Adults of Emotionally Detached Parents |"Can The Past Tell Me Something?"|Psychotherapy Crash Course

*Respect and Healing Vibes to all those Breaking the Unconscious Cycles

Love!! You cannot just give us 8min. That's not enough for your wonderful community!! Much love for you and everyone on the channel. Thank you for what you do.

Thanks, Tamara 💖 these are very good questions to ask one's self. Maybe sometimes the answers we seek are already there if we reexamine.

You basically described my late father who died in 2005 and it was only in the last few years through therapy that I realised how toxic he was, possibly bordering on psychopathy but I tend not to think of him often these days so my memories of him are getting fuzzy.

Also my mother who is still going is at least a malignant covert narcissist with a very poor taste in partners and that is the most charitable description that is based on my studying of this subject and thinking about my childhood.

Looking forward with a, sense of foreboding to your video on the dark triad in families through generations.


Keep up the good work

John A P Gault
From Aberdeen, Scotland.

Can relate to so much of this content. Thanks!

Superb content as usual!

If you had childhood abuse and you think you are a good parent; rethink it. What does your child tell you. Some of us repeat learned behavior without being aware. I say this about White descendants of slaveowners. Their behavior is embedded by now to where they no clue of racism. Generation after generation of the same type thinking. You have to break the mold.

Hello great information on this topic. Thank you 😊

You’re so pretty, you look a lot like my sister and niece 🥰
Thanks for all your information and help, it’s so easy to follow your voice and retain what you’re saying, your videos keep my CPTSD ADHD brains attention

I will say this, there is none good but the Father. I appreciate someone that is willing to be humble, open, and transparent to the best of their ability. And I appreciate them for attempting to be a healthy minded individual, that have chosen to attempt to do things differently, as away to becoming the best version of themselves that GOD intended them to be. And I turn enabled them to become the best parent for their children that they could/can be.

I REALLY came here to say that, the spirit of the LORD started me on this journey quite sometime ago, because HE wanted me to get to the place I am now, and I AM grateful for it. He revealed a LOT of things to me about my mom and her family. Prior to revealing to me something that happened a few days ago. He allowed my mother to say something, that revealed that she TRULY haven't forgiven herself, her parents, her deceased brother, and other family members, for dysfunctional things that have happened in her past. I basically already knew that she had issues with unforgiveness, and have NEVER forgiven certain people or what have you, but I had NO idea that it was as deep as it is, or on this level. At times HE would lead people to say to me, that it's not your fault, and in ALL honesty, I didn't know what HE was speaking of until 2 days ago. My mother is SO sick, damaged, and narcissistic, that she have chosen to basically hate me, based off of a speculation that she created in her mind, that stems to something she experienced in childhood. She asked me something several times many years ago, and I told her no each time initially. But the last time she asked me, I was upset about something else, and I told her yes. I told her yes, because I subconsciously sense and knew that is what she wanted to hear. Anyway she was speaking of something that is supposedly going on with someone she know, and again it's just HER speculations, but what she said, about the teenage girl involved, is what prompted me to realize this is how she have ALWAYS felt towards me, and why she have ALWAYS treated me the way that she did. Because she said, pretty much the exact same thing to me when I was about 11 years old, and I forgotten about it until recently, until the Holy Spirit brought it back to my remembrance. And it's a VERY hard pill to swallow.

LOL. I didn't even think about the Oprah thing.

This explains so much.

T.H. 👍

I’ve watched so many “therapists” as well as previously tried to get some perspective in actual sessions that have left me always feeling more confused with more questions than answers. I have done a deep dive into your videos and you have a way that makes it clear to understand. No guessing but not condescending; or just taking the blame for one self or blame for others. I once spoke to someone who made me sound like a definition. I am a person who needs understanding and not told I’ve strictly lived a paragraph definition. I love the knowledge and delivery, thank you!

I would add, an attitude of coldness. Being able to see your child in pain and not getting them help, not getting specialized medical care for things that a kid needs. Now that I have my own son, I'm starting to realize how cold they were towards me.

I know one such highly egocentric, narcissistic and attachment-avoidant man who is highly promiscuous and yet vehemently refuses to use a condom for instance. It feels like an attitude of self-hate and destructive hate towards others … or maybe he’s just terribly dumb … I’m not sure.

You make SUCH good content on this channel.