Self Sabotage: Why you do it & How to Overcome it

This is the most important video that I have ever watched. Thank you, man.

This is the most important video that I have ever watched, Thank you, man.

You at least became a creative director before you quit. I even quit before I even get a job 😢

This video is gold!

if negative thoughts aren't reality, how do you know that the positive thoughts are? what if they are not, what if I am a bad person who is just determined to believe that I am a good person?

it's just a question that I want to find answer for.

Hey, thank you for helping find a way to understand this behavior. Once I stared listing my core negative beliefs, I realized how deep the root was and this will take me some time to uproot these beliefs on myself but I know I can do it. I just have to believe I can uproot it, I have to because I want to stop this and be free from it. So that I can live my life moving forward and not be chained by my past and negative beliefs about myself.

Where have you been all my life?! I can't believe that the problem I've been struggling with can actually be fixed! I always thought I was a fake person. Everyone sees me as a handsome man and most people I meet love talking to me, but I couldn't understand why they liked me. I felt fat and ugly. I thought if they saw the real me, they'd run away, so I would push them away before they could. But now, I realize things can change, and I can start seeing myself the way others do

Your a beast bruhhh. Helped me out for sure man!! Did a good job articulating everything keep going !!!

I would think it would be your unconscious, not your subconscious

Amazing video thank you so much well done. :)

Great job, and focus on the positive, you step three is a step one, keep it simple. You nailed it👌✅⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

This is hittin so close to home omg

This was very helpful and great!

I know this video is old but the balancing chairs metafor just hit too close to home man damn... Everytime something starts to work out I just like it's a matter of time before it'll all come crashing down

Thank you!

I get a video that explains my situation and think, it may have an answer, but I get this insane urge to click away.... maybe come back later

nice advise, thanks man

Thank you for this video as someone who has been struggling for years with self sabotage. This helps me a lot.

Thanks, mate. ❤ Weirdos need weirdos.

wow this is amazing and gives a lot to thunk about and work from, thank you so much for sharing!

thank you, after i am finsihed with crying i try to write all of it down

I am the master of snatching defeat from the jaws of victory in my life. I never knew why, until this bald tattooed man on the internet drew me a map. I am grateful. Thank you.

I know this video is old, but I just found it and it really helped. I am a great musician and I keep self sabotaging, I promised myself to change. Thanks for the video ❤

I swear self sabotage has really sabotaged me😢😢😢😢😢😢

Hey! I just wanted to tell you that Jesus Christ gave His life and resurrected to save you from your sins, and then resurrected so you can have life in Him. Jesus Christ is coming back sooner than you might expect, be ready and prepare to go with Him!

Salvation prayer:
Father I pray with my heart and believe in You Jesus Christ. I believe you died for me. I acknowledge that i'm a sinner, please forgive my sins. Wash me with Your precious blood.
Come into my heart, save my soul today. Be my LORD and personal Saviour. I accept you today. In Jesus' name.
Amen.

Meditate on His Word (The Bible) to overcome challenges of this world until He comes! Jesus loves you! I don't know you but remember that God is with you!
Romans 6:23> For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our Lord. 💕🫶🏾

Thank you so much this was helpful

This is so helpful, thank you❤

My dad has said, and proven, to me that he truly thinks that anything bad that happens or has happened to me is my fault, that I deserve it and has said to me, word for word, “it’s probably just a fluke” when I got higher than average scores on a very particular test in school that would have allowed me to graduate by 16. My mum would also hold me back on said occasion along with two other opportunities to move up a grade because “she should be with her age group”. It was devastating every time, but I’ve recently graduated with a few degrees, and am trying to find a very specific full time job. My family’s also recently told me they don’t believe in me in both private and public. As soon as I’m out, I’m thinking of cutting myself off for a time from them.. I’m sure I won’t know what to do with myself at first, but it’ll be better than what I’m currently dealing with..

The reason I self sabotage is because I’m going there anyway. When there’s nothing I can do as people actively destroy my life I destroy it on my own so I can fix it myself and not blame other people.

Bro. I think you just changed my life when you said you would not give drugs or say bad things to people you love. That is true. I don't love myself. Holy hell. Thank you for opening my eyes

Me self sabotaging now by not doing these steps as my nails are wet. But I have sent it to myself on email to do it after going to the gym today. Thanks for this video. I really needed it today

Thanks bro. That was extremely helpful.

Love this vdo❤

I love the real and humorous way you present this and it resonates with me SO MUCH! Bless you for your courage, honesty and wisdom. I think I’ll have to watch this on repeat!❤

Thanks ❤❤❤❤❤

Wow! This video meant so much to me! You really made a difference to my life

Wierdo to wierdo, I really appreciate your work!

You’re an amazing person, thank you so much. I needed to hear this so much❤️

We self sabotage because, we can only succeed and achieve to the level we believe we can. We are limited to our own core beliefs. We will only accept the love and the life we think we deserve. By the time we were 3 yrs. Old we decided, developed how we feel about ourselves, that explains why we see ourselves the way we were raised to see ourselves by parents and peers. Tell yourself you are not that 'loser person' and they were wrong about you all along. Every day visualizing, meditating on a great future and being who you decide to be now. See it in your mind, believe it. Get back at those people and family members who saw you as no worth by rewriting your script in life with confidence and success.

great video man. amazing work.

I love you, your content never disappoints

Really loved the video so very cool.🎉

"You wouldn't say those things..." My father said them to me, and that's why I"m here... Thanks

Terrific! Concise! Implementable! Comprehensive. Thank you!

Thanks so much for watching and for all the lovely comments!! I want to add one more thing: the examples I used for how negative core beliefs start are both bad-parent-based, but I wanna emphasise and add that negative core beliefs can come from anywhere (school, friends, even good parents). Sorry for any confusion!! Love you all xxx