Giving Birth In Your 20s VS Your 30s

Mentally speaking. My parents had me in their early thirties and weren't great at it. Weren't financially stable, I was often left feeling emotionally neglected and to this day I still don't know how to hold a conversation with my father. No matter what age you are it is your personality that shows what you will be like as a parent. Not your age.

I think the oldest i would evet consider having kids is my early-40s.

I miscarried at 11 weeks during age 20. I'm now 35 and 13 weeks pregnant with a baby who is healthy and measures ahead at every scan.

My mom had me when she was 22 and she was a really bad parent 😂

Well women can reproduxe at 20s becuz they dont need to work they can just be housewife 😂

20s biologically is better and more healthier

Was this supposed to help or completely turn me off to the idea

I’m 25 and my fiancé is 23, she wants to have a baby or babies soon (in about 2 years) and I feel like we should wait a little longer so we can travel and buy a house and learn about each other way more before we have kids. Any advice would be appreciated.

Tbh, my mum had me at 33 and I definitely wish she had me in her 20s. She has a ton of health problems and didn’t really have time for me and my younger brother because of work.

Between 25 to 32 is an appropriate age for child birth according to me... start early if you want many babies .. if you're looking for just the one then late 20s and early 30s shouldn't be a problem... You can spend your 20s in finishing your education, seeking a good job, travelling around and enjoying the single life.... And then once you're mentally prepared, get married and have a child immediately and start a new life with no regrets on missing out... Girls who got married in their early 20s and had early babies usually envy the single girls who have fun in their 20s

My parents gave me birth that's the worst thing happen to me and now they are making me work interact with all the people feel emotions which depress me cause I am not the best in the world I am a low level who can't keep up with world but still you can say as a slave I have to work for my parents to live so that they could die in peace and I will have to work till death to ensure we don't loose our property and live on Street like beggars school, college put in my mind that I have to work I have to learn I have to live I have to do job and succeed further but it doesn't make sence to me I really don't want to do anything and just die in peace but no I can't see my parents suffer this kind of emotions make me sick just waiting for my parents to die so I can die in peace atleast

My mom was 21 when I was born and 39 when my sister was born. I am (and always have been) healthier than my sister. I don’t know if maternal age had anything to do with it though

I'm 22 years old. My mom gave birth to me at 37.

my mom had me in when she was in her 30s.

You’re a bad person if you have kids late

A lot of correlation here being misinterpreted imo.

I'm 35 and pregnant for the first time! My husband and I have been married for 11 years, and we spent our 20s traveling the world and having so many new experiences. We pretty much got through almost our entire bucket list, so this year we were finally ready to try for a child. I would have been happy becoming a parent in my late 20s or early 30s, too, but the timing now just seems absolutely perfect. We have solid finances and many life skills that will help us be the best parents we can be. My own parents were in their 30s, too, when they had me, and they're still hiking up mountains in their 60s!

Tbh I think it's better to have children in your 30's and 40's than having kids in your 20's. Most people in my entire family start having kids young like in their teens/early 20's and are Not great parents. They're hardly even good parents. I'd rather be the best most loving mom ever at 40-something than a distant, emotionally unavailable angry mom at 25 that I know I would have been.

I would love to have a set of twins and get them out the way then probably one more so three

I wonder if this is the case with me (early 20s born baby) and my youngest brother (mid 30s baby)

I just turned 37 August 29, 2023 and I am 33 weeks tomorrow. I can't lie 🤥 this pregnancy came after two miscarriages and I have a pulmonary embolism so it's definitely a big change from my 20's

this is the biggest bulshit Ive ever seen in my fking life... this is total shit

Oh my goodness I want twins! One boy one girl!’

I'm pregnant at 22 😢I didn't enjoy my teenage years (strict parents) nor my young adult phase. Plus I have to drop out college for 1 yr to take care of my baby. I love him but at the same time I feel so sad

it's all economics

In my experience, did not change much. My husband's mom was a single mom who gave birth at 17 in a country with terrible inflation in the 90s and poor state support and my mom had me (4th kid) at 33 with a big family, amazing stability, love, two parents, good education and good savings. WIth all of that, they were both amazing moms in their own ways and both their kids succeeded in my opinion. We come from completely different backgrounds, but they get along fantastically. Other moms I know had so much difficulty, it is clearly not about their age.., it is about the nature, lack of support from people around, state, war, famine, unsafe neighborhoods and so on that can make a kid not succeed and mom miserables. Giving birth in 20s and 30s is not even close to the main reason why a kid will succeed, a family will be unhealthy and uneducated and a mom become overwhelmed and depressed which leads more often than not to some sad and poor decisions or double work for families.

