11 Signs He’s Serious About You | Matthew Hussey

Why do guys seem so hesitant to commit now-a-days??? Because they don't HAVE to to reap the benefits of a relationship. Ever heard the saying, why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free? Women have CREATED an environment where men don't have to commit. If a man would fix everything around your house, pay your bills, babysit your kids from another father and give you the world without you ever being his girlfriend, someone will take it. If you want something real, you WILL have to wait. You will probably have to wait much longer than it used to take because relationship expectations are so low right now. BUT wait so you will be happy. Never compromise on YOUR happiness.

I really needed this video!
I was losing hope in mankind
and hearing a wonderful man actually ready to get serious into building a long-lasting relationship with the woman he loves, just warms my heart!
Thank you for sharing these incredible insights of what true love from a man looks like!
Thank you & God bless !

He brags about you in front of others? That’s what narcissists do to make other people believe they are sincerely loving and appreciative towards their partners. My ex-husband did that all the time in public. I was always being told how lucky I was to have such a great guy. In reality, he had no interest in anything I did or anything about me and most of the time he ignored me.

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Hi there.. Im dating a girl for about 2 months now.. its going great und it feels like we are already in a relationship or at least working towards it.. and we both feel the same. But the last few days I feel the need to talk directly to her if we are now a couple? But it kind of feels unnecessary, because we probably are a couple, just havent talked it out.. should I still have the "talk" with her? for me I really feel the need to at least put in into words, but I dont wont to put stress on our current situation and dont want to make it complicated.. thank you

What's your view on astrology charts?

😅 That FOMO made me laugh. Once, my bf told me that he was FOMO with other women because he was spending all his time with me. I just nodded and agreed that we were both missing out on being with other people or doing other things. I suggested that we should skip the following weekend of seeing each other so we could each focus on other people or events. The shock on his face was priceless while I waved goodbye and got into my car to leave.

Mmmhhh ll wait….

I normally like your videos but I really dislike this one. Th thing most women are tire of is putting on a happy loving face when they’re getting their heart broken. If a man gave me this wishy-washy response about how h is not ready — especially after having wasted a year of my life telling me he loves me— it is a CLEAT indication of selfishness and lack of empathy. This is a complete and utter turn off, similar to charging on me: The message is undeniably clear and equally hurtful in both instances: He doesn’t value me.

You wouldn’t ask a woman to smile and lovingly let him go when j has just broken her heart. Her feelings matter. Stop asking us to shove them down and put on that FAKE happy face falls with love and concern for his happiness.

After this first point I could no listen anymore. And no, i am not unhealed. I am simply tired f that heartbreaking behaviors. So many Great women aren’t even in the dating game anymore because of enabling
Advice lol his. COACH THE MEN.

Another bites the dust

I love your videos. They are enlightning for me. This talks are aligned and true for myself and my values and beliefs.❤

Tbh i have nothing of the above, nothing literally from this list of things u've said. I am so sad, lonely and disturbed from this relationship i am into. I somehow can't come to terms with accepting that there's no hope and maybe he just doesn't love me and it's all just in my head, my imagination. I've invested 2 years into it and only fallen more and more with no acceptance, respect or care

After watching the whole video I feel numb. Seems like I’m gonna be single soon 🙂

The color cordination on this video is phenomenal😄😍💛💚👌

In relationship his girls friends number one .right

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U crack me up!<3

Haha

Ha just started reading Four Thousand Weeks. Excellent so far

What does it mean when you're time together is always great. Dare I say perfect. But then when you're apart things always go bad. Always drama. Always issues. The only thing that makes sense to me is that he's got strong feelings but when we're apart he's fighting those feelings trying to get distance so as not to be hurt. Anyone with any thoughts?

I saw myself into all of them. I'm the one that have all 11 signs towards him. But he is married 🥺

At this point I am not sure if I am just being too closed off to dating, or if I just keep attracting guys who don't really want to be serious. I have a neighbor who has shown interest in me for years, but the only time he really tried to ask me out was when he knew that I had a boyfriend. After my ex and I split up, my neighbor tried to flurt with me in ways that I would deem somewhat improper. Instead of doing the proper thing of ringing my doorbell and asking me out, he would walk past my living room window and look at me through the window, watching me paint art. I was turned the opposite direction, so I wasn't facing the window. Then when my cat looked at him, he jingled his car keys and then continued walking. I didn't know how I was supposed to react to him, so I pretended that I didn't see him. And then after that, he stopped trying to flirt, because I guess he felt rejected. But I just didn't know if I should be irritated by the fact that he wouldn't try harder to communicate with me properly, or if was something that should be overlooked. To me, it feels like he sabotages our chances of having a healthy relationship by: a) Trying to get me to cheat on my boyfriend, and, b) Not actually asking me out after I become single. It's like he just decided to build a paper tiger just so that he could tear it down. He would probably say to me, "Well, I tried!" with a shoulder shrug. The problem is that, he isn't willing to blatantly ask me out in a way, or at a time that would actually work in our favor; instead he chooses to approach me in ways, and at times when he knows that either inappropriate or improper. Does he just perceive me as a girl who isn't serious about a relationship? I felt like he was maybe just trying to have a quick fling and take advantage of me, and then break it off after he gets what he wants. And I say this because I know that he is capable of asking a girl out in a serious manner, because he wrote a letter to my neighbor, asking her out for dinner. But for ME, it seemed like he just wanted a hangout (he wanted to come over to my place and have a BBQ, and told me that he would buy me a new BBQ lighter (which was actually sweet). But I don't know what to make of all of this. I get the sense that he thinks I am easy, and doesn't actually want to take me out. And this is why guys confuse me. I don't want to be taken advantage and disrespected. I am tired of guys not taking me seriously.

