Why I don't want a "comfortable" life

Why I don't want a "comfortable" life

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@esraaalnatsheh9350
@esraaalnatsheh9350 - 17.01.2024 23:13

Nice video, thank you ❤

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@lilianokereke6244
@lilianokereke6244 - 17.01.2024 18:33

Thank you for the video...

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@felicefinesse7621
@felicefinesse7621 - 17.01.2024 09:14

Living a more intentional lifestyle is really the objective. You have the right to rewrite your story and even determine this is not how my story will end.

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@zunairbirds3984
@zunairbirds3984 - 17.01.2024 04:06

Beautiful sharing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

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@tomlambert906
@tomlambert906 - 17.01.2024 01:19

"doing the dishes manually" made me laugh. my mother used to tell everyone she had a dishwasher. it was my dad.🤣

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@exploringmindfully
@exploringmindfully - 16.01.2024 14:28

A quote that resonated with me so strongly from this video is "It's not just about the end goal, but who we become." I feel that it's so often forgotten especially this time of year, when we are reminded of the need for new goals in the new year. And yet, by the end of the year, we are not solely thinking about what we've checked off but how we feel because we've done those things, and whether our daily habits reflect the changes in our routine. Your words are a warm reminder that reflection while still actively pursuing a goal only serves to enhance the journey in reaching that achievement. Thank you for another thought-provoking video Sophie 💓

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@booknerd4317
@booknerd4317 - 16.01.2024 03:26

I was working hourly at a remote job and thinking this will work….I’ll go under my fiancés health insurance when we get married. And have more time to enjoy nature and animals. I felt like I was settling and could do so much more with my brain. And then took a full time job making more money than him and turns out I’m much happier with focus, projects and the fast pace world of corporate life… I luckily still get to work from home 4 out of the 5 days. I don’t feel so lost. I don’t buy things and am saving for a house in a beautiful area. I like the simple life and enjoy nature but still need health insurance and a full time job for my mental health. Along with working 50 hours a week I actively read books and have 3 dogs and take care of my bed ridden mother.

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@booknerd4317
@booknerd4317 - 16.01.2024 03:25

I was working hourly at a remote job and thinking this will work….I’ll go under my fiancés health insurance when we get married. And have more time to enjoy nature and animals. I felt like I was settling and could do so much more with my brain. And then took a full time job making more money than him and turns out I’m much happier with focus, projects and the fast pace world of corporate life… I luckily still get to work from home 4 out of the 5 days. I don’t feel so lost. I don’t buy things and am saving for a house in a beautiful area. I like the simple life and enjoy nature but still need health insurance and a full time job for my mental health. Along with working 50 hours a week I actively read books and have 3 dogs and take care of my bed ridden mother.

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@sudaleif01
@sudaleif01 - 16.01.2024 00:56

Do you speak Portuguese?

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@judipryde9043
@judipryde9043 - 15.01.2024 23:24

New subscriber here! I love your channel and your message. I am retiring at age 56 in May and want nothing more than to clean out my house of what I've been neglecting for so long. Stuff that has piled up in the hopes that one day I'll use it "when I have more time". Life is too short to continually trip over the clutter of the past. Literally and figuratively! ❤

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@markdelej
@markdelej - 15.01.2024 21:02

Just found this channel, it is so good. You should research bitcoin. It is a savings technology that makes your purchasing power go up over time. This has turned me into a minimalist, as I save for my future instead of buying unnecessary items.

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@alittleheavenonearth
@alittleheavenonearth - 15.01.2024 00:16

We can have all the comfort , money , you name it. But there will always be an emptiness in our lives if God isn’t part of it. He can never be replaced with anything ❤

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@marleneschick4768
@marleneschick4768 - 14.01.2024 05:32

so nice to meet you in person at Cafe Kopi! Congratulations again, on an excellent "channel."

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@gastronomee_
@gastronomee_ - 14.01.2024 02:06

fellow young creator here, thinking and reflecting on the same things you touched on. go you! rooting for you.

for anyone reading this - i share recipes and relevations as a young person in their 20s navigating this sometimes stupid, sometimes wonderful thing called life. if you're seeing this, i think it's for a reason. hope to see you around.