I had a kid in my teens, a kid in my 20's and in my 30's. I ran a dayhome for most of these years. I had waaaaay more energy for the kids when I was younger and would definitely say that it's better if you can to start your family young.

I am so glad I didn’t have kids in my 20s. Everyone else around me was and I felt so left behind. Finances aside, I don’t think I would’ve been mature enough to be a person of solid support for another human being entirely. I’m so glad I waited.

It's funny how I was pregnant in my 20s and I wasn't even in labor long, less then 6hrs, I was more active and had a lot more energy. But as soon as I had my last 2 babies in my 30s, I was in so much pain for both, developed a rare disease called ICP, and both my last pregnancies were 12 hours each. It just depends on who the person is. Not everything is for everyone.

I really believe that doctors must lie to us. I regret that during history classes no one ever told me that yes, princesses and queens got married at the age of 14-16, but they waited until being 20 years of age (more or less) to have babies. I checked and majority of children whose mothers were below age of 27 were dead before they reached adolescence and the optimal age for queens to have children who lived until at least 45 - were between 29-34 years of age. This is really interesting, go check yourself because this is the truth!

Marry before carry

I'm 23 and wish to have a baby with the love of my life but she is 22 and would totally freak out! I could do it but I know we can wait, at least till we are 26. She still wants to travel the world first and finish her to do list! I know it would make me a better man, her and the baby would be my day to day motivation and would have endless love energy! I know I could get superpowers from this!

Hi im 27... Got married on 2019...we are not have a good job and money..past one year only we can run our life little better than past.. . So still we r postponed our pregnancy.. Bt im so stressed and depressed about my pregnancy...

this video is 4yo but I just got it, and it's disgusting propaganda.

Might live longer? Okay ladies go ahead a be the test subject of such findings.

Lol this video is sussssssss 👀

The earlier you have kids, the easier will be for you and less likely to die delivering. That's reality.

You can't have career and have fun like a teenager for the rest of your young adult life if you ever expect to become a mother of children.

Dont fool yourselfs

If you're a woman with children below at age 25 you already won. There's nothing more to really care about. You won the game of life. If this was a video game you got the perfect score. You got these 40+ year old single women still trying to fill that hole they can never fill.

I’m 37, no children or prospects in sight. A lot of nights I cry because I feel like that ship has sailed and I’ll never know what being a mother feels like. 😔💔

Most parents i know in their 30's are actually the best parents

You have your smartest kids between 27-31 they say

I feel like this is super inaccurate considering there is a major decrease in our population and we have more career women now more than ever and less marriages. But also consider the science when it’s harder to have children in your 30s, maybe not for all women, but majority because your fertility is changing. Birth control changed a lot in women’s health these days. So … children will happen whenever they happen. Be grateful ❤

What’s wrong with having a baby in your 20’s and 30’s? That’s what I’m planning on

Hey got another question, what about in your youth? My firstborn was at age 10 (not consensual).

My mom is 35 and she is going for her fith kid and I'm scared she's going to d*e

Women need to give birth as young as possible, simple as that. You fking selfish women who chooses to give birth in your 30s are fking freaks

propaganda

even if there are no major risks to giving birth in your 30s, as 21 year old I still feel anxious about it and rather have my first child in my late 20s at most. Idk I feel being a bit younger and not burdened by a a lot of work is better for the wellbeing of the child. also I obviously plan to raise my future children with their father so financially it will be okay.

Propaganda

Aaaah this is so painful to watch 😂 this is a fantastic example of a source who tries to use data, without understanding how that data works. As others have said, correlation does not imply causation - the longer lifespan of women having kids in their 30s is not caused by when they had kids. When this happens, the entire article, or video, becomes unreliable: first, the convulsions drawn from the misinterpret data can't be trusted; second, I have good reason to believe that you misinterpreted other bits of information too. Such a shame because the topic itself is so interesting ☹️