First Gay Bar Experience...

Folks can be so forward and aggressive yikes

The voice over was the best part 🤣

Wow, I am glad you are fine after that terrible experience! Take care!

I have a friend who I kinda sorta suspect wants to drag me into a gay bar and see what happens next. Not for his sake by the way, he's straight and implied several times during our conversations that he wanted to do the matchmaker or the wingman for me.
The thing is that I'm an introverted (and probably on the spectrum) guy who doesn't like crowds, noisy places, small talk, and have no idea how to flirt. Also I never set a foot into a gay bar, I probably don't belong there anyway...

But I do wonder what would happen in this situation.

Omg this is embarrassing

so adorable. would be surprised if he didn't have a line of stalkers, although admittedly creepy to have the power taken from you by a stranger. Not sure that the stalker was a mean gay...more like an obsessed and horny gay. thank god I'm now old and not having to rely on bars.

Do trust those friends
They got no close

I haven't been gay bar in my life yet, I really should try at least once in my life.....(who wants to accompany me there??)

Hey handsome daddy 😍😘🙌🏳️‍🌈🌈

I feel like all the gay dudes just grope me as I walk by every time I go to a gay bar 💀

I mean he’s kinda cute


But I wouldn’t pull him
In the bathroom


Ugh


No way

My first time in a gay bar was so terrible first time when I walked in so many guys were looking at me and I didn’t know how to react to it I just turned around and walked away

People who are critical of you are "your" people"?
The LGBTQRZ cult just recruited another member.

OMG, that's basically sexual harassment or an attempted oral rape! I'm glad you stood your ground. The way that guy behaved was beyond pathetic and desperate lol

First off, love the lighting, etc. for the video. Looks good and you look handsome as always. Now back to the story you shared. Man that must have been awkward! Not cool that you got put into that situation but luckily dude wasn't going to be able to get you into that bathroom. I remember when I first walked into the "biggest, best" Gay bar in town when I turned 21. (Even though I was able to get in to other bars before then with my doctored ID). I was this short Twink that looked young for my age and was amazed at all that I was seeing. Within minutes of being in there I get introduced to a couple of drag queens. One of them asked me: "Do you pluck your eyebrows?", Me: "No...", Them: "B*tch!'" and just walked away. It's how I knew I was home.

You missed the great age of discos in Toronto. Chaps, Boots, Katrina's, Cornelius, Fly, The Barn... we danced all night.

Well you are brave and good on you for standing up for yourself and to what you strongly felt about not going to the toilet , obviously you have alot more class so good for you like I always say your a Angel 😇

My bar/club period was the early 80s specifically 1982-1985.

I had a blast, several hookups, but mainly I went to dance!!! The music of that period was fabulous..... disco and hiNRGY.

You are so pretty

I love your content man! You have an awesome personality! You help make me get comfortable in my own skin.

What are the chances of me getting your number? Hahaha jk

Keep up the good work 😆

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Sumpathise.. i've had guts ffomvthe clubs gollow me home etc, truly disturbing....

Sad that this dude your coworker brought was so crazy...could be a really nice friend but he already ruined everything with his bad personality issues. That's why they say some people have a beautiful face but they're the opposite inside. I was once in a gay club but never wanted to go again...I felt so misplaced...like my body and appearance doesen't belong there. Also drugs are a major problem at gay parties cause some of those dudes can't have fun without using something. I can't understand the reason.

When is your birthday?

In my very early days I went to a pub/disco near my home; a good friend came in on his very first visit to a gay disco uand he nearly died when he saw me there. He left in a hurry before I saw him. He phoned his wife and asked her advice; she said 'Well, he's got to know eventually so you had better go back in!'.

good story - thanks - I find it refreshing to hear a young gay guy aware of his boundaries and holding himself with such a chill manner. You have much to offer and a strong sense of your Self. May these things never erode or change for you except to grow stronger and warmer; you have warm inviting presence.

Wait. The dude wants you to go to the bathroom with him so y’all can have sex, you make it clear you’re not interested, and he grabs your arm and tries to pull you with him? Isn’t that straight up assault? You handled that way better than me, because I would have knocked him cold. Also, the fact that your straight friend conveniently “got a call” and left as soon as the other dude got there was a huge red flag that it was a setup. I’m really sorry that was your first gay bar experience! I’m too old to go clubbing anymore, but when I did, I always went with a group of close friends, that way there wasn’t any pressure or awkwardness.

I remember my first gay bar experience! I hadn’t been out all that long, and a few acquaintances of mine took me to this one bar, propped me up on a stool and said, “Okay, just sit here awhile and observe.” They did check in on me a few times, but after 45 minutes, they asked, “So, what do you think?” I replied: “Take me home. I’ve wasted an entire evening here - I could have been practicing (I’m a pianist) or reading. I don’t belong here.” No one - aside from my acquaintances - spoke to me. No one tried to drag me off to the restroom - hey, if someone had, at least I could have told Mrs. Strakosh that things were looking up. Obviously, I never went back. Don’t do bars - don’t drink, absolutely despise small talk and can’t stand the noise. My husband’s story is rather similar. We’ve been together 22 years and legally married for 18 - and no, we didn’t meet in a bar. Oh, that bar I was taken to closed a long time ago - I would imagine the AIDS epidemic did that place in.

Not all gay bars are the same. They vary a LOT in clientele, themes, etc. But, in general, I love gay bars--it's really nice to be with our community. 🙂

Definitely true about the heads turning to see who just walked in. But I would say the effect is somewhat increased when you’re like 7 feet tall and gorgeous
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Geez, an applause for holding values cuz it seems like many gay guys have some kind of sex obsession and lust, not love and I'm sure after that, that's all and he will take u like a cheap thing, people really need to hold themselves and behave like humans

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Me thinking you said “He got the ji*z” but you actually said “He got the jest” after I played it again to hear better lol

A note on gay friendships. I've often thought I had close gay male friends until I depended on them. Rarely did they want to be inconvenienced when I asked them to help me out. There are always exceptions but they are rare. The other side of that coin was friends who would be dating my so-called friends seem to think it was OK to hit on me when their partner's backs were turned. I've never had a gay friend behave how I would have behaved had the situation been reversed.

Gay men have very poor boundaries here in the west.

My dream is to go to a gay bar or club. I live in a violent homophobic country

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Where in the US do you live? I would love to date you!

Cute story from a cute man although I’m way past my first Gay bar experience😊 Mine was pretty funny also😂

Love your videos 🫶🏼

If he really liked you he should have asked you out on a date rather than trying to get in your pants. For me the most fun thing to do at a bar is dance; because it is such a stress reliever.

Your story was interesting to hear. Glad you stood your ground with that guy. Any way enjoy your videos, handsome.

"Have encountered the 'mean gay' in his Natural Habitat." One of the most telling statements I've ever heard (on this subject) and so spot on. Thanks for sharing your encounter.

Great story Matin! I can picture the guy trying to drag you to the restroom and you hanging on for dear life jaja 😁 . I have social anxiety as well and am intimidated by gay bars . So how did you find your circle of gay friends? social media?

I have never felt more judged than in a gay bar. Awful. This doesn't happen to me in straight bars, so I haven't been back to a gay bar for more than 12 years.

Oh you poor baby, you had to fight off a sexual assault, gained a stalker, and had a bad blind date all within 45 minutes. I have been to four gay bars here in NYC a handful of times, and each time it terrible experience for me. I prefer the straight bars, myself.

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Well to be honest I can’t blame that guy for trying to get you in that bathroom!!! You’re so gorgeous and great personality. Love you 😘