Porn Changes Your Personality (w/ Dr. Trish Leigh)

Part of this video is untrue. Watching porn causes me no shame whatsoever, and I can't think of any reason why it would either.

I've enjoyed porn since I was 4 years old in 1957 when I started watching American Bandstand. I'm 70 years old now and the women love me like I'm Donald Trump. Former Catholic Priest Alan Watts claimes that Psychologists are dangerous in his lecture - On Being God.

Im quitting cold turkey starting now. If you’re reading this hold me accountable.

Nice tip, thanks

Every time I jerk off I feel more like a loser… After a bad marriage lost of time and money from dealing with a real woman can be draining. Men in relationships our goals seem to be put on the back burner. The thought of bringing a whole person into your life for sex seems expensive risky and ridiculous but there’s still part of me that knows this way a think is not normal. At 40 I completely lost my way masturbating is free it won’t give you any STDs or unwanted pregnancies or added stress from the new stranger you welcome into your life not really knowing who they really will be after time reveals…. Blessings

Isaiah 59:20 So shall they fear the name of the Lord from the west, and his glory from the rising of the sun. When the enemy comes in, LIKE A FLOOD. The Spirit of the Lord shall lift up a standard against him.

I'm 42 years old, please listen to this great scientist, she's doing a great service to humanity! She's doing what scientist are supposed to be doing, help humanity figure things out, to propel us to manifest our highest potential. I was exposed to porn, I believe at the age of 6 or 7, by my step father, who molested me from the age of 2 or 3, to 7, while my mother was at work. I remember how my body trembled uncontrollably when he showed me those very graphic images with his demonic gaze...

Masturbation started when I was 12, smh, through peer pressure, then by the age of 15, I had access to porn videos. For decades, I've been struggling to end this wired habit, it has cost me soo much, I know it! But now I'm consciously aware of why it felt depleting to my spirit, and why I couldn't complete anything I've started.

Trauma induced habits are a serious problem, just to know that the controllers of society, makes sure we stay addicted by making porn so available, and using food and sublimation, to trigger us into relapses, sickens me.

I thought watching porn is just about dopamine release? Instant gratification instant of delayed gratification. Dopamine is a motivation chemical so to push you to get a reward.

Some people’s baseline personality is creepy dude tho

Let's get out there and use that personality that contributes.

Best advice

Thanku for this message

When i stopped looking at that stuff, i found i got motivated and fit. My wife didn't like the new "non slob" me and felt insecure. She went to live with her mother and still hasn't returned. So sorry...thats not a helpful comment is it!?

I love youuuuuuuuuuuu

I think some of the stigma exists because it seems like such a sad and pathetic issue to have. "Just develop a little bit of will power." "Or discipline." Whatever the case may be. We forget how it is usually us saying those things to ourselves and how big of an issue it really is. For me, it's honestly number 1. I feel like everything else will come together just that much easier if I can conquer this. I've tasted it. It's not an indulgence or perversion issue. It's a "control of self over impulses" and "self-soothing" issue.

What started my porn addiction is list of issues starting as a teen to today. Relationships with people that I wasn’t physically attracted to was the start of it. Experienced so much dissatisfaction sexually where this lack of compatibility because I wasn’t attracted to them physically, mainly due to obesity. My friends hooked me up a few times where there was some common things we had such as music and movies and they did had a great personality but security didn’t work when I didn’t felt any sexual feelings towards them. I was shamed by my peers thinking I’m being prude or to shallow because I prefer athletic girls. This was like during middle school and high school for me and it still hits me to this day. Porn was a big comfort because I was turned on by what I see and preferred that over real relationships because I was surrounded by people that didn’t fit my preferences in a natural way. Because my environment was filled with that it made pornography more tempting. Yet it did effect my social ability negatively due to social anxiety that plays along. Majority of the times I blame my autism for it but after watching this it does start to make sense. However being shamed for having preferences wasn’t the only issue for me, experiencing too many breakups over the years being cheated on, had broken step families 4 times in my life, seeing a few friends going through divorces and learned how marriage and divorce is a piece of paper when talking about the struggles of alimony fires up my perspective that I really don’t want to get married or have kids since I’ve already experienced early in life of baby sitting a sibling and step siblings. I am planning on wanting to quit porn in a moderate way but I am not planning on changing myself to pursue any long term relationships since there’s no such thing as a permanent one. What I liked about your videos was about the personality part where the social part of our brain as you said is offset if I’m correct in my response. So my journey to rehabilitate from porn is mainly for the sake of social skills as well as build high self esteem enough to have fun and be more openly sexual in casual relationships instead of relying on porn. I do have sex but I want to be more passionate in my adventures instead of feeling numb. I’ve started learn how to mindfully detach emotions, resilience wise so that way attachment issue don’t subside after sexual encounters. Coming out as bisexual also made it more tempting to be more open with women and men, just need to step away from porn and embrace my sexual freedom

Thank you dear madame

Naturally I'm quite a dominant person, but ever since this addiction came on me I've become more submissive and sensitive.

