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valid tho, i can relate
ОтветитьI’m in a trio… I hate it.. But if I leave I’ll have no friends… I’m somehow the one that always always gets in fights with others in the trio… because they either hang up on me.. or because I made a simple mistake- They always match without me.. I am just getting tired about the fact I get pushed behind them when we are walking 😢 one of them try’s to include me and hang out with me.. but the other one just comes over and pushes me back behind them.. trios only work in some situations but the older the group is the less it works.. unless your adults..
ОтветитьIKR im that one person
ОтветитьWHY AM I THAT??
ОтветитьNot all trios are bad, it depends on who is in the trio. Here's what I think the type of friends that are PERFECT for a trio (My trio, and I have to say; their really good friends. I don't know how my life would've been without both of them)
1: An empathetic, kind and caring friend
2: A chaotic, hyperactive and happy person who sometimes has therapy lessons with 1.
3: A shy, kind, caring, mumbling and helpful person who loves 1 and 2 as if her/his own kids.
also, 1 is the one in between, 2 is youngest and 3 is oldest.
Edit: 1 is representing me-
I had this..
ОтветитьBoo hoo cry me a river😒
ОтветитьI have a trio with my friends and now one is left out cause everyone talks at once-
ОтветитьThat happens to me all the time. It got so bad that at some point I thought it was normal.
ОтветитьYah thats true
ОтветитьThis happened to me when I was in a trio group
ОтветитьIt doesn't happen.
ОтветитьI have 2 trio friend group!
The 1st one is related to this
The 2nd are not! We live happily ever after!❤
this happened to me all this week. my hamster just passed away and people don’t realize it but that absolutely CRUSHED me. she meant the world to me. i needed my friends to be there for me but they were too busy laughing, talking, and whispering for me to even tell them what happened. i don’t consider them friends anymore. i sit alone at lunch and they don’t notice. they don’t care that i’m alone. they don’t care that i’m not okay. they DONT CARE. for class projects, bus seats, games, everything, they’re together. but not with me. i used to love doing stuff together during school but now i ask to work independently. why? because no one wants to work with me. i had the absolutely worst week of my life. i felt like i couldn’t go on, couldn’t get up in the morning, i couldnt bring myself to eat. i cried for hours everyday. i miss the old me.
ОтветитьThis made me cry 😭 this is how I feel every single day 😢😢😢
Ответить2000th like
ОтветитьThis has happened to me before. I found better friends everyone deserves to be happy no one should feel like this 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Ответитьis it js me after i confront them abt something like this they always shut me down and act like it’s all my fault but in reality it’s theirs
ОтветитьAlways one of them says a dark joke and says grow up
ОтветитьI have a trio and it’s perfect😂
ОтветитьAnd thats what caused my BPD 🙃
ОтветитьQuite different for me
Ответитьwe are all equal in my group
ОтветитьI can relate
Ответитьf**k trios im always kicked out like im nothing like i barely trust anyone now because i always get blocked or kicked out or just completely igbored like im worthless
ОтветитьIm going through it rn
ОтветитьIve had the worst 3 years of my life 🙃 no actally 5 yrs,
ОтветитьFr-
ОтветитьI am in this toxic friend group all my friends left me when I needed them the most but good news I'm used to it all my friends don't just ignore me they were never happy for me when I was at the best point of my life
ОтветитьTrios I HATE I HATE I HATE I HATE I HATE IT I HATE IT THEY MAKE ME SO MAD ALL IT IS DRAMA I FEEL LEFT OUT BUT WHEN I STAY WITH ONE OF THE TRIOS THEN THE OTHER BRAGS I HATE TRRIOS I HATE IT
ОтветитьI can relate so much,we were a trio but my two friends always talked to each other and i was being left out then i finally told them.
And they're reaction was just "oh ok"
Bro,i kinda hate trio groups too..
Just a little..
This hurt my heart and I like to think I’m in a better place but sometimes it helps to remind myself of where I came from, I know it dosnet help seeing people say “it’s gonna be okay” because it feels fake I never believed them but it’s true I wish I could go back and slap myself for never believing it could please please I promise you please it can and it will get better I love you no matter your mental condition I care of your thinking about self harm remember, I will always be here please reply if you need advice or help ♥️
ОтветитьTHIS IS FROM GINNY AND GEORGIA!! MY FAVORITE SHOW EVER + MY FAVORITE YTER EVER= HAPPINESS
ОтветитьNot all trios are like this
Ответитьu just explained my whole friend group life
ОтветитьHappens to me this new school year
Ответитьحبيت ❤
ОтветитьThis is why I hate stereotypes. People take them too far. I get it if YOU’VE experienced bad experiences in trios, but not all are like this. I’m in the best trio ever, no one’s left out. If you still need help understanding, think of your gender(s) (if you have one). So, say you’re male. If you’re kind and considerate, wouldn’t it be frustrating to see everyone all over the world hating you for being controlling and mean? Maybe even evil?
