5 Signs You're Actually An ESTP

Definitely interested in that Matrix video if you haven't made it already

Thank you, sir.

Little regard for ... social exchange. .. etc. That's one of the things that kept throwing me off. I would think I sound "just like" this type except ... and the except was either that they loved small talk and talking about feelings all day long or they hated it. And, hate it if it is all day long or without reason- the gooshy "We need to talk" sort of talks, that is - but I love the sort of talk where you meet up with friends at a diner or just kick back and chill at home, or , go out dancing or whatever. But, I also need the deeper stuff. Not the gooshier, more overly sensitive stuff. No. Just leave my life if you are going to not give me a logical reason or simply say "I don't know. I felt mad so I acted like a jerk." Because, my goodness, everybody has themselves some trauma or angst. Let's have pizza and beer, and talk about them, instead.Though, not for around a year from now.

so good, bud

After being mistyped by myself and others, several times, finally figured out, I am an ESTP, and Im female, which made it all the more complicated to be accurately typed. Great video!

Please make matrix personality types video!

Did you think there's the potential for a lot of conflict with Fi authority types? I've noticed this with my ESTP son & fiancé who's an Fi authority type

Oh my goodness . Sign 4. I think I'll go make a t-shirt that just says "Sign 4" on it, for my own amusement.

I spent the majority of my life thinking I do not get bored, because, well, I do not get bored in the way that most people I know get bored when they say "I am so bored." which is usually folllowed by or entirely expressed as "There is nothing to do." Generally, there is always something to do- think, sing, feel, paint, write, exercise, work, something.

But, recently, I remembered a few times when I just couldn't take it anymore, and I was bored, bored, bored ... not because there was nothing to do but because life was being so staid and predictable, and nothing was a surprise. No one was doing or saying anything that was not to be expected of them. Criminals committing crime in the usual way, reporters reporting the same, the police saying the same things to the criminals and slapping on the same handcuffs. People walking down the street, observing and making the same comments about the same things, wearing the same sort of clothes and makeup as usual and relieving their own boredom in the same conformist manner they always had.

One time, I did something that was energetically criminal and dexterous, to the point that the observing police officer simply said he would report it all in some other way altogether as he didn't know how to write it up. And, thusly was everyone's boredom relieved for a small time.

Weirdly, no one ever mentioned it to me again. None of the people I was walking with, no one in my family was ever told - unless, maybe I told them, later, and it was one of the things they had decided I was either lying about or insane for thinking happened- and no one whose property sustained damage ever complained or sought recompense.

I was treated somewhat more deferentially by some people and challenged more by others. Which was, more or less, the same way things always go.

Oh dear .. I can't hear this, very well at all. Maybe if I had privacy it would help. See you in about a decade, then! lol I'll check for subtitles.

Could the ESTP be impulsive thank you for the video.

As an estp, the biggest change to my life was actually finding my type. Nobody can improve or work on their own weaknesses without somebody to point them out. Poking my head out of the estp matrix and exploring what's out there was a life changer for me on a maturity level.

Can I buy you a cup of coffee?
Somehow? 🙂

Well done! Very good work! I absolutely love that you speak slower then you used to. It was a pleasure listening to you, this time.
I have also just subscribed..

honestly i use se ti more than se fe in conversations

Man, I've been repeatedly made fun of in groups for my "mystical logic" and my abstract thinking causes people to think I'm just crazy.

Also real ESTPs can’t stand how low the volume of this video is

you used alot of large words but you helped me realise im an ESTP so thankyou lol

My boyfriend is an ESTP and I'm always amazed at what he can do when he puts his mind to it despite the chaos around him. He is a bit jaded, but he's never let that get to a toxic place. As an ENFP he has helped me ground when my feelings go scattered without making feel inferior. I love the ESTP type. He does fit the stereotype of always being up for a good time.😊 Thank you for this video, I feel like I understand him a little more.

I'm pretty sure this is me

IM AN ESTPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

Miss equating the Ni-Ti conceptualisations of the self with that of the self really hit hard here...didn't even know that existed 😂

estp me wanna closed this video after 1min... make it more concise please...

Bro I grew up in an academic environment that was really competitive and full of expectations to me so I spent good two years thinking I was an xNTJ (half a year later after getting into mbti I was like “yeah no I’m an extrovert”) and now I discovered it was a social mask and I’m actually an ESTP. Crazy how childhood can affect not only how others see you but how you see yourself. I mean I’m clearly not an INTJ, I get bitches.

Andrew Tate is the ultimate ESTP

Estp, your NiTi Section just taught me why I feel a certain disconnect with myself and everyone else. Having to translate internally before translating again externally often loses the essence of what I even started with. So much data and life experience is tied below the surface of niti matrix things just come out so wrong but when leaning on it without explanation I always do come out on top. Just makes relationships to myself and others difficult. I must be a trip to people lol

You just destroyed CSJ

Dude. This is genius. I have an ESTP best friend. And I had him typed as an ENFJ for the longest time. But you just dropped some golden tidbits that opened my mind. Thank you.

