled drug addicted little kid. A straight up violent, physiologically mentally emotionally abuser, thank God the Lord opened my eyes to his manipulation,

You helped so much you are my angel. Ill be forever thankful. You rock yaz . Im getting better because of your knowledge

I used to always break up and make up with that narc over n over but I got fed up with his empty apologies with no changed behavior. I stayed with him after he loss his both of his limbs and he still left me for another woman who was more " light skin" and younger 🙄 oh and his jealous sister's co worker. I'm years out but it took me years to realize I was with a narcissistic person and to learn all the tactics like love-bombing, gaslighting, breadcrumbing, etc.. I'm just thankful to now be aware and FREE !!!!

As always absolutely fantastic podcast as Yaz .😊♥️🇬🇧

I love your posts! You are so spot on!

You have no idea how much you have helped me heal from a 8 year relationship with my narcissist soon to be ex wife, you have been spot on with everything, and I really appreciate your hard work on this

When you kill a fly at a picnic. How do feel ? The Narcissist feel the same way that you felt about the fly.

Thank you. You are helping me heal

Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

Always looking for that shiny new toy😉

It took me 10 years to realize she without question a full-blown narcissist

You are right Yazz I didnt know that he was a Narc stayed 20 years. I'm free

That's what my drug narc ex did in the beginning of the relationship: lots of love bombing. He told me at the beginning of our relationship that he was addicted to hard drugs, he talked about it very easily, he was very open. He told me that he wanted to live with me in the future and that he would like to go on holiday with me, he liked us very much. And it wasn't until the second month of our relationship that I found out that he had been using hard drugs all this time and he still does, cocaine, GHB, speed ect ect. I have experienced great misery and terrible dramas. He yelled at me, he lied with every word he said, he always had excuses, he cheated on me behind my back. He said I was crazy, that I saw ghosts and that I always exaggerated. During the first month of our relationship, he managed to hide his drug addiction very well. His mother played along nicely the whole time. My ex was so very sweet and caring in the beginning, he was a real chameur and can talk very well. The scary thing is that he looks really good for a drug narc, a lot of women fall for him. And his new girlfriend, with whom he has been living since last August, is really going to make her life hell. Everything I had experienced with him was really the hardest blow. To this day, it has left me with major trauma: crying fits, migraine attacks, sleep problems, panic attacks. Because of my drug narc ex, I now see a psychologist every week.

I knew about narcissism. However, with him, I thought I was safe. He had been married 25 years. His wife passed. I did see two red flags as I look back now and I should have took those two into consideration, but then again I thought I was just scared. However, my intuition always told me something was not right and I should have listened three months after I moved in with him, that’s when his mask started slipping and I knew then I was screwed and I knew them the mistake I had made.

Yaz, u are the most practical narc expert out there. Ur videos are 100% accurate. I can tell u have been down this ugly road with these creeps and got out. Thank u for giving it straight up and not sugar coating.

That's exactly what happened with my ex narc...

What a waste of life those narcs. I wasted 10 years. 😢

I needed this so bad today. Thank you. Walked in on my husband with his new supply two days ago. Moved her in

I didn’t know.

That's what happened with my narcissistic wife. 4 months into the marriage she was talking to a man coworker having me thinking he was a woman. 2 years into the marriage she started talking to men that she was with before me. She ultimately committed adultery with one of the old supply before we got together. I had to move out because she would play the victim. She told the guy she committed adultery with that she was staying with the girl who's house she committed adultery over until I leave so I left.

Why did narcissistic relationships among old people last?

They lie, they lie, they lie, they lie, they lie.

They cannot comprehend nor participate with reciprocity. O sum always