How To Breakup Like A Man | Tips To Heal Your Heart

Danke viel mol❤

I know we're not a match but damn it's difficult to end things

GREAT POINT!!!! If you have great confidence it will hurt less.
The less confident, the more it will hurt.

I wish I can have a rebound whatever but it's hard for me to get anyone new. I'm not attractive.

What socks about break up is only very unusual girl finds me attractive which means it'll be years until I find someone new. Man, I miss the sex.

My advice: Never take advice from a guy with ear-rings!

What should i do

Classic Alpha here. Calm, informed, sincere. What a throwback.

Nice of you to not have any sponsor-break in this video

Thanks man I appreciate it

I’m in a rut alpha 😔

There was a chick who came with erasmus to my country, we hanged out couple of months hooked up and now she is leaving. We both knew it was gonna end one day but it still sucks. I will focus on myself more and try to create my best self.
I will update this to see my own develop. Wish me luck bros

kill me now

ofc its cast away lol

It's difficult. She has these horrible mood swings and takes them out on different people each time. Me being the closest one to the firing line, it's been me the past couple of occasions.
You see, we first hung out more than a year ago and she threw herself at me in my car, telling me how good looking I am, we kissed for over an hour.
Then she said she had family issues and I didn't see her for 5 weeks, when I did we had a couple of amazing dates — the final one on the beach holding each other and kissing.
But she told me that day she had a boyfriend and from there kept cancelling our plans despite saying she'd ended things with him, the final time she became really abusive and angry to the point I had to block her from everything.

Yet, somehow she found a way to email me several months later and attached a letter. I didn't want to read it, but after 10 days curiosity got the better of me.

In the letter she told me how she knew we should be together and urged me to take another chance on her. She was adamant that we were meant to be together and her mental health was sorted.

I went round to hers and we began seeing each other. It was bliss for several weeks, I've rarely been happier.

Then she blew up at me over nothing, wouldn't see me, kept texting accusations and abuse. I thought it was over, but she came back and apologised, crying in my arms.

I haven't felt the same love for her since though, it's tainted. Then today she blew up again, this time because I clicked on someone's Facebook pic. She accused me of being a womaniser, fishing around, questioned why I was friends with women... All via a series of increasingly abhorrent text messages.

Tonight she smoked weed like she does most days, decided she'd had an epiphany that we needed space... I wanted space after 10 days attached at the hip, but now I'm not sure if I should break up with her.

She's physically attacked her ex-boyfriends and co-workers. Her light is so bright but her darkness is pure evil. I'm addicted to the light but these low moments kill me. I find myself broken by it, and I realise she's basically:

Lied when we first met.
Lied again about breaking up with her bf.
Broke my heart that first time round.
Become abusive that time.
Manipulated me to get back with her.
Blown minor things out of proportion.
Bragged about attacking/harming other people.

Now I realise I need to end things if she doesn't, but she lives 5 mins walk from my new house and has 'joked' about smashing the windows etc if I break up with her.

I wish I'd never met her and my heart hurts over how it's gone. I was really starting to build a good life for myself until she found me again and I cut off friends, couldn't rent out my new home as intended etc.

She also bragged about cheating the benefits system to get more money as a fake medical patient.

Why can't I just walk away and be relieved? I know she's ruined a lot of people's lives and got away with so much, I realise she's a manipulative psychopath. Yet I'm unable to tear myself away.

Any advice?

Never getting in a relationship ever again 💔 God please heal me

my gf left me after 1.3 years for not much attentions and after we got up she starting cheating

What if you don't feel like you have anyone it's been 2 years but I still feel like garbage even with the friends I have at times I feel like I'm just there for their entertainment. I feel as if deep down they laugh when I try and communicate with them.

If she doesn’t want you anymore, get out of there, man up, you’ll be ok 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

I would binge watch Swinger.
Thanks for the tips. I'm in need of some.

