Lady Bird (2017) - the too relatable mother-daughter conflicts

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Could definitely lose the soundtrack.

This mother straight up treated her daughter like trash. That’s all the analysis you need

Toxic parenting...

I just wanna born again and not relate to this for one life or atleast have a dad like her's

Mothers can be some of the worst people on the planet a lot of the time. Their level of petty is demonic.

Bawled my eyes out.. oh it hurts so bad

I hated the movie but damn these scenes hit too close to home

Me and mom ugh

"I'm so bad" 💔💔

It's sad how many people went through this with there mom its actually really sad to be treated like that

I am so happy I’m not the only one who’s experienced being frozen out by a parent. It evokes a really uniquely painful type of shame and desperation - this is the first time I’ve seen it portrayed anywhere.

When I first watched Ladybird I didn't really understand why so many people had a strong emotional reaction to the movie. It's only later that I realised it was because I was raised by a ladybird myself. A mom who herself had a bad relationship with her mother and consequently raised her kids in a completely different way. It made me realise how lucky I was.

God I miss my mom…

My mom think this movie is so relatable like she doesn’t act 10x worse and is way more violent 💀

It’s such a complex situation depending on which side you’ve been on. I’m a single mom and my daughter is an extremely difficult child. I’m dedicating my whole life to her but she’s taking me for granted and drains me because she doesn’t know better. Sometimes I need to take a few hours for myself just so I can breathe. The silent treatment is sometimes necessary to make people go over what they did wrong and reflect on their actions.

"i want you to like me"
"of course i love you"
"yes but do you like me?"

While my mom never iced me out and I think in a lot of ways out relationship is a lot better than theirs, the shopping scenes got to me bad. I hated shopping with my mom it almost always ended in tears. Also when Lady Bird is seeking comfort and her mom is so casual and doesn't seem to understand how upset she actually is. Have your emotions downplayed.... Ough

when i would get hurt and my mom would get mad she would insult me and ignored me or leave the room not talk to me or break my stuff really a great and fun childhood/teen years

I DID NOT KNOW THE EGG CONVERSATION WAS UNIVERSAL!! WHY DOES EVERY MOM EVER UNDERCOOK EGGS 😂😂😂

Did she die in this movie😢

I relate so much with apologizing to my mom for something I didn’t do or did nothing wrong.

I am not a huge fan of conventional comedies because I find many of them to be obnoxious and boring (even a lot of the classics like Woody Allen films). However this movie is huge exception. Lady Bird is so funny and relatable.

I cant relate to anything in this movie. Kids do not speak to their parents like this in my culture.

Luckily, for the most part my mom and I generally have a better relationship than this. That being said, the one scene I did relate to was "Why can't you just say the dress looks nice". My mom is more traditional, so I hated shopping with her because there was always something wrong with the clothes I liked because they weren't to her taste. Even as an adult I will hear "Is that long enough?" "Are you going to wear that?" I think a lot of girls can relate to that and it's frustrating.

i definitely see my mom in a lot of these but i could never get away with talking to my mom like that.

the goodwill scene is literally me and my mom

My relationship with my mother got so much better after i grieved the loss of our bond. She did the same thing to me, made a scandall over a little thing, made me cry and apologize over something i didnt do and ignored me while at that, i hit rock bottom when she told me to end my life.

So i grieved, i was done, it was enough. Now she is just a simple friend i live with, we laugh, we get along, but she is no dear mother to me anymore, she has no access to my heart nor my vulnerability and she will have to learn how to grieve that on her own

Her mom is toxic.

can you NOT blast the damn music???

I’m on both sides in a way

must have been so hard for Ronen to change her accent!

Mothers hate their daughters and fathers hate their sons. It’s crazy

I’ve always thought this: girls grow up to not have an ego, because our mothers remove them. Maybe that’s a good thing, maybe not

Even if you got along with your mom most of the time, I think most daughters and maybe mothers can see themselves in many of these little moments. You still wanna kill each other sometimes lol.

I recently went no contact with my mom. This movie hurts.

My mother has never once held me while crying

I loved this whole film, but I also loved that they chose actors of a realistic age to play the parents of a teenager. I just don’t think you can go wrong with a Greta Gerwing film in general 💕

So am I the only mother of teens watching this and feeling things? I don't do a lot of the things the mother does here - I don't do the silent treatment, for example - but just the overall turbulence. That things can swing back and forth so suddenly over what seems like the smallest things sometimes. I love my kids so much, but parenting is not for wimps.

Honestly her mom is a bad mom. Like this is not the way to build up a confident person by constantly putting them down. I know it’s just her moms own insecurities but damn way to damage your kid

i hate the “they are both in the wrong” rhetoric. that is true. you know what is also true? one of them is an adult.

I actually found out about this movie on the internet couple of years ago and watched it immediately knowing that it would help me understand my mom

A mother should want her daughter to have a better future than she had for herself. She should be encouraging Ladybird to get into a good school instead of saying she thinks she’s too good for their hometown and that she’s going to go to jail.

This movie was painfully relatable, but it does gets better. People grow..... well in some cases😅

watching and listening to their conversations rlly reminds me of me and my mom, sometimes it is the EXACT thing she said like the manner and delivery😭

I remember always being the one to apologize to my mom over our huge arguments even when it wasn’t my fault and didn’t do anything wrong. Then one time she said a bunch of really harsh things and told me “don’t bother apologizing either because blah blah” idk I try to shut it out. I still hate her so much because I love her still.

I could never watch this film cause I could tell from the trailer that I was supposed to relate but I really don't 😅 but I have seen moms and daughters like this in my friends so I guess it's time I give it watch.

There's a scene outside the trial room where she asks, Mom do you like me? mother keeps quiet and she asks again and her mother says, I love you (i want the best version of yourself, for you) then daughter asks that's ok, but you like me? and mother remains quiet..I'll not forget that scene, it was relatable for me, it still is, I feel my mother loves me, concerned about me but doesn't like me anymore...has anyone else felt like that? I mean I am sounding bizarre but I don't feel the love even though I know she loves me you know.

I love that Canon in D by Pachbel is being played in the background, it was used beautifully on Ordinary People.

“Where culture is, like New York” 😂