Critical INFJ Advice From Experienced INFJs

Where is the INFJ real intentions to change the world ? I see no one heres that INJF..

I just wanna add one more advice here..my fellow infj don't stuck in perfectionistic behavior ,cuzz nothing in life is perfect.

Excellent advice.

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If you seek a partner find one that is an NF like you. Steer clear of ESTP type.

My advice would be to not be suprised if you connect with many other people but that rarely does anyone connect with you. Its a strange thing how others think they have connected with you on a deep level because you have listened to them and learned all about them but they actually have no idea who you are.

I learned a few great lessons, thank you!

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I Just Turned 30 when i realized i was an INFJ The Universe has its ways 🙏💕

I've only listened to the first two advices and I can already tell where this is going; I can't continue listening. The general theme will be to be more selfish , less ideal, and to dismiss our own thoughts about ourselves that others tell us rather than trying to make sense of it, and that will kill everything that makes INFJ's happy. Some INTJ's mislabel themselves as INFJ's, and INTJ's are more likely to agree with this video, but INFJ's find true happiness in helping others and looking for the most ideal path within their visions. Changing this will not make an INFJ happy.

"Be more selfish" I came across this advice before and I just transformed completely to a bright new person it might feel weird to be a bit selfish but it's self love. It's okay it's healthy

I am an INFJ and i need help my life. I wasted many many years of my life worrying about others and trying to find about the best time and circumstances to start living my life. Now I feel demotivated, drained , no sense of directions, hate anger and everything else ! I need a life coaching of some kind.

Great advice. 👍 For me, I always ask so many questions whether they are really really in needs because I have learnt the lesson and do not waste my time in the long run because of their enjoy complaining or enjoy the telling the story of suffering. Until the spiritual world push it the next level and they becoming so so confirm.

Frankly speaking the spiritual world does look like nearby my side because I ask the question so logically and directly until the unseen spiritual mostly notice of my strong energy vs the weak energy probably the negative and positive energy take place.

For religious saying there is when positive energy from the God vs the Evil energy meet. Of course the energy is stronger in the churches or religious places to out perform this task. For me, it is how would the surrounding energy that makes out the outcome. Meaning i play around with the fate and element of desperate it is.

While I would always play the safe card because I keep both the outcome in future. Meaning do not expect too ideal due to the energy that need to invest. They have to give the energy also, because it is their problem not mine in the first place. INFJ door slam or ghost them is possibly happen anyway. 👍

Attracting energy vampires... yes, THATS a big one.

Im 1% of the population No wonder i don't fit in

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The last one hit me the most !! I always try to fit in and I'm starting to become good at it but it costs me all my energy for a poor result

I arrived here to 'agree with someone'...
(perhaps, just a craving)

I can't explain how understood and content this video made me feel. Thank you <3

I consider myself an HSP. I wonder how many infj’s have this same correlation?

I've been so happy,but also scared if I dare say, sense I've learned I'm an infj..This is so needed, I'm 37 and in growth.

Funny cause the only people I am connected with and make me vulnerable are my family members which it seems like they even enjoy hurting me
How am I supposed to surround myself with someone else? 🥲

To live life selfishly. I think always of others before me and most of the time forget myself in the process... Haha... Sad but true. 😅😅

I had to take this test for psychology class.. people always call me weird or anti social and that’s a lot harder when you’re younger

Watch out for the parasites looking to suck the life out of you. Learn to keep people at an arm's length until they prove their worth. Kick them to the curb if they don't measure up. There is not enough of you to waste on waste of air people.

Unfortunately, the advice that impacted me the most is one that seems negative: Be more selfish! It took me 37 years to understand that, in a perfect world, being selfless would be ideal, everyone looking after everyone else, but in the real world, it only leads to people taking advantage of you. You need to put yourself first and then you can help other people.

My family has never understood how I could possibly be okay with being alone all the time and not going to random places at random all the time. My parents in particular have always tried to influence me to "go out, meet people, join groups, make friends, etc."
When I was younger, this easily made me feel inadequate as a human being, thinking that there must be something wrong with me for being happy as a complete hermit. The idea that being a hermit was a bad thing.
It took getting older and standing against my own family before I realized that everyone around me was just pushing their own ideas onto me. So, they were the ones in the wrong, and I am perfectly happy with the way I am. In fact, being anything but who I am, would only invite others to damage me further.