Thank you so much Dr! I've seen probably over 100 videos about porn addiction in the last 6 years and this is clearly one of the best! I decided back on Jan.1 2017 that I would quit porn forever. I'm still struggling to this day. It's been a rollercoaster of achievements and setbacks, but I feel like I have more clarity and hope than ever before to overcome this. Thank you!

I am a trad guy. I have a very visual orientation. If they aren't good-looking by my standards, I have little interest.
I fell for Sophia Loren when I was ten. So, this is not a new phenomenon. I unload my ejaculate as often as once a day.
I have no sense of addiction, it's just a physical release with a boredom component, and it's healthy.
So apparently, it's dudes who are failing to act like you want. Maybe you need to explore sex toys and ask who they are primarily for.

Thank you so much for this. This is incredible usefull.

Gods work

THANKS A LOT.👍🏻

Thanks!

I use these videos to starve off porn if I break down and go to the screen I have one last move for dr Trish videos . No joke it works . Engages my frontal lobe or something

It damage the brain make anxiety depression overthinking sleep problem pschycosis

Taking the first step is the hardest

Corns purpose is to destroy Western civilization. Not on it's own obviously, but it's one of many tools to undermine society.

I'm glad that I found your channel.

I did notice that sometimes I am more grumpy and hateful with my wife and kids after I use porn for master baiting and that is not fair to them. Please help me find a way to give up this habit. I have tried for years I just can’t find a way to stop. I have a beautiful wife and a great sex life but this danm internet has images of pretty woman everywhere and I have to work around beautiful women everyday and it is so hard not to look at them and not think those thoughts I have never cheated on my wife but now I’m trying to make myself think that porn is the same as cheating because really it is . Please someone comment on this and help me though this

Very nice

What a crock of BS. I'll go blind from masturbation? What century are you living in???

Yea, porn made me the cool guy I am.

Wow this explains so much 🙏🏻 Trish

Brain algorithm: A brain that wants to be calmed & stimulated simultaneously

Porn/Disconnecting is a "learned association" to offset bad mood

Have more "Healthy Learned Associations"!

I am crying while watching this video, it has been a decade of masturbating and God knows how it has destroyed me. I was on 100% scholarship in an esteemed university, but due to constant masturbation I developed lack of concentration and memory loss. I lost my self esteem, my personality was destroyed and social anxiety was over the roof. I could not maintain my GPA and lost the scholarship and consequently had to leave that university. Now my batchmates are all graduating and I am stuck here. Even though I used to be more intelligent and brillient academically than any one of them in high school. I lost so many opportunities in life because I thought about myself so low. I looked at the world as a discomfortable place to live in. Now I know this is not all true for everyone who lives a normal life. God save us all from this curse!

Why does using too much slow speed make you depressed?

Laughable

Thanks, I'm not giving up.

Look at her she looks nuts

Little me wanted external validation to help me build up my internal validation skills. Since that is external and outside of my control how do I achieve that to help me kick my addiction? I'm constantly torn down by the people I aim to please the most which leaves me questioning whether if I'm enough and if it wasn't for my successful career would the people around me give a f...k.

I found porn when I was 6, it was introduced to me by a friend who was about the same age as me. It was more of a curiosity at that stage then anything. As I got older I had some of the worst social experiences imaginable so it became a coping mechanism. I would like to do better with it but it's hard. It's for the long time been the only thing keeping my traumas from getting the best of me.

I am one week free and it feels so awesome😊😇😇 My plan is to march firmly to my goal, success to all my folks.

This Dr. is so motivating and enthusiastic!!! I pray for everyone here that they will be able to overcome the weapons of the enemy and come to know Jesus who died for us to set us all free from evil. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.

I'm on day 14 no porn and day 7 no fap and I've extremely enraged all of the time and I hate all people. I dont want to be around anyone. I destroyed someone yesterday with my words and it felt really good to get that rage out on someone. I felt better afterwards, but today I'm just as angry again. I also cut out sugar and sweets a few weeks ago and thats making me angry too. All of my drugs are gone now so I guess thats why I'm so full of anger and hatred.

I am 55 & still live w/ my parents because of my epilepsy. I don't drive & I am tired of all this!

Everything you say is spot on, id like to give you some feedback on this suffered massive loss time and time and then now diagnosed with a brain tumor..
Started to watch it around the time the tomour dtarted to develop now on neds instantb back to a time before porn

Put in meds for the brain tumor stopped the porn instantly