ОтветитьMy besties are not like this they always hangout with me even when i am alone they are always on my side
Love my besties!💗💗
I remember when this happened to me PS it was a trio
ОтветитьThis is so true, this happened to me last year. Who wants a story time?
Edit: ok so this happened around September 2022 maybe (I can’t really recall) but anyways I had these 2 friends I’ll call them a and b, so basically I used to hang out with a and b all the time and during recess I’ll always talk to them and follow them to the school library and stuff, but one day b messaged me and sent me a screenshot of a conversation between her and a and the screenshot literally said “I don’t really like [my name] cuz she’s kinda annoying and clingy”. I was kinda surprised cuz A didn’t say anything about this before. B said that she felt like she needed to tell me. A few days earlier, I went to A’s birthday party so I asked B why she invited me if she thought I was annoying, and b sent me another screenshot of a saying “I invited her cuz I thought she changed but apparently she didn’t”. The next day I tried to be less “clingy” and “annoying” in school and avoided A a bit. I forgot how the fight started, but basically A started arguing with me and saying I was leaving out our other friends cuz I’d always hang out with A and B and not so much with my other friends, but I wasn’t mean to them in any way, I just hung out with A and B more. I told A that she never made an effort to include them either so she can’t get mad at me for “leaving them out”. A then accused me of “changing the topic”. Later, I decided to apologise to A and B, so I messaged them saying I was sorry for leaving out our other friends and being clingy. When B said she would think about forgiving me, A interjected and said not to bc I was trying to “pity” them when I was not even trying to make them feel sorry for me. I was just trying to apologise. After that, no matter how much I tried to apologise, they didn’t forgive me cuz they said what I did was unforgivable. A then told me to stay away from her and B in school. At that moment, I felt like I had no friends, but remembered that I still had my other friends (that I didn’t hang out with much, but was still nice to). So I said “well, at least I can still be friends with [my other friends’ names]”. Then, A and B went to go talk to my other friends and told them to stop talking to me and stop being my friend cuz I’m “mean” and a “bully” and I “leave them out”. My other friends, seeing who was clearly “winning” in the argument just decided to stop being friends with me. The next day in school I was completely “friendless” and my eyes were literally puffy from crying all night the previous day. After school (on day 2) a and b texted me and said “you looked so lonely today” then I said “yeah cuz I had no one to talk to, no one wanted to talk to me”. So like any helpless person I tried to apologise to a and b again and I said “I’m truly very sorry I didn’t even realise what I was doing until you told me I promise I’ll be inclusive of all our friends next time”. A then said “we are not going to forgive you and stop apologising cuz it sounds pathetic and annoying. Clearly you’re just trying to get us back” and B proceeded to call me a bitch. After a month, A and B decided to forgive me and we became friends again but truth be told, they aren’t good friends at all and I don’t trust them to help me when I really need it.
If you read the whole thing, thank you so much lmaoo :D if something similar happened to u tell me in the comments I will read everyone’s paragraphs I promise 🤞🤞
I all the time is in a trio friend group it’s only me and 2 girls and like I feel they abandoned me BC everytime recess comes I wait for my friends and then I see them but they keep walking without me I feel I’m invisible
ОтветитьI'm the forth friend always happens to me all the time :(
ОтветитьWorst part is that most of the time, even after the damn confrontation, they go like, oh well and give no shits
ОтветитьHonestly me and my other 2 friends are not like that
Ответитьwomen☕
Ответитьim in a trio friend group and im fine
Ответитьdang for me this is just my life and that left me with trauma and I still have dreams of those bad times and I also dream of those friends who were there with me I don’t see anymore I miss them they all moved schools but 1.Juilan he didn’t rly know what happened with me and my other “friends “ but he made me laugh and he’s still at school but I barely see him
ОтветитьFor me, the other 2 in the trio would always start fighting and hating eachother until it fell apart
ОтветитьI relate but can never talk about I cry sometimes not being able to handle it, my bad anxiety makes it worse and I am so happy people relate. This makes my night. ❤
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