7 Relationship RED FLAGS You Should NEVER Ignore

Something that a lot of guys fail to do early in the relationship is they don't set healthy boundaries with their girlfriends. No boundaries. No respect. Also, if you don't stick to those boundaries. No respect. Let your woman know that contemptuous verbal assaults will not be tolerated. If they cross that boundary, take space and don't give them the gift of your time. They'll get the picture real quick.

What if everyone you meet has red flags...

I am sorry, but the other way is also stupid. To still admire and ex is weird.

Red flags are green flags if you don’t wanna marry hehehehehhehe

Key issues are, Mens core values don't tend to change or what they want. Women however do. Most women don't know what they want until 28-30years old/they often change what they want about this time and often end a relationship around this age if in a long term relationship. Usually to meet and marry the next guy within a short space of time.
Also regards women changing their minds/values what they want, this is an ongoing thing THROUGHOUT their lives/at any age! It's why 85% of All divorces are instigated by women. Men tend to make a choice and stick with it once they commit. Women don't. They look for better options at any point in their lives if they become "not happy" eg. If their "core values" suddenly change..
This is both from experience and factual data. Uncomfortable truths are now widely available and it's wrecking society as men now understand women and women know men are understanding what in the past, they didn't (for various reasons) and are therefore now "opting out" of having relationships because theres little benefit and MASSIVE risks for men now partly due to understanding the risks and how women think and behave now and also because society is now geared AGAINST men so there's little upside to being in relationships for men especially so when it comes to marriage there's hardly any reason for men to consider it as a viable sensible option now.(very few circumstances where it makes sense).

Also its a fact that 85% of women are sleeping with the aame 10-15% of all men. Hypergamy and cheating are rife among women as they are all attracted to and "sleeping-with" ONLY what (they believe) to be "high value men" in the top 5%, when in fact this is now based upon "unrealistic expectations/ideals" and due to the modern influence of social media (anti social media it should be called) fake people fake images of fake lifestyles based around materialism thats TOTALLY out of the realms of reality for 99%+ of people, BUT which 99% of women now see and EXPECT as Normal, which is a delusion based on the lies of tik tok and social media influencers amd also media advertising. Men tend not to be influenced in the same way that women do perhaps because of how men are wired vs women, however the effect is that society and relationships are breaking down because of this and the total lack of moral values that women tend tk have now when compared to previous generations before social media took a hold. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇬🇧

If she is posting herself half naked all over social media

Im thankful that I don't have to deal with any of it. The thought that you have to be on guard with even the one you're in relationship with makes no sense to me. And the majority would rather do that than be alone. I would rather be alone and have a peaceful home.

To me one BIG red flag in a woman is if she promise me something and then forget it or ignore that she promised it... And then makes defensive arguments like "I did not think that you remembered or that it was such a big thing"..

Great video. Dated someone for 9 months, ignored so many 🚩🚩🚩and always made excuses for his behavior. Two months ago he breaks it off and immediately goes back to his ex-girlfriend. I was totally blindsided and angry, mostly at myself for not ending it sooner… He’s 65 and I’m 60. Apparently emotional maturity doesn’t necessarily come with age 😢

I knew a girl that would have huge blow up fights and work text you saying that was it and would block them. She did that with me and that ended the chance of a serious relationship. The second time happened when during a trip to see family I didn't have time to stop by her place on the way home and yep you guessed it, same thing. No effing way I would want to be with someone with super ugly attitude right there.

If they never have time for you but for everything else 🚩

I recently met a guy who I thought ticked all the boxes, looks, life goals, status etc. on our 3rd date we went on a long walk along the river, and me being a nature lover stopped to pick up bits of plastic , he lost his cool and attacked me verbally for doing this during a relationship walk’. That was the last time I saw him 😏

Hm hello to the 🚩🚩🚩😊👍 the more I know about the 🚩 the more I find that I wasted time+ energy+💀+$ make me feel discouraged 😕 I don't know if there's an answer to my requests. I gave up. I know guys think I'm bored quickly, moody. I like when you said- I was cheating bcuz of XY &Z (no sex tonight!)- that what my x told me 😂
After the first date when love goes like fireworks the desire of being together.. Get married... Have kids... Grandkids extra not interested anymore . When we starts arguing for everything even the smallest things.. Hurting each other's.. Getting tired of each other's.. Make the relationship complicated, losing interest and at the end there will be less⚡ to keep the 🔥 going 4 the love we had back then.

So I’m in an new relationship, and me and him been together one year and I have met his family but not is friends yet. Is me not meeting his friends an red flag or no cuz idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ please let me know

What about if they can't make a choice without bringing the family into it?