I too refer to an ESTP that I know as chaotic and he refers to himself as an agent of chaos. Very spot on description that I have seen from my INFJ lens. They're very adept at knowing who they can be punchy and or jokey with, who might need to be brought back into the social atmosphere (the loners), and I have experienced them sometimes going to others to verify information for their Ti at times. They feel like sandpaper but they're great at smoothing out the jagged parts in others or pointing out areas where others could benefit from going with their own chaos, rather than perpetually resisting it. A thoughtful type indeed.

Si fi grew enough to mimic istj ?

My adult, ESTP child. To the letter.

Super stoked you finally put out stuff for ESTP. Loved listening to your take on personalities to help find my type but the more I suspected I was ESTP, I couldn’t find any info from your channel on them. Looking forward to more!

ESTPs are too busy making moves and getting attention to worry about silly little things like who they are inside /s

Thank you so much for this! I've been contemplating whether I type as an ESTP. Most of the sources I'm reading are very stereotypical. I've watched other videos with explanations I could relate to, but it felt like they were trying to jam it down my throat. It's irritating, makes you question the intentions of these sources.

"I don't believe any type is limited in what they can achieve, but have noticed sensationalist attitudes and internet trends propagating a culture in which type-development is actively discouraged in favour of conforming to simplistic archetypes." and for that you got yourself a new subscriber! 😎


*Putting this down for personal research.


5 Signs You're Actually An ESTP


Sign. 1: SeFe Dominance

You engage with external reality in an intense manner.

The wat you engage socially is precise and often fast-paced.


Sign. 2: Fe Novelty

You are easily bored in social situations, enacting novelty in order to 'liven things up' and socialising more to get stimulation for the sake of communal belonging.


Sign. 3: Holistic Logic

You think more in terms of logical shapes and 'common tones', in a more musical manner based on frequences.

Your logiccal process is non-sequential, often hard to put into words, sometimes causing you to keep it to yourself lest you be misunderstood.


Sign. 4: NiTi Matrix

You navigate life probabilistically, turning chaos into opportunity.

You double-down on a signle model of reality, illuminating any loop holes it contains.


Sign. 5: The Ti Authority

You tend to take up the mantle of the protection and preservation of truth and logic.

Your pressure points tend to be around logical inconsistency, hypocrisy, and thoughtlessness.


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That “…moody, withdrawn, and cynical. Those would be many of the ESTP’s in this community typing themselves as INTPs for some strange reason.” got me.

I'm constantly typed as INTP when I do those online tests - perhaps it's that Ti Dominance?

So far, I've hopped around being: ENTJ, ISTP, ISTJ, ISFP, and now: ESTP. Idk how I ended seeing myself in all those types. It's just that every time I do some introspection in reference to those types, I end up being left with more questions than answers.

Still trying to understand the NiFi blindspot. Not gonna lie, as much as I like nerding out like this, I feel like my brain is getting fried. 😵‍💫

I'm an ESTP... I don't understand what you're saying 😂😂 weeeeee 🤸🏽‍♀️🫨😎

Never felt more like someone peering into my soul than this video, awesome😎

Been annoyed with the typology community lately, but my goodness does this video fill me with more hope. I pibe the nuance and appreciation for the various interplay of functions. 👏

Hard relate as an ESTP with the Ni-Ti, btw.

I love your videos, but this one was hard to hear because the volume was too low... I'm sorry, don't mean to be rude, it's just honest feedback.
Many insights on this great personality! Have a wonderful day! 😄

I really like your content. Sadly, I wasn't able to find any videos you made about ENFJs. I would really love to hear your thoughts about my personality type.

INTP vs INFJ video?

You know, Harry. I've been coming up with a theory related to statistics and personality for a while now, and why there are so many misstypes in this community.

And it has to do with a specific question: is it valid to believe that convergent thinkers like INTP and ENTJ move away from MBTI due to lack of creative freedom to conjecture? Considering a community capable of lynching those who don't follow the rules of Jung and Myers-Briggs, mainly.

What do you think of this?

What happens if a person is unable to use their dominant functions due to some sort of accident. Si user gets amnesia and can't remember things, Se user gets a physical disability, the football user who can no longer play, or T-dom gets brain damage, etc.. How would the person behave and how would the other functions compensate?

I've known I'm an "estp" for years, but listening to you talk about my personality type makes me want to find more of us.

Looking forward to more content about ESTP, which is an amazing but very misunderstood type in my opinion. Can't wait for individual videos about ISTJ and ISFP. I feel like these two types need more deeper understanding.

Looking forward to when you post a video about the subtypes of the INTP!

I know this video is not about INFJ but it’s your newest video so I hope I get a reaction. Sometimes I want things in my benefit and want things the easiest way, not allways life is never black and white like that, but am I still an INFJ for that.

This may sound ridiculous to some, but I would love to hear your perspective on being potentially mistyped between INFJ and ESTP. Is it even reasonable that this should be a difficult axis?

Thank you. I discovered that I'm an ESTP today actually. ESTP - 9w8 963 sp/sx. I had a very hard time typing myself because I couldn't view myself objectively, I didn't know what I was or wasn't. But now I see how I ACTUALLY act in situations after years of thinking. You mentioned the loss of personality and that is so true. I feel like who I am is how I act in the moment and for a long time I was very down and unmotivated. But now I walk 10km every day and I feel great again, I understand myself and I know my walls and the confidence to break through them.