Why Being DISAGREEABLE Makes You A Better Person..

I’m in the bottom 9th percentile of agreeableness and bottom 2nd percentile of politeness , what causes trouble is politeness, I’m always sabotaging the peace, it’s awful

I would prefer no music and not such emtionally-charged video footage on top of it. Preferably original video footqage of JBP, if any..
@PursuitofMeaning

To learn to be more disagreeable, I’ve been debating online strictly against trolls on videos of Palestinians suffering. I already have the trait agreeableness so I am motivated to debate for the cause for empathy and understanding. I know I was just an individual “sjw,” however useful. I’m done with that lesson now. I have other things to do. Due to my neuroticism, dealing with the anger about this issue helps too. My refugee family is from a heavily bombed country but I no longer get uselessly triggered. This has helped me in real life conversations

I will criminalise trading games and everyone will be criminalised individualised because that's crime really..

Socially desirable by the age of 4 huh? Well tough luck for me coz my father had his own interests put forward instead of mine, deadbeat dad who did nothing to help raise me. Was a social reject growing up but taking steps as an adult to be more social with people.

It makes you kill us.

Being disagreeble is always good for Jordan , a part with women , because in that case you being a man must be the best yourself and work hard in order to satisfy them, and not pretend what you deserve from them at a cheaper right cost. So mr Jordan men and women must be a balanced team or not?

I complained about a female worker using a broom to sweep the table in our hospital canteen. Am I disagreeable?

Sometimes I can’t think well enough to disagree with someone. Need to know a lot about things to argue. I don’t really get angry because I am worried I will loose at the argument look stupid.

Man, I don't know. I'm for sure above average on disagreeableness, but I feel it did me a lot of disservice in my career. It has been more positive in friend/ family relationships in the long run. I find problems in work that even others can see clearly. But nobody will say anything. The last one was that I saw a serious security risk in the building I worked in. Someone high up had made a lot of changes. I described the problem twice to the guy running security, but he just basically threatened to get me fired if I didn't shut up. I immediately quit instead of agreeing. Three weeks later, lots of people were shot up because a desperate person walked right in with zero resistance. It's a hell of a thing to see things, but nobody will listen.

how about the joker?

An iddle mind is the devil's playground

Being disagreeable actually helps protect you from predators..

I try being agreeable, but what happens at times is I feel trampled upon. Then I become disagreeable , this means I'm out of my comfort zone, then I am stressed, it's not good for me. But in hindsight I feel its important to fight back when I see destruction and injustice. I usually fight for the common good eg, pointing out destruction of trees, vegetation for development of ugly soulless builds.

Wow, I'm touched. Finally, I'm being noticed for my attributes.

Please stop adding music to these. We come here for what Peterson has to say, the music just makes it cringey.

Golden, as always!!! So much good life advice here

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Be yourself. I take care of my interests. I know what I want and how to get it. I will engage in conflict if I think it is important to express myself and meet my needs. You do not have to be rude or mean, but it is important to tell your truth.

You agree with people, they call you a pushover, you disagree with them, they call you arrogant. You cant win

Yeah, sure.. But be careful and watch out against whom you are. Peterson should restrain his gigantic ego and mouth. People could ruin their lives because of someone like Peterson. Stop with this working class hero bullshit.

Damn this would have been great if not for that depressing mood music.

I am agreeable at work because in reality you have no control over management and their decisions. I have had bosses persecute you because of being disagreeable. I work in an industry often managed by ego driven workplace psychopaths.

So I would like to have Jordan Peterson talking about
Agreeable vs disagreeable when it comes to woke
and democrats using woke to cancel people, using evasive answers when questioned in public…

To me it seems like a pattern
Democrats avoid public debate / conflict.
Feminism imho is mainly a leftist thing or at least it sprung up from the leftists.
In Sweden one of the names was a leader for the communist party…
The male leaders for the democrats picked this up and called themselves feminists.
And it was bloody important for them, as they could have just said they supported equal opportunities for women and men.
So it seems to me that they put their velour pyama on, set a velour straight jacket on the population.
Then everything went sideways as people stopped voting for them and fled to other parties in such masses that they had to find new voters to survive as a political party. So they started to import voters from other countries ie immigrants.
If you even dared to question anything regarding immigration or immigrants, you were automatically marked as a racist, by the prime minister himself, other top politicians, and hung out in the press.

This is just my own opinion…

But it would be damn interesting to have a professional view on the observation

It's not totally true. I mean people doesn't like receive our true thought, if we do conflict to people and they don't like it, they cut you of their life without discuss.
It's not that people doesn't like conflict, people don't give time anymore and wants only what they want (sorry for my english im not native)

Amazing words of wisdom. I knew this, but having somebody verbalize it in a structured order, gives validity. Thank you, Mr. Peterson.

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What it you're all the things?

Introverted AND extroverted, agreeable AND disagreeable, conscientious AND not conscientious?

As a content creator myself, it drives me crazy that the people that make these videos don’t proofread the subtitles they put on the screen. What’s up with that?

You profit from his material. give three links to three more similar leeches without a single link to the source material. You wouldn't get away with that in any REAL publishing. If you are nolt a ripoff, then show it for the world to see. Like a stand up person. I will try and avoid your videos. Because You don't even bother to teach, like conscientiousness and chaotic creativity. because your title and summary wrongly state what Peterson somewhat displays in your rotten stew of butchered clips. Again a hugely hurtful habit of not citing the original material. 👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎 Thank you. good day.

Not interested in being that way

I rank top 95 percentile in assertiveness, top 99 percentile in disagreeableness and I’m fucking proud of it. I’m disrupting a whole trade within my own city, I’m only 19, the teachers can go fuck themselves, they told me to play life safe. Now I’m improving their lives by selling a more affordable product (I sold a product to one of my past teachers just 6 days ago).

The text on screen:

"it makes you kill us"

Uhh..... I think you mean callous..

I want Jordan Peterson, raw.

It makes you kill us or callous? Automatic subtitles. Sloppy.

Sheep, Sheepdogs, Wolves

The title of this video is misleading. Neither agreeable or disagreeable is good nor bad. They have their strengths and weaknesses.

I'm 66 years old, retired now. I'm highly agreeable (unusual for males). I wish I had been more disagreeable in my life. I'm now leaning into assertiveness as much as I can. Jordan is SO right about trying to stretch out of your comfort zone into the areas that are not comfortable for you (agreeable people learning to be disagreeable and vise versa). It's a work in progress for me. I'm learning to speak my mind better....wish I'd have done this sooner in life. Listen to this man. He's a gem.

That video was so useful

It's a well known fact mental illness in the home is often directly proportional to how disagreeable your parents are. Here we have a psychologist promoting mental illness in everyone's home.

I think you have to be disagreeable to bring out the best in people at work, things don't get done otherwise.

"Callous," not "kill us."

Brilliant

Im highly agreeable and i know what i want and does not involve people

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Is agreeableness linked to lack of confidence in oneself: lack of courage, fear of displeasing others and other similar traits? Many of which arise when one has been raised by an enmeshing (all-devouring) mother. For these poor individuals just making a decision is agony, in case they get it wrong and then love is withheld until she decides she can love the child again.

So this must’ve been what happened to Prince Harry, and his wife, they each weren’t socialized by four years of age.