How to Flirt Using Your EYES (7 Flirts that drive men WILD!)

I look at everyones lips, because I can hear bugger all these days and its the only way I can keep communication going

What if each eye goes off to the side? 😂

When I was young and single in an office full of men, some of them actually remarked that when they looked at me, all they saw were my eyes and my lips. I ended falling in love with one of my male colleagues. We dated 3 months before he proposed and married 5 months after that. We were married 51 years 4 months and 21 days before God took him to his eternal home 2 years and 22 days ago. My husband often said he loved the way I looked at him. I miss him beyond measure and can't wait to be reunited with him.

My husband and I had just started dating. He was broke, just out of college, so I invited him over for dinner a lot.😊

It was the first time he was at my apartment for a meal, we were sitting across from each other and I asked if he wanted to hear a joke. He said yes.

“What winks and screws like a tiger?” I asked.

“IDK,” he said. Then I slowly winked at him with a small smile of my face.

He told me months later his heart did a flip flop and it was all he could do to stay in his chair. ❤

DISCLAIMER: If you are approaching someone and you accidentally make contact with the lazy eye, you may wander into traffic.

WHAT ABOUT CROSS-EYED PEOPLE?

amazing advice to de-sensitise and makes so much sense, I thankyou

This happened to me before watching this video. So on the first day of class, this guy kept looking at me.. as a matter of fact he kept starting at me for more than 3 seconds with a smile on his face. I glance back at him but after that I was focus on what the teacher was saying, and at the same time I could feel him staring at me at the side of my eyes. The 3rd day of school, we had to talk to each other about our class topic since we were sitting next to each other. While he was talking to me, he was starting so deep into my eyes and it was pretty intense. The eye contacts was very long too, maybe for 10 seconds. I had the courage to stare back at him in the eyes for a long time since I thought he was very attractive. Also was looking at his lips because I mostly read lips, so I hope he didn't think I was flirting with him. Lmao. We also was kind of leaning close to each other while looking at each other in the eyes. The eye contact was so strong and intense that I wanted to kiss him right then and there. Lmaoo. I bet the students behind us could've felt like something going on between us. Now hear I am watching videos about eye contacts and flirting. Ughh, look what he have done to me with that powerful seducing eyes. Now I'm developing a crush and can't stop thinking about him. 😂😂💝

I’m trying to get him to notice the interest I’m feeling for him, but I’m sensing he might be a bit shy; which is driving me even more crazy for him. He has me very intrigued with his courteous, polite manners . He radiates gentleman vibes all over. One time we were talking and I complimented him on the green veggie juice he was drinking, I told him: now I know why you look so healthy (he smiled, I giggled) and then something so amazing happened; he started telling me about how he prepares his veggie drinks and the routine he follows to maintain his healthy eating habits. Listening to him talk about the passion he has, and the discipline he keeps; I was like… omgaaaawd, I think I fell in love with him right there and then 😁 as he was talking I was trying to keep the right amount of eye contact; I’m thinking I did okay, cause he did feel comfortable enough to prolong the conversation, he even popped out his phone and showed me the percentages and rates of his daily calorie intake. It was like a free invitation to have me lean in a little closer. Now whenever we are walking far across from each other, we both catch each others gazes and wave☺️

It sucks that our work environment is way too loud, and we have to shout at each other most often, sometimes I feel he don’t even hear me, cause I have this very soft spoken voice😆

Nobody remembers these points around their crush😂

Thank you I am watching your teachings .. love you for showing me I didn't realise such different thinking a REAL MAN sees and thinks bless you ha to helped me much ❤

I love this!

Focus on the eye that is active..😅😅😂

When you bit your lip, I hollered out loud! Just made me laugh. Great video though.

I liked that we got some homework, that is really fun. I am good at non vulnerable eye contact on a flirting scenario but I think trying this with a more intimate connection will be a good exercise as well

The trick to everything is to remain calm

I know this sounds crazy. But I am a nurse and my patients really like me and feel relaxed and loved. I have usually no problems with eye contact with them. So I decided to start doing this with men, I simply imagined they were a patient. Instantly the energy shifted. I no longer am the shy woman but the confident knowledgeable caretaker. Only after that I can play around woth that other flirty stuff ;)

Thank you for not just giving the facts, but encouraging Homework! i need the practice! Lol

⚠don't use it on your professor😑

Orrrr he was just Italian and they greet each other with kisses.

Omg I can't even focus cuz this guy has me ROTFL...knawing on your lips, crazily slobbering all over your lips, talking about lazy eyes and sh*t. This dude is a riot

He wants me to look at him in the eyes. It's hard for me sometimes. I'm so shy with him. I need to learn.

How do I glance down to his lips wen he is wearing mask ,hez a doc

Fantastic

What works for me is when I look at a guy I like, I would smile, wink, then shyly look away from him.

Soft, slow flutter blink with a slight, side curved smile, lips slightly parted while scanning him once, up and down.
Then look away.
Works like a charm.

I naturally glance at everyone’s lips because apparently I have to see their lips moving when they’re talking. I didn’t realize how much till everyone started wearing masks and it became hard to understand people at first even though I could hear them clearly. Lol. The eye contact though phew. I want to not glance away so quickly anymore. I’ll hold it no matter how hard it gets.

Thank you for your help

I work at the hospital, I have a crush on a dr , his eyes are so big I drown in them, idk if something is going on ,he loves to hold eye contact 4 way to long, makes me freak out 😖

Most American and Canadian men are very shy and wimpy towards women, and that is why they end up with asians

“Youthfulness”…??? Hummm, why don’t you do a video for people over 60?

your eyes!!!!!!!!

But then I attract all the creeps and weirdos..

attempts flirt, fails, asks about favorite cheese. yep, the awkward approach of the introvert in play.

Is that possible for a person who's wearing eye sight glasses?

I don’t like my eyes these days. As I have aged they’ve become more hooded so they look so small and it seems guys only like big wide eyes so yeah with the mask doesn’t help. I always look down too especially if it’s a hot guy. Lol

I work in customer relations; I always strive to be professional- however i can’t help having an attraction for some of them, and unintentionally have this intense prolonged eye contact with them and then suddenly, I see that ‘light’ switch on in his eye - his pupils dilate, eyebrows fall slightly and breathing slightly slowed and they just go silent for a second. That very moment of connection is so powerful.

Does this work on men to men as well?

This is dumb

Hahaha

What if he does nothing but looking in your eyes? Do you think that a girl should be the first to talk?

i’m a guy, attracted to men and women, but in general i notice i unconsciously avoid eye contact. so hoping to get better

🙄 laughable

I need glasses and sometimes I have tried to identify what a person may look like. Taking a while to guess the other person’s features. And have realised the person had the impression that I was interested

I met a guy in September... OMG I am still reeling......He was a trades person. I am an older woman. This man left me panting! He took his sunglasses off and made eye contact with me ..I just got totally lost in his eyes....I was in love!!! I need to find out what he was thinking and what he was doing to me???? He didn't seem turned off at my age at all! I do look pretty young for my age! This guy is light and has a great build...I just couldn't look away. I honestly didn't know if he was going to kiss me or if I would kiss him!! I chickened out and looked away, otherwise I might have dragged him into my bedroom!!!!

LADIESSSS
Trust me girls you have to try thissss AHHHHH
ok so basically when you're talking with them in person, use the triangle look. Ok your probably like omg what that??
Well, it's basically just looking at his right eye, lips, then left eye...
But not so quickly, make sure to slowly do it but omgg it will drive him insane AHHHHH it always works for me, lemme know what you guys think✨