Watch This If You CAN'T APPROACH Women

Because the only way to win at a casino is to exit as soon as you enter the casino.

Or it could just be that the woman is pretty and when you approach your looked at as a creep because she doesn’t think your attractive enough for her and that’s where the game ends for men most men are not attractive to woman it’s the truth 65% of men aren’t dating look it up

Women putting men on blast on social media just for glancing at them is discouraging me. Plus more countries in Europe are putting up laws that make it a jailable offense just for “staring” at a woman and/or making her feel “uncomfortable” (UK and Scotland). Spain and Sweden have similar laws.

its like a muscle you hve to keep using it, i studied pick up a long time ago, i was always shit at it because im autistic and it confuses me, but what i did get relatively good at was aproaching without getting too uncomfortable, which is a serious achievment, it took a long time and a lot of rejections before i got numb to it, but because it wasnt getting me anywere i stopped and now years later im still just as sexxually fristrated but because i havent approached in years im right back to square one, and it is again incredibly difficult and im going to have to go through that pain barrier all over again, its a real pest to be honest, i really wish there was a different way.

Pickup turns you into a psychopath/narcissist

Say Todd, I got a question for you...What do you do when a girl asks you to buy her a drink at the bar? I was just wondering cause a lot of girls will do this just to use a guy for free drinks and have no real interest in him. How do you handle it?

I just can't approach or hesitate a lot because no matter how hard I try, it almost never comes from desire. It seems like an obligation.

I just don't feel the need for women or human interaction when I go out. I feel satisfied.

Sometimes I feel the desire for some specific women, but it's a long road to take until I get good and I don't need them.

I'm stuck on approach anxiety challenges for a while.

However, I still keep trying because when I get home, I feel lonely

My question is can I approach women even if I have tiny, baby hands, giant ears, a high-pitched voice, and wear a Steve Jobs-like sweater?

What if you just don't care especially when society is online dating focused?

How do you keep focused and have a positive mindset when you’re never rewarded? I would like to think I’ve been growing and improving, however every couple of months once I start to become sure of myself, I get rejected or denied or something happens and I have no idea why. I then lose all progress I’ve made and start to believe I will never improve. I know this mindset is bad and self destructive, but a year straight of setbacks and negative experiences has me thinking there’s no hope , even though I’m just starting my 20’s

Come to toronto todd, then I'll tell ya

The real question is how to KEEP approaching women when all you seem to get is rejected. If you've forced yourself out of your comfort zone and successfully transformed yourself from a shy, nervous introvert into a charismatic extrovert through nothing but work and dedication, you know that once you do approaching becomes so much FUN! You don't have to make yourself approach because you WANT to approach.

Keeping that attitude is easy for a while, but what do you do when you're constantly approaching, constantly day gaming, hitting the bars etc. but getting nothing but rejection? It becomes harder and harder to maintain a mindset of confidence and high value when your results beg to differ as the constant rejection turns from days to weeks, months or even years.

When you're about to go out on Friday night and know in the back of your mind that if you fail, this will be the 286th night in a row that you've gone home alone, it's hard to stay confident. WIthout SOME successes, keeping the faith gets increasingly difficult. This isn't addressed nearly enough on channels like this.

Cmon
Fam!!
It’s never that deep

The problem is, how do you know you've been charismatic and witty? And does your self perception matter if you didn't come across as such to the girl ?! If have to learn game it pretty much means you have no sense for these things.

Anyone that has tried cold approach in orange county or LA is on extreme hard mode this video does not apply for these areas.

I approach regularly but nothing comes of it. So I'll watch this video.

I'd rather have game with an average looker with good rapport,than an attractive woman with none ,did nothing for my ego back when I was younger and better looking 😑

Is it creepy to approach girls at 50? 😂 No motivation to approach older women over 40 divorced with kids and baggage or bitter towards men.

remember that the girls is your mirror. She is giving you instant feedback on what you are doing, not on what you are like as a person. the reasons why a girl might not respond well to your approach more often than not dont have anything to do with you, i.e, her cat died last night, her boss yelled at her 3 hrs ago, etc...

You want to increase the pool of your candidates to combat a scarcity mindset.
The end goal of game is as he said we develope the habit.
Lots of good advice. Evolving mindset along game is a just a beautiful combination!

i love approaching but sometime i got approach anxiety

This vid was perfects thanks todd. I struggle with consistency and lazyness at times where i'll go approach in a session during the day have a good time ,but I won't feel like doing it again the next day. It'll feel like having to lift weights

When approaching a girl or before doing it what is the best way to screen her, meaning to understand in anticipation if she has a boyfriend, or other stuff like these? Several times happened that I saw a girl alone, I was going to approach her and suddenly her boyfriend came, I say this because a couple of times I found myself in really bad situations where the boyfriend was reactive

Great vid, i have a question though: i feel like game and pua is all about giving the girl what she wants, meaning u are trying to be and act in certain ways to make the most amount of girls like/have sex with you. For me personally this is very difficult, because for me it's very hard to be fake. So is there a way where we can do game while also being authentic and focusing on the things that we want and need from girls? Instead of only being focused on what they want/need. I've been trying to do game in a way that's more authentic to me but so far i have had very little succes, i did around 80 approaches with a few numbers but 0 dates, kisses or sex yet. And the nrs that i do got all ghosted me. (which is another big need of mine to not be ghosted, but that one is already impossible since its SO insanely common around girls and people in general very sadly)

really good advice. Cheers Todd

Thanks mate, just had some fun time with personal 9.

Most guys learning cold approach are introverts (by definition people that don't like very loud and chaotic places where they're supposed to meet strangers)
Thus is normal most just get annoyed and don't follow the process.
Naturals almost all of them are extroverts who enjoy to go out and party
It's just a matter of what your natural personality is 🤷
You have to push yourself just like you push yourself to do all your daily activities when you don't necessarily want to do them

“Love yourself and give yourself the feedback that’s going to be the most helpful for you..”

Funny how the mainstream would never use a clip like THAT as insight about the message these misogynistic PUA gurus are tricking their student into believing

This is what I needed to hear.

I have been starting at different periods 100 approaches, some quick romance and then some kind of emotional recoil and full stop. Might sound like an excuse but still my current reality is this.

I want to have girls in my life now. But the amount of work to achieve that seems insurmountable.

I also feel like the competiotion is better. I'm decent. But I don't think I'm good enough in comparison.