We’re not dating yet, but I believe he likes me. He’s my boss so it complicates things, but he refers to ours lunches and dinners as dates. I haven’t been in his his house yet to know if he’d adjust the thermostat lol😅, but anytime I’m cold he either hugs me and rubs my arm, or hands me one of his jackets. He likes to make sure I’m comfortable, no matter what. Same thing when I’m hungry, he’ll go out of his way to get me food, or meet me for lunch or dinner.
He also brags about me and my child to people. I’m taking it slow, but I’m excited to see where it goes!

ok i need help i went on 3 dates with a guy then he invited me to nyc for xmas i met his daughteer and dad it was amazing and he said i love you on xmas eve , is he serious because he doesnt text much

He respects the thing most important to you love this topic he have collection that moment doing the thing show you you are very important with him

That WORRIED of missing out….is IMMATURE emotional thinking. 1/2 the time these adventures aren’t even THAT fun as ppl post on social media

OMG. I’m soooooo disappointed ❤you broke my heart Matt

This is a projection on life situation the F.O.M.O is cause I was fully able for 23 years. My knee procedure worked for a month. Now I am back to mobility issues with a walking stick at 34 which is frustrating to me. I now have to go for knee operation to fix my knee. So I feel that F.O.M.O NOW, use to do boxing enjoyed it, there's no alternate way of doing the warm up exercises due to the floor ones. It's a limitation.
Thanks so much for this video, your reassuring words. Amazing video

you're wonderful with all your videos and advice - I'm a big fan - well done!

So what if he take care and worrying about you all the time but behind your back he says he’s single and want a relationship 😢 is he only want fun with others or only want fun with me?

Congratulations on your engagement Matthew!

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Congrats 🎉😊

I m looking true love 😍😍❤

This one Matthew has been the most funny and amusing vid I've watched of you.
Thanks for all the thoughts. You have been enlightening to me.

I love this. Ive watched it a few times. Thank you

Now you are talking. That's one of your videos that I totally agree with how it's communicated to women. I see the selflessness and devotion here. However, in order to influence a man to commit and show these 11 signs there needs to be influence back to the woman from the man as well, since this is a relationship of TWO who do the work and equally.
Also, as I mentioned earlier in another video of yours, the couple has to agree on certain morals and views of behaviour, relationships, interests and purpose in life to even start building together, otherwise commitment will be just impossible. Each couple is unique, each person is unique and they have to be compatible.
And hey ! ! Congratulations for your engagement ! ! 🙏💓💫
I wish you both everlasting love and happiness with all warm and bright blessings always protecting you from above.

Great video

Hi Matthew CONGRATLATIONS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENT😊😊😊.🥳🥳🥳..Im so happy for you both..Shes a very lucky lady ...i hope your stil keep doing this ...coz your a natural at this and youve helped lot of people especically us woman ....who lost any trust or hope

He got a tattoo to commemorate the trip we did together over a month while driving cross country, but we're just friends...

How can I go forward and show him that his feelings are mutual without being pushy?
When other women write to me that I should not seek company to people that do not want me or my company , I of course am a bit unsecure what they mean .

How you said "another one bites the dust" made me laugh out loud!

Thank you do much to clarify your view. We are so confused with the romantic movies. Lets rock this thing: called life.

This is a wonderful, positive video! It is good to highlight positive relationship behaviours!

A guy like this is in my life but he avoids the topic of relationships. He treats me like this but we aren't official. I don't know what to do. 😔

I wish I could get a serious man, that doesn't behave like other men who cheat on their partner.

WTF is wrong with Celine? I`m un-like-ing this!

PS: JK! :)

This guys a homosexual? 😆 🤣

🎉Sorry, I live under a Rock sometimes, just heard here your engaged 🎉Congratulations to you both 😊💍❤💞😍🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉Oh and I find the comment another one bites the dust (made by someone to you)just playful,cheeky and not meant in a bad way🤣(just for laughs like the old wedding telegrams)❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