I need help

I really just need to vent more. My girlfriend of 1 year left me yesterday, and I’ve honestly never felt more crushed. I’ve never loved someone as much as i loved this girl. We both planned out future all the time, and it seemed like out of no where she decided to up and leave me. I’m in so much pain it’s unbearable.

Watching this as a woman, lmao

Thank you for this, I broke up with my girlfriend 8 months ago because she just kept asking me for money and she just kept taking advantage of me and she showed no effort in our relationship, I do miss her at times but I had to do this for my health..

I don't have friends. She was the only one that was my everything, i made my life surrounding her ... never imagined anything without her. She was the only person whom i can trust and live with plus she was enough... I never had good friends, always got false ones... Now i am all alone and the worst part is i left her because i had to... It stinks man... every second... every minute... it feels so horrible ... i will come back to this comment if i find myself happy ever again...
My wishes for my future:
1.) To have true friends
2.) To have a good life partner

This is not what I need ...
I'm not going through break up, I want to break up with my girl without hurting her feelings.. so help please 🙏

This man helped me get into a relationship, now he helping me get over it. Amen

But it hurts like hell, its like someone ripping from inside. Can't sleep can't eat can't work - I have no idea what to do.

I really wanted to that she will be the real one but she isnt..but i cant forget that memories ahh...

6 years deep and engaged , the last year I really gave her my all… and then we split. I felt a digesting pit in my stomach

The hardest part is when she moves on fast. The thought another guy being intimate with the girl I put all that time into hurts like nothing else

Pretend you don’t care and fake it until you make it. It help! Don’t let anybody you know that you are hurt!!!!!

it hurts when the reason you broke up isn't because one doesn't like you anymore, but because you knew you two wouldn't work out

He looks like Hugh Jackman 😂

Dreams can turn into nightmares

The woman I thought would spend the rest of my life, we have a beautiful girl and a family. In the end, she betrayed me with another person just for money, and to make matters worse for me, I found out when I was tested for sexually transmitted diseases and I tested positive. It was very hard.

When you have a child it is more difficult, you are dealing with the loss of the relationship and the family, now I am fighting for the custody of my baby, because she did not allow me to see her, only to hurt me.

Hold on guys, things would get better with time. Good hearts are always welcome in everything, not just for someone who wasn't good enough to appreciate it.

Stay strong, stay real.

It's harder when you met the person on wrk, also when they live 10mins from work.

It happend out of nowhere, we caught feelings. It was beautiful it was great.

She made me see again that I was able to love and be loved, which was a big deal for both of us.

She left me once, and it felt like a short break, she left me twice and I was done.

Guess I reminded her too much of her exhusband with how caring I was after all.

Worst part is having to push someone out of your heart you still care for dearly but realising you need to in order to heal and move on.

No need for bitter feelings, I wish Yvette you will find the things that make u happy, even if that is not me❤️

Wait, I thought this was a tutorial on how to actually break up with someone, not to deal with it

Man what happened to you? This video alone helped me through a lot. Checked you out just now and everything about you is completely different and buck wild and not in a good way.

Going through this right now. Anyone got any other tips that helped them get over their breakups? Literally anything is appreciated at this point

Thank you brother 🫂

I broke up with her but still feel depressive but i felt like it was the right thing to do at the time any thoughts on what i should do.

I just need my friends but tbh since being with her I haven’t made time for them. I feel like a c*nt.

They say it’s men that are ruthless all I can see is majority of men with this pain. It’s crazy how they change from one day to next. Unrecognisable - I’m just mad I sacrificed certain things thinking this was wifey for lifey. Never again - we had a life before them and we will have one after them.

It just hurts like you’ve been mugged off and you can’t fight them you just have to deal with the pain.

nice guy by the way =)

Here’s a couple tips for the future. Never date a woman that’s too into herself. Never date any woman that’s even a little feministic. Don’t date single mothers. Have standards and stick to them. Find someone who is grateful to have you and happy to do things for you. Stay strong brothers.

Being a loner after breakup is not advisable go out meet friends family and avoid doing things that you used to do together

Does it mean I’m a failure if I’ve already binged on weed and self isolation