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@crystalhopper1
@crystalhopper1 - 13.01.2024 16:32

This is a phenomenal video. It has such an important message that I think a lot of people could benefit to hear. I really do wonder how much this excess of comfort contributes to so many of us feeling depressed and purposeless. There's truly nothing like the feeling of accomplishing something challenging or pushing yourself to see what you're made of

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@rosedoenz5721
@rosedoenz5721 - 13.01.2024 10:14

Another wonderful video! Thank you Sophie for sharing this and for all your inspirational ideas! 🩷😘

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@sheenalee7602
@sheenalee7602 - 13.01.2024 06:27

I first discovered your channel last year when I was on maternity leave with my first child. I have been hooked ever since. Your videos are so calming and peaceful and they help me relax and also learn about achieving peace and balance in my life. I, too, also have a problem with Googling everything that pops into my mind. This year I'm trying to cut back on distraction and work on focusing and staying in the present moment.

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@s.sflower
@s.sflower - 12.01.2024 22:28

Can you pls do a book recommendation video?😊❤

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@Aplaceformermaids
@Aplaceformermaids - 12.01.2024 18:41

So many great messages! <3

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@Delaware910
@Delaware910 - 12.01.2024 17:26

My life has changed since that i'm addict to get over my comfort zone, addict to feeling that came to me after this, feeling of growth. This make me feel alive.

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@boonchengyu8506
@boonchengyu8506 - 12.01.2024 17:10

I think our definition of comfort will keep evolving as we age and enter new phases of our lives. The key is to learn to change, adapt to and live with whatever planned or unexpected situation that comes along.

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@nataliastimamiglio8411
@nataliastimamiglio8411 - 12.01.2024 16:39

Sophie, I'm genuinely grateful for the content you generate. Thank you for the positive impact!

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@kusumchettrie
@kusumchettrie - 12.01.2024 11:56

You're an inspiration😍🧿
Love from Sikkim❤

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@Wisdom_Clarity_411
@Wisdom_Clarity_411 - 12.01.2024 08:14

People should want a comfortable life. Just not the American dream life of over excess.

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@18thdandelion
@18thdandelion - 12.01.2024 06:21

For someone who is always seeking comfort, I think 'misogi' is something that spoke to me. Perhaps this year I need to put in more effort to 'deliberately seek discomfort' to grow. Thank you for this beautiful sharing.

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@ILikeBigCatsAndICannotLie
@ILikeBigCatsAndICannotLie - 12.01.2024 01:32

I grew up in an environment where discomfort was expected and was perhaps considered a virtue. I think this is where things are taken to the extreme for example where you don’t have clean clothes or adequate feminine protection not due to lack of resources but just trying to make it with as little as possible because it was somehow “virtuous.” I can’t began to understand why things were like that but I think that’s why comfort has a different meaning to me.

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@geemail369
@geemail369 - 11.01.2024 20:35

Just go camping every once in a while - keeps you grounded, instantly reminding you of and have you reconsider anything you miss to bring, making you appreciate the most basic things,.

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@sandys6379
@sandys6379 - 11.01.2024 20:29

Hiking is just the best!

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@aqua76239
@aqua76239 - 11.01.2024 20:02

you seem to want to reject the comforts of the modern world which is so typical of the westerner who never experienced hardship. I grew up in a different country and we didnt have lot of things that westerners took for granted. Not everyone had a phone, only selected people had cars, we had no video games, or lot of toys and there was only two channels on tv, as a girl I never had pretty clothes or nice shoes, etc. I lived without all of that. Do i think it was a good thing? no. Did it make me appreciate having it after moving to US? yes and I NEVER want to live without the comforts of the modern society again. I am doubt that most people who grew up outside US especially in third world country share your views. What is the point of you rejecting it? no point really. Yeah don't get your nose stuck in your phone, go for a run instead and meet your friends. Thats all good but all this "simple life" is for entitled westerners who have no clue

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@ievadubura2102
@ievadubura2102 - 11.01.2024 19:08

Thank You for video! For me misogi is challenge:))

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@adamnaughty
@adamnaughty - 11.01.2024 15:51

I just got that book

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@bernadettemary2135
@bernadettemary2135 - 11.01.2024 14:42

great video. in christianity a period where we may give up comfort every year is during lent. for example through fasting or giving up something that indulges us (like social media or shopping).