Well I went old school clubbing and found me a keeper so I hope that works

Yeah, the 6th and 4th red flag sadly hits close to home. My ex was in two previous relationship and supposedly those ended with both her partners cheating on her. The core values seemed to be matching all the way through our relationship. Except for the time when I hit my bottom begging for air. I was severely depressed, couldn't really do anything, procrastinated for whole months, compulsively eating everything around me so I'd feel anything positive. At the worst time imaginable she started to change her mind on her core values, seemingly wanted to open our relationship. She knew from the beginning that I was not by any means polyamorous and I actually valued intimacy and bond in a relationship. A moment later discovered her sexting with other people on the internet, and her only explaination was "I thought it's not going to be a problem", and "if you've done it I wouldn't have any problem". That was a real backstab for me. Almost 4 years down the drain. Look. We both made mistakes, I made a lot, but I would never expect something like that from her. The worst part about is that I still live with her and I don't really know what to do. We've made some economical bounds unfortunately and I don't have a vague idea how to get out of this fucked up situation. Officially she dumped me, because she felt trapped in our relationship, although she still acts like she loves me and we are still in a relationship. I lashed out a few times, because I can't really stand all the lies and manipulation, and of course I am always the bad one. I think I am too emotional and emotionally dependent and clingy, INFP 4w5 male, that could give a vague idea if anyone will read this. Recently I got out of my dark cycle and feeling very determined about changing myself for the better. Lost almost 50 pounds, eating healthy and feeling better than ever, but I still persist in this fucked up living situation and don't know what to do. There is no way I'm not fucking out of this sick situation once I can. This has fucked me up mentally too badly. I feel like I will never trust anyone again. I just don't want it, I don't want to invest my emotions in anyone ever again.

Q. What is a certain RED flag?
A. A membership in a Communist Party!

So Ryan Reynolds is a therapist now?

Completely agree with all of these. Hit the nail on the head

The moment you realize the red flags apply to you :/

Who else is dating someone and already seeing red flags. I’m feeling down from dating this girl and i’m thinking of letting her go 😢

To red flag a person (most likely an empath) for mentioning their x was a narcissist is ridiculous. You don’t have a clue.

If they have a Facebook account..

I can’t be myself around him, everything I do apparently “turns him off” and I see the red flags but I I’ve him so much and he’s my first boyfriend

Thank you 💖😊😊💓💓💓💓 AMEN

What about your mid 50s girlfriend tells you the three of her ex boyfriends are her good friends for over 10 years

holy shit i cant stop looking at your jacket

Soo Soo good

If they’re still in contact with their ex as in oh we’re friends he gives me rides to work blah blah blah red flag 🚩 nope not happening

I like your work always wactch your videos

One of my biggest ones is daddy issues

Lesson learned is just be single

II agree with a lot of these - especially they should bring out the best in you. But 'll be honest, you're coming across as insecure/ controlling on the Instagram front. No one should have to 'private an Instagram account' to cater for someone's insecurity. Whatever happened to trust? Would you have them block all their attractive connections who would still be able to DM? An attractive partner could just as easily meet an admirer on the bus or at a café or at work. As you seem to acknowledge yourself, a partner should support the best in you, what if someone is extroverted and loves life, they might just enjoy sharing that. I think it's unhealthy to want to make someone's life smaller in that way.

Latin women, 1st gen. The best kind loyal and family oriented. ❤

Didn't realize being overweight or skipping the gym was a red flag 🤯

Killer leather jacket bro. What brand is it if you don’t mind me asking? My fav one from all saint’s unfortunately got stolen. Now searching for a replacement

My partner asking me to make my instagram account private would be a red flag.
Some of your points are not red flags in their common meaning, they are your personal preferences - that's totally okay to have them, but calling them red flags suggests it is something almost universally bad and hints that the person is problematic (abuser, narcissist, player, etc.)

I think my ex-wife had every one of these red flags ironically. Unfortunately some of these did not show up until we were already married.

Yeah. I'm an Indian living in Bangkok. I was out with this chick at a night club. She's a frequent club goer. We were drinking with her and her 2 friends. Both her friends have boyfriends and that didn't stop this one chick from giving her number and making out with another black dude. I befriended this dude and told him that she has a boyfriend already. His reply was "yeah but i'm black". (aight i tried, so i shrugged)
Seeing her friend act like this kind of set an alarm bell in my head about this girl and I realized that I could never be in a relationship with her because "birds of a feather flock together"

Well, not a lot of people will experience a narcissist. It’s traumatizing. They seek out nice people. They are very charming until they are in your life. It’s hell. So please don’t victim shame. Sometimes it helps to talk bout it. There’s no shame.

3. Not just obsessed w posting and validation seeking, but also those who never ever post and interact but spend HOURRRRS every day just passively scrolling low intelligence content. I was with a guy for 8 years who was scrolling before he got out of bed in the morning, straight through his work day and night till he was back in bed. Never creating, only mindlessly consuming...

My only Red flag was that I didn't know my wife use to be a Stripper, but it's been a Happy Tie-Up.

I think you are missing a crucial point when you say there is a problem if every person they have dated is a narcissist, therefore they are one themselves.
It’s very possible (EXTREMELY possible) to attract the same type of person over and over again.
The reason is because the subconscious mind is engaged. It is its job is to repeat back into your life the program you have consciously or unconsciously put there. It acts as your servant. So unless you introduce a new programme for it to follow (which most people don’t have a clue on how to reprogram the subconscious with a new and better belief system), you’re going to keep repeating the current or old programme. Therefore, you can’t label your partner as a narcissist if they have dated many narcissists necessarily.

Clark is one of the few influencers I like on here. Very sharp. Comes from a street smart perspective.

Brutally honest, and correct!

What when the other person has some habits that are not necessarily healthy or good and all you try to do is to encourage them to get cleaner and enjoy a more positive life? How intrusive one can be for trying to bring their loved ones to a different lifestyle they are used to?

Everything he said here is in point.

💯 agree with the advice. I would add for the ladies stay away from a man who still puts mom on an incestuous pedestal. Love for Mother’s is wonderful, I have a 7 year old boy but when he grows up I will know my boundaries and seek to respect his choices and gf/ wife. No third wheels 🛞