I am still a little lost on where I am in life, what I want to do, and how I am going to create a positive environment for me. But I think, in time, I will figure it out. My inner child had been suffocated for quite some time (parents contributed to that the most), so I'm still in the process of trying to revive him after never actually having the chance to get to know him very well 😂

Lol ditch the idea you may be some strange alien… except when you’re told by people that you’re weird 🤷🏻‍♀️ but don’t worry… I’ll just forget that 😅

The other kids in 6th grade actually called me "Alien" as a nick-name. I didn't like it.

we set our standard to high to other sometimes
well is time for us to be open and have fun while on earth
no one is perfect
we all make happily ever after ending in every mistake our life
it was the sad day make us value the joyful day

life is fair and balance
just step out and play
rather than stay in one place
just let it go
today while on earth maybe tommorow not
when you arrived your afterlife in heaven either you feel regard what you had done while on earth
better just fulfilled the plan of High Standard to God, while as a human act like a human today, just enjoyed the life what God had done to you.
we are God little helper to these sinful world
the future will drive itself, you can't control the future or to stop it, if it was predicted the end is the end, no worries they is another optimistic way, (just rehabilitation the sinner before things goes bad in shape)

we are just overthinking (but in our heart , we know there is God and there is devil, we had mirror)

There is so much healing in this, I think I am a matured infj.. I value myself more and happier as I grow older now.. I used to attract a lot of friends that are a victim of bullies, and suddenly when I decided to spend more time to myself, they will make me feel so guilty that is was as if my duty to make them feel better .. and I took it as my responsibility.. but not anymore as I grow older..

Reminding myself what I love to do as a child

I gave you massive knowledge about me and I have gone very fare into my emotions in life I gave you lots of value from my heart.
DO NOT disrespect me and take my info and twist it all around and attack me with it
I am always open to listen to the opinion
If someone disagree with my ways.
That's fine.

I love construction sites I can be surrounded by many many people just don't talk to me cuz I don't want to talk unless I'm giving you advice or knowledge about what I know I don't know it don't talk to me but I love showing skills off

What is the Shadow functions and and why not want to get stuck in them

I think INFJ have the hardest time taking the first step of anything in life it's so stressful they just shut down but when they get past that first step. There is nothing to stop them

Lost in thought and if a INFJ is traumatize when younger they might spend even more time alone always dreaming. And the subconscious can easy keep you in a dream .
Never allowing yourself to grow out of that kid like stage

No I make a impact any where I go without saying anything it's the energy I put off. Because I own the ground I stand in the radius of my reach. It's a protection trait.
Called myspace

No INFJ does not need to know some people don't want to improve there life.
What is correct people will just scatter out my way if they don't want improvement in there life because if your near the guarantee you're hearing it.

No I never want some else's life.I got greatness that fires my soul I can do things naturally people wish they can do.
INFJ is very different and as people look at me being weird and just don't get it the roll is also reversed

I am very selfish it takes massive amount of time to recharge and learn self improvement. Even though my main reason for is to create heart smiles it is still for me

No nothing is perfect just the way it is.
Everything hasn't proven to be better
And overthinking creates geniuses

I will read into everything to a deep level no matter what I love it I love trying to master my emotions. Take it away from me and I hate life its the loneliest thing ever.
That is how I can make others heart smile

Love upgrading myself if I am not pushing myself in educating myself I get bored and depressed

I absolutely love doing things for others that is doing what I like. It's my favorite things to do creates heart smiles. If I can't then there is nothing worth my time

The ideal path is creating a spider web of options leading to a endless supply of opportunities because in life nothing is perfect so being able to change direction of the path to avoid road blocks that will stop you like socializing a major road block.
One that can make you go crazy and never return.
Myers Briggs is going to have to make a 17 spot

Every life form is putting off energy.
Can't help being a sponge

Noone can understand infj without themselves..