Survivor's Guide to Jealousy | Ali Hendry | TEDxKingstonUponThames

I was almost in tears this was so helpful 🥹

I love this, she unpacked everything amazingly and she had really good points. But it's much harder in the case of trauma and when you have C-PTSD, depression, separation anxiety and generalised anxiety... I wanted to apply her methods to my life, but it's not that easy. My mind will eat me from the inside out and I will probably jump off the nearest high bridge

The closure gave me goosebumps, great talk!

The best talk on jealousy on YT! Amazing!

Thank you for sharing this. It gives me hope for myself❤

Somebody is SO JEALOUS of me they hacked several cellphones of mine and send people to stalk and find me. IGNORANCE personified. If I was nobody what I did wouldnt matter to anyone that jealous. How do you survive a bunch of demon possessed individuals seeking you out to show you their jealousy?????

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you're a heroine for sharing this Ali, thank you!!

Mark Twain quote was excellent
and “thoughts are not facts … “
Wonderful discussion

Maybe I don't understand, but from what I garnered the "survival guide" is when you feel jealous, just let yourself be jealous for a minute and then distract yourself from those feelings... Don't know how healthy that is. And "Risk factor" , to me that's true, I find it as a measurement of how loyal is this person to me, and how do I feel I should be treated. To ignore the risk factor, to me it seems like ignoring your intuition...something I wouldn't want to do, for it has saved me many times.

😢❤thank you

Listening to this, it sounds like she has not made any choices, just doing what others wanted from her. It’s worrying that she might be giving vulnerable people advice.

I cannot relate to it but I know a lot of people do.

Wow that was amazing

Great talk!! Love how open you are in sharing your story.

I cried. Thank you

SO UNDERRATED, IT DESERVES MUCH MORE.

It's simply amazing to hear you

literally dropped my pen while listening and doing my homework, thank you

amazingggggggg!!!!!!!

This is amazing

Thank you Ali. This has been a real eye opener and a great motivation to act on and, at the same time, embrace my feelings.

Ali.... wow,... I enjoyed this for so very many reasons. First, you are being totally transparent, open and forthright about something that has a high squirm factor. Your openness meets needs in me for Courage. Honesty. Your approach to feelings and facts are practical, spiritual, gentle, direct, and delightfully entertaining. And finding compassion for those who are jealous... : "love more, fear less".  LOVE IT.
Bravo, Ali... your talk is truly inspiring!!!! I'm a new fan!

Absolutely amazing, you’ve unpacked this cloudy emotion perfectly and I felt so much synergy with much that you said. Thanks for an amazing Ted Talk.

Absolutely amazing!

INCREDIBLE!!!

Amazing talk. So wonderfully thought out and brilliantly presented. Thank you! 🤩