Why Your Life Feels So Dull And Empty

I just want to fart and be left alone!

THAT WAS TRULY WONDERFUL 💓

Because humans are generally awful

Because it is dull and empty.

Your channel is like therapy to me. This video is just what i needed to hear. Thank you man. Keep up the good work.

Study, it is amazing! I'm studying psychology to work with victims of domestic abuse. We learn and we help ourselves and others! IT FEELS AMAZING!

A lot of this is because of short form content. I just made a video on how you can avoid it and become better.

So have a kid? I’m too broke for that

I don't know, I've had so much heart ache in my life, health drops, I'm not feeling this, the thought of another girlfriend then break up is torture, losing so many loved ones has killed me and now parents are older, i'm 48 and single, have a house and my dog, music equipment , bikes, other hobbies, but i'm in a dark place still.

Everyone preaches to get out of the box and stop the daily working for the man routine, well not everyone can do that, if we fail, who picks up our pieces, my parents, how's that fair for them, who pays my bills, losing a house and starting over is 1000 times harder now days, insurance and cost of living, good luck getting a girl to date you if your poor and starting over, also, your not supposed to rely on a partner for all your happiness, that's a set up for terror...........

Only things that bring me joy are ppl i love, and pets, and all of them go away or die,


what am i missing here, to me this was depressing.

sry, having some hard times with anhedonia

18?! I’ve been feeling this way since I was 12 man fs life be shut

Why am I crying after this video. I guess that's what experiencing life is .

yes and now we have the new world order creeping in threatening a cyber attack next year, the world is a fucking mess like ive never seen before, youre wrong grandpa, youre old and senile

I've been so down and low, for a great part of my life, I feel like I'm addicted to feeling miserable and Worthless, any whiff of happiness and joy, does not feel natural or deserved. It feels fake af. Now after losing my ex woman and kids to another man, I thought that was it for me. Now I'm with a new, more attractive and intelligent woman, I fell in love.. like never before.. it felt great and yes I was super happy, now I'm back to the miserable part of life again. I guess like rapper Gangstar said "Ex to the Next" 😮😮😮

Thank you Cole, this is something I really needed right now in my life. I to am at that point where I haven’t squeezed enough out of my life and I have the hunger to experience more. Continue to bless us with these amazing videos of yours. 🙏🏾

Such a ridiculous lying story. He was homeless but yet he found another woman. Sure, because so many of us are open to date homeless man sleeping in the park.

Hey Cole! You can't always avoid pain in life, but why voluntarily choose pain? Be careful with giving stupid advice. Recipes for happiness are not a 'one size fits all' thing. I'm a transwoman. Got any happiness advice for me? Yeahh, didn't f'ing think so. Don't teach philosophy when you're bad at it. There are vulnerable people listening, so be mindful when telling lonely souls out there that the secret of your stupid success is to desperately cling to women like a simp and pretend it's 1950's America.🙄 Holy shyitt you're naive.

Married three times? Why would you subject yourself to that kind of hell and misery? Try getting married three times nowadays, you'll be penniless and homeless when she's done with you. This isn't the 1950's anymore. GET A CLUE, GRANDPA!

Yeahh, just go out and...wait..there's nothing to do in 2023. You can't meet people, because there's nowhere to go to meet people. The bad economy has destroyed most avenues to communicate. Women are more and more insipid and nasty. YOU'RE OLD GRANDPA, and you don't know how the youth feels NOW just because you were young once and living in a smartphone free society where people were once still kind to each other to shoot the breeze.

I'm trans. I can't have any of these things. One size does not fit all, stupid old man.

Happiness is avoiding women.

Amazing story telling, great story too.

This is a completely different way of watching life.
Thank you, really

But then what's the point? Trying so hard just to feel alive trough emotions, thoughts and body — it's not valuable to me at all! There should be something more than this, and if there isn't, it's all pointless! I need something more

This is literally an optimist self help cringe.

The problem with western society is that it puts too much emphasis on "Suffering in life" and also idealises it to experience.

Whereas in many cultures degenerate behavior was brutally demonised which helped the majority of their citizens stay calm and collected.

Like in the case of your girlfriend cheating. In asian societies cheating is heavily punished (Even men) and also it wasn't advertised or glorified as now it seems to be.

Westerners experienced individualism very quick hence when they see other cultures collectivist they have a feeling of some sort a superiority complex not realising that the homogeneity present there helps them to live in solace.

Now the whole world runs on western principles hence so much depression and also the fact that you can't escape Westernisation because it's hedonistic in nature and no human will deny pleasure.

Finally, I would say we are heading straight towards "Brave New World" scenario where in order to counter life's hierarchical structure homogeneity will be created through artificial means(Gene editing) so the elites can rule.

This what means to be a lover lol

I just fucking hate this life what's the point of living
😢

When you are born with a personal embarrassing problem that can't fixed by doctors and let your over controlling parents tell you what you can and can't do with your life, life seems so meaning less 😢

Probably because it is dull. And boring. And life does have no purpose

Our reality must be created by cruel Creator....so as to see sufferings ....and to overcome it...but why he created such Reality full of suffering...if creator wants he himself on him should try what he wants ....

The last one kinda makes me nihilistic ngl. I get what your saying and I agree with it and think you’re right, it’s just kinda depressing to me personally to think about things that way

Sounds like an ISTJ dude.

Your voice is so nice and calming that is hard to get your message. Maybe it is like that because English isn't my first language but I just get so relaxed that I don't know what you were saying 😂

It was when I watched the film 'Groundhog Day' that lightning struck, and I realised that I was living my life doing the same thing week in, week out. So I changed. I don't fuss too much about the housework (no-one sees it but me); or the ironing; or the gardening etc. Instead, no matter the weather, I go out somewhere different - that's the key: do something different, go somewhere different, read something different; try something different because if you do the same thing, you'll get the same result. My life is richer for it.

wow, thank you so much for this video. It was a gift from God. ❤️🙏☦️

There are tears in my mf eyes.

Because you guys have NO ACTUAL FRIENDS besides your loneliness and self pitty.
Also..
You might be ugly af.
That's your all alone in your room
instead of with girl

i very rarely cry, especially at videos or movies but this made me cry a little, every word was truth, you can't always be happy in life, there are ups and downs, hapiness and depression, duality, thank you so much for making this

Thank you for this video. I greatly appreciate it.
I’ve been feeling dull for about 5 years now after a very bad heartbreak. My first time falling in love and got a knife to the chest. But now I see. Now I see that that is a part of life. Getting hurt and then healing. Thank you, sir.

I needed this precisely today.

What a bunch of crap!

Stop making up shit

Incredible video. This really changed a lot. You are an amazing writer. Don't stop writing like this, it's truly beautiful. The video struck me hard and really inspired me although it's not really intended for my age currently, I'm sure my brain still remember this somewhere. Though, i can see this applied to school aswell. No matter what, never give up

Obviously this needy dude can’t live without a woman 🙄
Sometimes you gotta learn to live on your own without a partner, that way next time you get dumped you won’t sit there all depressed. Love partners sometimes bring drama you don’t need. Specially if you weak and needy like the narrator is 🫤

I guess that's why David Benetar said. It's better to never have been.

Amazing video my perspective of life got upgraded now thanks a lot for the light about the life ❤

Honestly man, i was lying on my bed after a long period of time which I’ve felt like I’m missing opportunities and not living my life i saw this video in my feed so i clicked and man this had precisely what i needed, thank you so much
Im going to try to implement this into my life from today going foward. Amazing work!

Bullshit