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@poppycalliope
@poppycalliope - 11.01.2024 13:57

Sophie you are a breath of fresh air. So grateful for your content and everything you do ✨️💌

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@chrisoulalakkas7935
@chrisoulalakkas7935 - 11.01.2024 13:55

Never forget that money is infinite, but your time is finite.

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@tenzinteyaso2379
@tenzinteyaso2379 - 11.01.2024 13:54

♥️♥️♥️

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@lovelifementoring5399
@lovelifementoring5399 - 11.01.2024 13:47

Always so much simplicity ❤ thank you

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@annetteaughney9182
@annetteaughney9182 - 11.01.2024 13:32

I absolutely love your videos!! Just recently found you. You are doing a great job❤😊

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@nisha_esha_2010
@nisha_esha_2010 - 11.01.2024 13:24

Nice video ❤

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@jumalo79
@jumalo79 - 11.01.2024 12:54

I really apreciate this content... Simple words but thought-provoking. Thanks ❤

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@tanyalazurka
@tanyalazurka - 11.01.2024 12:48

Thank you! Your video made me tear up and brought new wave of inspiration.

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@annenorton9813
@annenorton9813 - 11.01.2024 11:23

I grow up in Brazil and had a very neglected childhood, when I moved to the US at 19 I had a completely different life, I got so much there and started to consume a lot. A year ago my husband and I decided to move to Italy and life is very different here, we’re not even allow to buy much from the supermarket it is mostly what we need. It’s being a life lesson, to realize that sometimes the emptiness inside of us tell us that we need to be surrounded by people and have a lot.

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@dcktater7847
@dcktater7847 - 11.01.2024 10:31

Controlled discomfort may be good. Discomfort from must? It sux AF.

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@lisas2359
@lisas2359 - 11.01.2024 08:40

Your last point really resonated with me. It's so true that good things require effort. When things are too easy and I suddenly have days filled with free time, I tend not to spend them in ways that enrich my life or make me feel fulfilled. Conversely, when I spend my days slowly and lovingly working away to serve my family and striving towards my goals, I feel a sense of accomplishment and meaning that even the most relaxing days can't beat.

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@omelzablan1990
@omelzablan1990 - 11.01.2024 07:29

Because you want 2 maintain sexy.❤

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@aprylgallemit-dy6154
@aprylgallemit-dy6154 - 11.01.2024 07:29

I'm not the only one.

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@rexwine
@rexwine - 11.01.2024 06:36

I listened carefully to your video. I'm no one special. Just interested. Sometimes people don't realize how little they have to do to accomplish things. The joy is seeing how you got somewhere in the end without figuring out all the methods. You are young enough to reap maximum benefits.

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@robertashaffer3950
@robertashaffer3950 - 11.01.2024 05:17

Thank you Sophie. I always take away numerous things from your videos. All of them to better myself and my life. I am grateful to you, 🙏

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@LorenaHill
@LorenaHill - 11.01.2024 04:29

Visiting Oahu north shore in june. Can you recommend a hike suitable for 6 year old too?

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@leah.waghorn
@leah.waghorn - 11.01.2024 03:59

Totally relate when you spoke of reaching for the phone when one has an immediate question or interest. There is immediate gratification and comfort everywhere in the first world. I enjoyed this video 💛

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@hyehan1296
@hyehan1296 - 11.01.2024 03:56

소피씨 오늘비디오도멋진내용잘봤어요 돈이다해결하면 행복할거란생각으로앞만보고달려왔지만 정신적인 나의주관과 생활철학이없으면 어떤것도 끝까지 만족을 주기 어려운거 잘알고 있는데 다시한번 나를 돌아보는 힐링시간 고마워요

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