9 Habits That Are Destroying Your Confidence

Damnn…

This video is just came in my recommendation just in SUCH PERFECT moment where my self-esteem is at my lowest point. Thank you so much for sharing this video! I've never realized I did all of them that ruined my confidence.

Hat's off for script writer

this is so true caz I can relate to this video

This video actually shocked me. As it played I was like "Oh my god , this is so me that it's scary"

You can care about what ppl think but be humble, detached and intelligent about it.

Hummility is realizing that bad emotions happen and fucking up happens and that it happens to everyone its all about how you process it.

Detached in the sense that you care but the moment its in your best interest not to care you make that shift.

Intelligent in recognizing and processing in a strong way

unfortunately I've all these on me 🥲 and I really want to fix this badly

Me realising I have about 7-8 outta 9 of these habits is crazy. I must change

I understand this... but what do I do 😢I feel lost and keep ruminating and don't know how to get out of this cycle

Goona work on it now 🌻🌟

Needed this, thank you!!!

Очень познавательно❤ thanks 🙏

This is so mee

The video is good
Love from india❤

yay my confidince is no longer a negative number

Thank you❤️🫂

Quite many habits describe me🥲

You care too much with other people think

At home, i think im pretty, nice, cool and funny but when i enter school i feel ugly, annoying, shy and the "weird one". But in front of smaller groups like my real friends i feel like at home. Becouse maybe they are my home. Can someone help me?. I guees its becouse of childhood trauma. When i was a kid, i was bullied by other kids becouse they always says sh1t then you cried when you are trying to make friends then you still play with toys as 8 YEARS OLD!! And now i am a little scared to talk to people at school.

The first one is so real

I feel so much more confident after this!

"you become what you think" hits me

Man I do every single one if these😐

I feel so much more confident with this now, thanks!

I stopped sharing at work when I realized upper management only care or want what they want to do , and asking is just part of the norm yet doesn’t matter.

I rlly struggle with confidence and talking and explaining things or topics or anything tht ppl ask in a normal or debating way has always been so overwhelming for me-
Im going to overcome this hurdle someday I promise😣
Yall can do it too!! Don't give up

cfbr

❤❤❤

for number six im kinda the opposite, the more confidence and excitement i put into my skill, the worse i perform, but whenever i tend to lower expectations from people, i guess it gives me more space to perform however i want

Honestly when I get something wrong on school work I just want to cry and I come home telling myself I’m not good enough.

Confidence comes from competence . The only way to get confidence is aceept your flaws

I truly say I'm the one involved in all these 9 mistakes...i now think that i have been doing these since my 7, 8th class ..and now I'm in 12th.....
Especially the teachers of my school have made me least self confident, and my parents too sometimes... I'm this low in self confident that i haven't talked to any of my friends at my new school simce 2 years except a few.. I'm preparing for tough exam like Neet and yes this demand patience and situation handling...and as you said rumination, ... and i believe if i overcome my low self esteem...i truly can crack anything i want....i have abilities in cricket which my parents don't allow...and i have been sitting on my couch simce 2 years due to studies for neet and have become A Fatty..💔

I don't know what I'll do in my life

I liked this script it showed me something😮

Thank you thank you thank you. I'm watching this 3 years late, I know I know. But all the people I watch on yt just say "fake ur confidence for 3 weeks, trust me it'll work!" No, how do I do that? How can I be confident?

Let’s say I didn’t have the right guidance, and believed wrong things

RUMINATING IS ME

let's grow into our better selves! ✊🏾:)

This has given me more insecurities 😂

Thank you so much ❤

this video is very relate with me.. thanks for creating this video. And I agreed that positive afirmation in EVERY SINGLE DAY of people with lack of confidence or having fragile mentality like me is such as basic needs. huffttt

you are a blessing to so many people around the world

Me realizing that I have been doing these habits like, every single time I'm at social situations 😭. SHIT

nah im just ugly

Thanks this really helped

hmmm...

it's easy to boost my self confidence. Every now and then I take a look under my shorts and say "oh yeah Daddy's proud of you" 🍆😁